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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1470 on: March 24, 2010, 08:16:59 AM »
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Went to a support group, (for people struggling with disabilities), yesterday afternoon and encountered a suspected N who wanted to BRAG how she KNOWS EVERYTHING and proceeded to try to SHOVE her political views, racial attitudes, and conspiracy theories down my throat!   :P  (She is NOT part of the support group AT ALL!)  I politely informed her that I didn't come there to discuss politics with anyone and, instead of respecting boundaries, proceeded to attempt to FORCE her opinions on me!  I, again, reminded her, more firmly that I was NOT there to be discussing politics with anyone, PERIOD, end of discussion.  She got even huffier and flounced out of the room.  (Good riddance!)

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1471 on: March 25, 2010, 08:25:51 AM »
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« Reply #1472 on: March 25, 2010, 09:16:08 AM »
Hi ((((Bonesie)))))                             
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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« Reply #1473 on: March 25, 2010, 09:34:46 AM »
Hi ((((Bonesie)))))                             

Hi, ((((((Ami)))))))))))))

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1474 on: March 26, 2010, 05:02:05 PM »
Cold and damp around here today which has all my old injuries saying "hello".   :(

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1475 on: March 26, 2010, 10:13:38 PM »
Hi Bones - Hi Ami

It has been cold and dreary here too -- I'm in western md -- so regionally that is somewhat near where you are? Days like today remember every ache and pain.   

But soon enough we'll be complaining of the heat!
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« Reply #1476 on: March 26, 2010, 10:16:00 PM »
Hi Bones - Hi Ami

It has been cold and dreary here too -- I'm in western md -- so regionally that is somewhat near where you are? Days like today remember every ache and pain.   

But soon enough we'll be complaining of the heat!
Biddy

 

After this recent winter, I'm looking forward to the summer heat!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1477 on: March 27, 2010, 09:46:44 AM »
Yes, I LOVE heat, too.                                     x o x                     Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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« Reply #1478 on: March 27, 2010, 11:30:17 AM »
Yes, I LOVE heat, too.                                     x o x                     Ami

Thanks, Ami!

Heat is better on achy joints.

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« Reply #1479 on: March 28, 2010, 04:26:46 PM »
I've been socializing several times with a group of people who are into the same kind of science fiction stuff that I like.  However, after observing one member for quite a while, I have become convinced that he is an N who is TOTALLY IN LOVE WITH THE SOUND OF HIS OWN VOICE!   :P  For the past several weeks to MONTHS, he insists on talking about another bunch of people who he feels are SO IMPORTANT and on the brink of BECOMING FAMOUS and kept reminding us time and again about HIS affiliation with these individuals who are ABOUT TO BECOME SO FAMOUS!!!!  (Name-dropping anyone!?)   :P :P  Other members of our group had tried to passively steer him away from his favorite subject of HIMSELF and these NEAR-FAMOUS people, by giving him hint after hint and changing the subject, without any success.  NARCISSISTS-DO-NOT-TAKE-HINTS!!!!!!

Last weekend, I finally reached my limit when the N started up again about his FAVORITE subject of HIMSELF and these NEARLY-FAMOUS people that I blew my stack and LOUDLY told him to "SHUT THE H3LL UP!!!!  I AM SICK OF HEARING ABOUT THIS EVERY SINGLE TIME WE GET TOGETHER FOR THE PAST SEVERAL MONTHS!!!  And I quoted the original Bones in Star Trek:  "It's dead, Jim!"  Geez!!!!!!!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1480 on: March 29, 2010, 10:40:04 AM »
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« Reply #1481 on: March 30, 2010, 09:19:16 AM »
For Dr. G et al....Happy Passover!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1482 on: March 31, 2010, 08:52:08 AM »
Went to support group yesterday and received a copy of the Personal Bill of Rights.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1483 on: March 31, 2010, 09:21:15 AM »
Thanks for the Happy Passover as I am a member of the Tribe lol.
There are N's everywhere. In my drinking group--there are a few.
One guy and one girl.
The girl is a female MD--beautiful, smart etc but an N lol
 The guy is an egomaniac with an inferiority complex lol                                            x o x o     Ami
         
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
   Carl Jung

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #1484 on: March 31, 2010, 10:15:01 AM »
Thanks for the Happy Passover as I am a member of the Tribe lol.
There are N's everywhere. In my drinking group--there are a few.
One guy and one girl.
The girl is a female MD--beautiful, smart etc but an N lol
 The guy is an egomaniac with an inferiority complex lol                                            x o x o     Ami
         

LOL!!

And the guy who is an egomaniac with an inferiority complex usually ends up needing Alcoholics Anonymous!  There are PLENTY there who fit in the same category!   :D

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