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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #960 on: October 16, 2009, 10:04:08 AM »
Oh Bones
 How awful to be filmed while being phobic about something. YOW and OUCH!                               xxoo  Ami

At least I survived.  I was hoping to be given the H1N1 FluMist but my asthma made me ineligible for that format.  Given the situation, which was the lesser of two evils?  I felt it was better to take my chances with my phobia than to risk potentially fatal complications with the Swine Flu.

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« Reply #961 on: October 17, 2009, 12:58:17 PM »
Having a BAD DAY today!!!  I went out in the rain, this morning, and discovered that my car had gotten broken into AGAIN!!!!!!  This time my CERT gear was STOLEN!!!!!!   :twisted:

I'VE contacted the police and reported it, then contacted my CERT team about the loss of my gear!  As for boyfriend, who "claims" to love me, all I got was his voice-mail and no other response!!!!   :roll:  So much for any support from him!!!!!!!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #962 on: October 17, 2009, 08:02:50 PM »
Hi Bones, What is CERT gear? I'm sorry about your car ... that has happened to us once and it is a terrible feeling.

I am phobic about needles too, so I can relate. If I get them to let me lie down while they give me the shot, I am usually OK. But when it involves a lot of medicine or more than one shot, I get sick to my stomach. No way would I want to be on TV while getting a shot!

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« Reply #963 on: October 17, 2009, 11:49:45 PM »
Hi Bones, What is CERT gear? I'm sorry about your car ... that has happened to us once and it is a terrible feeling.

I am phobic about needles too, so I can relate. If I get them to let me lie down while they give me the shot, I am usually OK. But when it involves a lot of medicine or more than one shot, I get sick to my stomach. No way would I want to be on TV while getting a shot!

Hi, Heart of Pilgrimage.

CERT stands for Community Emergency Response Team.  The CERT gear was in my car, on standby, for any emergencies while out on the road.  I keep another set of emergency gear at home.  This is the SECOND time, in less than a year, that my car has been broken into!   :twisted:

As to the media circus, I think I now understand why some celebrities get irritated at the cameras once I understood how INTRUSIVE they can be!!!!   :P

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« Reply #964 on: October 18, 2009, 07:57:39 AM »
((((Bones))))                               xxoo Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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« Reply #965 on: October 18, 2009, 11:29:23 AM »
Thanks, ((((((((((((((((((((((((((Ami))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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« Reply #966 on: October 19, 2009, 08:25:07 AM »
Woke up feeling jittery this morning given that my doctor's appointment is day after tomorrow.

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« Reply #967 on: October 19, 2009, 08:59:10 AM »
I feel really jittery today , too. For me, I think it is emotional changes which feel really scary.I am sending you good vibes!        Ami
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« Reply #968 on: October 19, 2009, 09:57:51 AM »
Thanks, Ami.

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« Reply #969 on: October 19, 2009, 10:49:28 PM »
Lots of calm and confidence you will take care and be able to restore your health, Bones...

sending support,

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #970 on: October 20, 2009, 08:43:57 AM »
Thanks, Hops.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #971 on: October 22, 2009, 02:18:43 PM »
Saw the doctor yesterday and I have been diagnosed with Orthostatic Hypotension.  The blood tests show that my thyroid and adrenals are functioning normally and the Holter Monitor showed that my heart is functioning within normal parameters.  However, when the doctor tested my blood pressure again, by first having me sit, then stand, my BP dropped again.  No one knows why this is happening.  So strange.......

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« Reply #972 on: October 22, 2009, 03:10:14 PM »
Hi Bones,
Your doc will advise on any necessary Rx, but these lifestyle changes (Mayo Clinic) could help meanwhile:

