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« Reply #8145 on: July 07, 2018, 09:16:23 AM »
Bones, Bagpuss was a cat in a kids' show when I was small, very cute!  I don't think he's on TV here anymore but you can still buy the toys - here's a YouTube clip :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Lies5RLPIE

The one I saw in the garden had the same sort of face but wasn't pink :)  Lol

I hope things go okay on Monday.  I find waiting for things I'm anxious about so difficult to deal with.  I'm thinking of you Bonesie, lots of love xx xx

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« Reply #8146 on: July 07, 2018, 09:34:47 AM »
Bones, Bagpuss was a cat in a kids' show when I was small, very cute!  I don't think he's on TV here anymore but you can still buy the toys - here's a YouTube clip :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Lies5RLPIE

The one I saw in the garden had the same sort of face but wasn't pink :)  Lol

I hope things go okay on Monday.  I find waiting for things I'm anxious about so difficult to deal with.  I'm thinking of you Bonesie, lots of love xx xx

That is a cute cartoon with the stop-motion technology that was used way back when.  And to see a live cat that resembles Bagpuss....LOL!!!!

I'm still anxious about Monday and I appreciate all the support you can give.  Thanks.
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« Reply #8147 on: July 07, 2018, 02:20:42 PM »
Bones, Bagpuss was a cat in a kids' show when I was small, very cute!  I don't think he's on TV here anymore but you can still buy the toys - here's a YouTube clip :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Lies5RLPIE

The one I saw in the garden had the same sort of face but wasn't pink :)  Lol

I hope things go okay on Monday.  I find waiting for things I'm anxious about so difficult to deal with.  I'm thinking of you Bonesie, lots of love xx xx

That is a cute cartoon with the stop-motion technology that was used way back when.  And to see a live cat that resembles Bagpuss....LOL!!!!

I'm still anxious about Monday and I appreciate all the support you can give.  Thanks.

I love the old stop motion technology!  My son did a workshop recently that used the new versions of everything but I'm going to do some digging and see how we can do it the old way - would be a nice thing to contrast :)  And yes, that little cat had such a cute face!  I haven't seen him again since, I'm assuming some new people must have moved in nearby as I've seen a few new cats over the last couple of weeks.  I do love them.

You have every ounce of support and love I have, Bonesie :)  It's times like these I wish we knew each other in the real world.  You guys on here are some of my best friends and I would love to be able to support you the way I would with face to face friends - a nice meal, a trip out to take your mind off things, filling your freezer up with home made food so you can eat well without cooking.  I think doing things for people is a nice way to show you care :)  So I will keep you in my thoughts and hope very much that it all turns out to be nothing and that all is well :) xx xx

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« Reply #8148 on: July 07, 2018, 07:01:05 PM »
Bones, Bagpuss was a cat in a kids' show when I was small, very cute!  I don't think he's on TV here anymore but you can still buy the toys - here's a YouTube clip :)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Lies5RLPIE

The one I saw in the garden had the same sort of face but wasn't pink :)  Lol

I hope things go okay on Monday.  I find waiting for things I'm anxious about so difficult to deal with.  I'm thinking of you Bonesie, lots of love xx xx

That is a cute cartoon with the stop-motion technology that was used way back when.  And to see a live cat that resembles Bagpuss....LOL!!!!

I'm still anxious about Monday and I appreciate all the support you can give.  Thanks.

I love the old stop motion technology!  My son did a workshop recently that used the new versions of everything but I'm going to do some digging and see how we can do it the old way - would be a nice thing to contrast :)  And yes, that little cat had such a cute face!  I haven't seen him again since, I'm assuming some new people must have moved in nearby as I've seen a few new cats over the last couple of weeks.  I do love them.

You have every ounce of support and love I have, Bonesie :)  It's times like these I wish we knew each other in the real world.  You guys on here are some of my best friends and I would love to be able to support you the way I would with face to face friends - a nice meal, a trip out to take your mind off things, filling your freezer up with home made food so you can eat well without cooking.  I think doing things for people is a nice way to show you care :)  So I will keep you in my thoughts and hope very much that it all turns out to be nothing and that all is well :) xx xx

Thanks, Tupp.

Your idea sounds like fun.

I had the chance to go out and attend a workshop in making drop spindles and then spinning some yarn with the spindles we made.  I had fun teaching my new friends concepts such as pre-drafting and park and draft.  I did have to be assertive with the person sitting behind me when she grabbed my fiber wanting to tear it apart without asking.  She learned real fast I don't tolerate people grabbing my things without asking.  This person had no clue about the art of spinning yarn and didn't want to listen at first until I gave her the BONES attitude.  I don't understand people who think they can just grab other people's property without asking.
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« Reply #8149 on: July 08, 2018, 01:43:27 PM »
Bones, I love your Bones attitude :)  Yes you do get people who just don't respect boundaries or appreciate things other people are doing, or respect them.  I'm glad you put her in her place.  Spinning sounds amazing to learn, is it very difficult to do? xx

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« Reply #8150 on: July 08, 2018, 02:37:47 PM »
Bones, I love your Bones attitude :)  Yes you do get people who just don't respect boundaries or appreciate things other people are doing, or respect them.  I'm glad you put her in her place.  Spinning sounds amazing to learn, is it very difficult to do? xx

Thanks, Tupp!

