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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1275 on: January 15, 2010, 07:45:13 AM »
 I don't think your guy will ever be the domestic type (((Bonesie)))))). I would not send him to the grocery store and expect much!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1276 on: January 15, 2010, 07:51:17 AM »
I don't think your guy will ever be the domestic type (((Bonesie)))))). I would not send him to the grocery store and expect much!
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I guess so.  At the same time, it puts me at a disadvantage if I am unable to get out to the grocery store myself either because of finances or health or both.

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« Reply #1277 on: January 15, 2010, 07:52:21 AM »
Yes Bones. I can see that! I am so very sorry for your current conditions! I wish I could help, my friend!      x o x o   Ami
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« Reply #1278 on: January 15, 2010, 08:12:03 AM »
Yes Bones. I can see that! I am so very sorry for your current conditions! I wish I could help, my friend!      x o x o   Ami

Thanks, Ami!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1279 on: January 15, 2010, 08:23:13 AM »
(((((( Bones)))))))       Ami
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1280 on: January 15, 2010, 08:25:52 AM »
(((((( Bones)))))))       Ami

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1281 on: January 16, 2010, 08:02:36 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1282 on: January 16, 2010, 08:11:22 AM »
Hi Ya Kid
 What's going on?        x o Ami
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1283 on: January 16, 2010, 08:54:45 AM »
Hi Ya Kid
 What's going on?        x o Ami

Woke up feeling tired and achy.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1284 on: January 16, 2010, 09:05:14 AM »
Oh I am sorry Bonesie :( .
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1285 on: January 16, 2010, 09:11:31 AM »
Oh I am sorry Bonesie :( .

It happens......

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1286 on: January 17, 2010, 06:39:13 AM »
I can't help but wonder if bf is a passive-aggressive OBLIVIOUS N?

I've told him REPEATEDLY that I don't like HIS cockroaches that he infested my house with and he will just stand there and ignore the roaches crawling right in front of him until I practically SHOVE his nose into the cockroaches crawling there!!!  And he's supposed to have 20/20 vision!!!!!!  Then he will attempt to joke "How do you know if they're MY cockroaches?  Hee-Hee-Hee!"

YUCK!!!!!!

He just doesn't GET IT that I didn't have cockroaches until he brought his roach-infested bird cages into my house and turned the roaches loose!  IDIOT!!!!!!!   :P  Then he "promises" to clean up.  After he's "cleaned" and left, I discover bird food scattered all over the room where he keeps his birds and guess what's crawling all over the scattered food that he neglected to clean up?   You guessed it!  The cockroaches are having a FEEDING FRENZY over the food that he's SLOPPED EVERYWHERE in the room!!!  I guess I have to STAND OVER HIM in order to MAKE HIM CLEAN THE PLACE PROPERLY!!!!!!  DAMMIT!!!!   :twisted:

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1287 on: January 18, 2010, 05:59:59 AM »
Last night I LITERALLY stood over him and directed him on how to CLEAN instead of half-a$$ing!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1288 on: January 18, 2010, 07:20:34 AM »
And did he clean it? And if so, did he do a good job?

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1289 on: January 18, 2010, 07:26:38 AM »
And did he clean it? And if so, did he do a good job?

He cleaned most of it, then ran out of the cleaning supplies that he had with him.  Then he asks me, "Do I need to bring more paper towels?"   :?  DUH!!!!!!

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