Author Topic: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?  (Read 1304091 times)

Ami

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #690 on: January 05, 2009, 09:11:07 PM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #691 on: January 06, 2009, 10:33:48 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #692 on: January 06, 2009, 03:36:42 PM »
Collecting disability is exactly appropriate and that's what it's for.
So very frustrating to hear you may have a wait...

Bones, did they give you any indication of how long it would be?

Are you still working in the meantime?

How are you coping with pain? Are your lungs any better?

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #693 on: January 07, 2009, 09:06:10 AM »
Collecting disability is exactly appropriate and that's what it's for.
So very frustrating to hear you may have a wait...

Bones, did they give you any indication of how long it would be?

Are you still working in the meantime?

How are you coping with pain? Are your lungs any better?

Hops

Hi, Hops.

I'm not working because my health overwhelmed my previous job.  I'm also suspecting that Asperger's might be a factor so I'm looking into getting an official diagnosis as that impacts employability.  My bronchitis has improved and my ear infection seems to be finally clearing up.  Pain comes and goes.  Regarding the waiting list, with the economy being what it is, I'm not certain how long the wait will actually be.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #694 on: January 14, 2009, 09:42:12 AM »
http://www.creators.com/lifestylefeatures/advice-goddess-amy-alkon.html

I read the above article and couldn't help but think that this scenario may be painfully familiar to others on this board.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #695 on: January 22, 2009, 12:14:22 PM »
Thinking of you, Bonsie!             Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #696 on: January 22, 2009, 12:48:43 PM »
Thinking of you, Bonsie!             Ami

Thanks, Ami.

I'm still taking things one day at a time.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #697 on: January 28, 2009, 10:54:34 AM »
So far, I have been left alone by NDoofus.  I hope she continues to leave me alone as I'm in no mood for her aggravation.  The winter weather has me hurting all over from old injuries.  From time to time, another memory will start to bubble to the surface.  The pace seems to be slowing down as I name it, claim it and dump it.  I recently posted another memory to the Members' Stories board.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #698 on: February 09, 2009, 01:56:55 PM »
I have a doctor's appointment next week and I'm also scheduled to meet with voc. rehab. at the end of the week.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #699 on: February 12, 2009, 07:50:10 AM »
Do you feel you have a pretty good team in place, Bones?
That's a lot of docs and appointments, etc.

Is a big picture of your health starting to take shape?

Bad news, good news?

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #700 on: February 12, 2009, 12:16:04 PM »
Do you feel you have a pretty good team in place, Bones?
That's a lot of docs and appointments, etc.

Is a big picture of your health starting to take shape?

Bad news, good news?

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Hops

Thanks, Hops.

I'm taking everything one day at a time.  I'm not sure what the big picture is yet.

Bones
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #701 on: February 12, 2009, 05:23:02 PM »
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Sending you  good wishes and thoughts.
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #702 on: February 16, 2009, 10:17:59 AM »
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Sending you  good wishes and thoughts.

Thanks, Ami.

I'll be seeing one of my doctors this afternoon.

Bones
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #703 on: February 16, 2009, 07:15:19 PM »
Shortly after I came home from the doctor's office and was preparing lunch, the phone rang.  I didn't really pay much attention to the Caller ID, (which I should have).  Turns out it was NDoofus wanting to know why I wasn't calling her.  I reminded her that I had already sent her an e-mail about why I am angry and she will not listen!  She responded with:  "I don't understand!"  I responded that I don't want to discuss it any further and hung up.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #704 on: February 17, 2009, 12:29:42 PM »
I guess I'm getting stronger regarding my boundaries.  This past Friday, when bf took me out to lunch, I was accosted by another N who was going to sit down with us...uninvited.  I looked her straight in the eye and informed her:  "I am here with my DATE and I need ALONE time with him!"  She backed off!

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