Spinning is not that hard to learn and I find it calms me down.  Maybe that's my Aspergers doing that.
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« Reply #8151 on: July 08, 2018, 02:51:33 PM »
Bones, I love your Bones attitude :)  Yes you do get people who just don't respect boundaries or appreciate things other people are doing, or respect them.  I'm glad you put her in her place.  Spinning sounds amazing to learn, is it very difficult to do? xx

I have a couple of pictures from yesterday's workshop but they might be too big to send to you.
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« Reply #8152 on: July 09, 2018, 06:47:34 AM »
Send if possible/if they'll fit :)  Thinking of you today, Bones, hope everything goes okay, let us all know how you're doing when you get a moment xx xx

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« Reply #8153 on: July 09, 2018, 10:46:45 AM »
Send if possible/if they'll fit :)  Thinking of you today, Bones, hope everything goes okay, let us all know how you're doing when you get a moment xx xx

I looked for a way to either upload the pictures and I can't find the link.  I just got home from the biopsy and I'm still shaky.
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« Reply #8154 on: July 09, 2018, 10:53:52 AM »
Send if possible/if they'll fit :)  Thinking of you today, Bones, hope everything goes okay, let us all know how you're doing when you get a moment xx xx

I looked for a way to either upload the pictures and I can't find the link.  I just got home from the biopsy and I'm still shaky.

Found the link but the photo is too large.
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« Reply #8155 on: July 09, 2018, 11:53:50 AM »
Send if possible/if they'll fit :)  Thinking of you today, Bones, hope everything goes okay, let us all know how you're doing when you get a moment xx xx

I looked for a way to either upload the pictures and I can't find the link.  I just got home from the biopsy and I'm still shaky.

Don't worry about the pics, Bonesie, you have more important things to do right now.  I'm glad it's done, at least, and you're home again.  Can you snuggle yourself up on the sofa and put something you fancy on the telly? xx

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« Reply #8156 on: July 09, 2018, 12:04:31 PM »
Send if possible/if they'll fit :)  Thinking of you today, Bones, hope everything goes okay, let us all know how you're doing when you get a moment xx xx

I looked for a way to either upload the pictures and I can't find the link.  I just got home from the biopsy and I'm still shaky.

Don't worry about the pics, Bonesie, you have more important things to do right now.  I'm glad it's done, at least, and you're home again.  Can you snuggle yourself up on the sofa and put something you fancy on the telly? xx

Thanks.

I feel like I want a nap instead of watching TV.
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« Reply #8157 on: July 10, 2018, 04:13:15 AM »
Send if possible/if they'll fit :)  Thinking of you today, Bones, hope everything goes okay, let us all know how you're doing when you get a moment xx xx

I looked for a way to either upload the pictures and I can't find the link.  I just got home from the biopsy and I'm still shaky.

Don't worry about the pics, Bonesie, you have more important things to do right now.  I'm glad it's done, at least, and you're home again.  Can you snuggle yourself up on the sofa and put something you fancy on the telly? xx

Thanks.

I feel like I want a nap instead of watching TV.

I hope you got a nap, Bones.  Are you feeling any better today?  I'm not sure what the time difference is, it might still be yesterday where you are??!  Time changes really melt my brain :)  I hope you are feeling a bit better now. ((((((((((((((((Bones)))))))))))))))))) xx

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« Reply #8158 on: July 10, 2018, 06:46:33 AM »
Send if possible/if they'll fit :)  Thinking of you today, Bones, hope everything goes okay, let us all know how you're doing when you get a moment xx xx

I looked for a way to either upload the pictures and I can't find the link.  I just got home from the biopsy and I'm still shaky.

Don't worry about the pics, Bonesie, you have more important things to do right now.  I'm glad it's done, at least, and you're home again.  Can you snuggle yourself up on the sofa and put something you fancy on the telly? xx

Thanks.

I feel like I want a nap instead of watching TV.

I hope you got a nap, Bones.  Are you feeling any better today?  I'm not sure what the time difference is, it might still be yesterday where you are??!  Time changes really melt my brain :)  I hope you are feeling a bit better now. ((((((((((((((((Bones)))))))))))))))))) xx

Thanks.  It's quarter to 7 in the morning on Tuesday here and I just woke up...still sore.
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« Reply #8159 on: July 11, 2018, 04:24:00 PM »
Is it easing up any, Bones?  It's such a difficult place to be sore as well, you can catch yourself with your own arm so easily.  I hope it's eased a bit xx

I just picked my son up from the youth club and there was a fluffy cats convention going on in the park.  Three great big fluffy things, all quite young and so friendly, they all came running over wanting to be stroked and made a fuss of.  I love their trusting natures.  It's so lovely when someone/thing just runs at you expecting you to be nice - no fear or apprehension.  So sweet.  So the walk home took ages because we were distracted by the cute cats :)

I hope you feel better soon (((((((((((((((((((((Bones))))))))))))))))))))))))