Needed some time to think and I think I recently encountered another N.
I'm part of a committee to organize our high school reunion and I have been working on locating as many of our former classmates as possible. The decision to have a reunion did not occur until January of this year as many of us are of an age where multiple health issues, (both personal as well as with family members), are a factor. I found several former classmates on FB and one of them suggested I request to be "friended" by another (much older) alumnus who claimed to be able to assist in searching for various classmates. I followed this person's advice and then found myself being deluged with e-mails from this (much older) individual with a stream of non-stop criticisms of how we SHOULD have started over a year ago, how we SHOULD know ALL of our classmates' personal information, (including the full names of their parents and siblings), and contact the siblings of our classmates and went on about how HE had been victimized by a clique back when HE was in grade school about FIFTY YEARS AGO. I basically ignored this unsolicited advice as our committee has done just fine locating our classmates ever since our graduation. (We are also aware that many of our former classmates are scattered all over the world, some have recently died, others were divorced/widowed/remarried and changed their names at least once or twice.) This (much older) individual then started to complain about how we were ignoring HIM as he is SUCH AN EXPERT on class reunions. (By this point, I started to smell the stench of a Narcissist.)
The final straw for me was when he started sending me e-mails complaining that he found my business page for my home-based business and that HE DID NOT APPROVE OF THIS GARBAGE! At that point, I had HAD ENOUGH because I felt he was talking out of his A$$! That's when I edited my "Friend List" on FB and DE-FRIENDED this jerk! With "friends" like that I don't need enemies!
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