    * Drink more water, less alcohol. Alcohol is dehydrating and can lower blood pressure, even if you drink in moderation. Water, on the other hand, combats dehydration and increases blood volume.
    * Follow a healthy diet. Get all the nutrients you need for good health by focusing on a variety of foods, including whole grains, fruits, vegetables, and lean chicken and fish. If your doctor suggests increasing your sodium intake but you don't like a lot of salt on your food, try using natural soy sauce — a whopping 1,200 milligrams of sodium per tablespoon — or adding dry soup mixes, also loaded with sodium, to dips and dressings.
    * Go slowly when changing body positions. You may be able to reduce the dizziness and lightheadedness that occur with low blood pressure on standing by taking it easy when you move from a prone to a standing position. Before getting out of bed in the morning, breathe deeply for a few minutes and then slowly sit up before standing. Sleeping with the head of your bed slightly elevated also can help fight the effects of gravity. If you begin to get symptoms while standing, cross your thighs in a scissors fashion and squeeze, or put one foot on a ledge or chair and lean as far forward as possible. These maneuvers encourage blood to flow from your legs to your heart.
    * Eat small, low-carb meals. To help prevent blood pressure from dropping sharply after meals, eat small portions several times a day and limit high-carbohydrate foods such as potatoes, rice, pasta and bread. Drinking caffeinated coffee or tea with meals may temporarily raise blood pressure, in some cases by as much as 3 to 14 millimeters of mercury (mm Hg). But because caffeine can cause other problems, check with your doctor before increasing your caffeine intake.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #973 on: October 22, 2009, 04:15:36 PM »
Hi, Hops.

There are no prescriptions to give me on this as there is a family medical history of (1) HIGH blood pressure, (2) Heart Attacks, (3) Blood Clots, (4) Cerebral Vascular Accidents (brain hemorrhages), and (5) Strokes (Blood Clots on the brain).

I have already been pushing fluids.  As far as alcohol, I'm a recovering alcoholic so the alcohol is a non-issue in this context. 

I'm also already eating a healthy diet which includes:  Fresh Fruits, Fresh Vegetables, Fresh Fish (Salmon and Tuna), Tofu, Whole Grains (Muesli, Oatmeal), Fat-Free Lactaid Dairy (I'm lactose intolerant), and Soy Sauce whenever I have Japanese Cuisine.  I've been cutting out the artificial additives and preservatives (High Fructose and High Maltose Corn Syrup) along with cutting out red meat, fried foods, and junk food (French fries, hamburgers and other greasy junk), as much as possible and have managed to drop my weight from nearly 200 pounds to 165.5 in about six months.  I've been eating a series of mini-meals several times a day because I've noticed that my appetite has dropped back from what it used to be (I'll eat a few forkfuls, then I feel full, then repeat about an hour or so later), plus taking vitamin supplements (including calcium for osteoporosis) and flaxseed oil for the Omega Fatty Acids. 

The doctor suggested I add in V-8 juice into my regiment for any additional sodium.  (I probably should get a blood pressure monitor given the family medical history of HIGH blood pressure so that I don't accidentally go overboard and end up with THAT problem instead of this one!)

I do get up slowly and carefully as I don't want to give the floor a face-plant!  With osteoporosis, that is NOT a good combination!

Bones
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Hi Bones,
Your doc will advise on any necessary Rx, but these lifestyle changes (Mayo Clinic) could help meanwhile:

    * Drink more water, less alcohol. Alcohol is dehydrating and can lower blood pressure, even if you drink in moderation. Water, on the other hand, combats dehydration and increases blood volume.
    * Follow a healthy diet. Get all the nutrients you need for good health by focusing on a variety of foods, including whole grains, fruits, vegetables, and lean chicken and fish. If your doctor suggests increasing your sodium intake but you don't like a lot of salt on your food, try using natural soy sauce — a whopping 1,200 milligrams of sodium per tablespoon — or adding dry soup mixes, also loaded with sodium, to dips and dressings.
    * Go slowly when changing body positions. You may be able to reduce the dizziness and lightheadedness that occur with low blood pressure on standing by taking it easy when you move from a prone to a standing position. Before getting out of bed in the morning, breathe deeply for a few minutes and then slowly sit up before standing. Sleeping with the head of your bed slightly elevated also can help fight the effects of gravity. If you begin to get symptoms while standing, cross your thighs in a scissors fashion and squeeze, or put one foot on a ledge or chair and lean as far forward as possible. These maneuvers encourage blood to flow from your legs to your heart.
    * Eat small, low-carb meals. To help prevent blood pressure from dropping sharply after meals, eat small portions several times a day and limit high-carbohydrate foods such as potatoes, rice, pasta and bread. Drinking caffeinated coffee or tea with meals may temporarily raise blood pressure, in some cases by as much as 3 to 14 millimeters of mercury (mm Hg). But because caffeine can cause other problems, check with your doctor before increasing your caffeine intake.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #974 on: October 22, 2009, 04:44:01 PM »
(((((Bones)))))
It dies not sound like much fun. I  am sorry, Bones!                                              Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
   Carl Jung