Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[Ami]

(((((((Bonesie))))))
 Did you EVER think life would turn out this way???         Ami

[BonesMS]

(((((((Bonesie))))))
 Did you EVER think life would turn out this way???         Ami

No, I didn't.

I feel lost.

Bones

[Hopalong]

Dear Bones,
Exhausted, lost and a little scared, I imagine.
You eed somebody in 3-D life to share these feelings with...
It's just as important as handling all these physical challenges you're coping with.

Please find a support group, friend, counselor, minister, somebody?

I wish I could give you lunch and a big bowl of garlicky soup.

Here's a hug,
Hops

[BonesMS]

Dear Bones,
Exhausted, lost and a little scared, I imagine.
You eed somebody in 3-D life to share these feelings with...
It's just as important as handling all these physical challenges you're coping with.

Please find a support group, friend, counselor, minister, somebody?

I wish I could give you lunch and a big bowl of garlicky soup.

Here's a hug,
Hops

Thanks, Hops.

Bones

[Ami]

Is b/f being loving and supportive? I hope so.
         Ami

[BonesMS]

Is b/f being loving and supportive? I hope so.
         Ami

Somewhat.

Bones

[Ami]

I know it is really scary ,Bones. I really can't believe life is the way it is.Where are the fairy tales?       Ami

[BonesMS]

I know it is really scary ,Bones. I really can't believe life is the way it is.Where are the fairy tales?       Ami

It's hard to know where the fairy tales are anymore.

Bones

[Ami]

It sure is, Bonsie.     Ami

[BonesMS]

It sure is, Bonsie.     Ami

It feels demoralizing.

Bones

[Ami]

I think part of the problem we have as D's of N's was that it was so hard to even live life, that we did not  face the truth of what it really was.*I* and everyone else is a lot worse than I ever thought BUT it is how human nature is.
 If I had not had the false beliefs, it would not be so hard to see ,now.
 Illness adds a whole new dimension.
 It shakes up all the belief we did have .
 Tragedy does the same thing.
 I found God through it all. That is the only good thing I can say came from it.    Ami

[BonesMS]

I think part of the problem we have as D's of N's was that it was so hard to even live life, that we did not  face the truth of what it really was.*I* and everyone else is a lot worse than I ever thought BUT it is how human nature is.
 If I had not had the false beliefs, it would not be so hard to see ,now.
 Illness adds a whole new dimension.
 It shakes up all the belief we did have .
 Tragedy does the same thing.
 I found God through it all. That is the only good thing I can say came from it.    Ami

I agree, Ami.  At times, I remember the verse that God won't give us more than we can handle.  At other times, I often wonder why we were saddled with Ns who were supposed to be parents.

Bones

[Ami]

Oh Bones
 I have asked myself that question countless times. I just figured out my F is a saintly N so I am a double winner.God has been with me through Scott's death and through figuring out just how horrible my M is.
 He has never given me more than I can handle,but it has been very close. I have always been afraid of being given more than I can handle and losing my mind. I have to trust Him.       Ami

[Hopalong]

Hey Bones,

I am sending you a big wide gentle strong safe hug from MAMA UNIVERSE.

She's waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay bigger than the one you were accidentally assigned to.

You got love. Big as the ocean.

You too, Ami.

Hops

[BonesMS]

Oh Bones
 I have asked myself that question countless times. I just figured out my F is a saintly N so I am a double winner.God has been with me through Scott's death and through figuring out just how horrible my M is.
 He has never given me more than I can handle,but it has been very close. I have always been afraid of being given more than I can handle and losing my mind. I have to trust Him.       Ami

I agree.

Bones