Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[BonesMS]

Observation:

N's treat you as if they OWN you body and soul!  In their views, you are NEVER supposed to have a life outside of THEIR ORBIT!

Bones

[sKePTiKal]

Bones - it's more than that:

they don't recognize that other people - ARE other people and have independent thoughts & feelings. They, themselves, are the only person in the whole universe... everyone else is just an object, like a rock... and of course, that "rock" has to stay where they put it... despite erosion, gravity, etc.

[BonesMS]

Bones - it's more than that:

they don't recognize that other people - ARE other people and have independent thoughts & feelings. They, themselves, are the only person in the whole universe... everyone else is just an object, like a rock... and of course, that "rock" has to stay where they put it... despite erosion, gravity, etc.

In other words, N's think of themselves as THE SUPREME RULER OF THE ENTIRE UNIVERSE and what they decree is ABSOLUTE LAW!   

Bones

[BonesMS]

Feeling very sad this morning as my favorite bird just died of old age in her sleep.  She was a good ol' girl and had a LOT of funny personality.  I'm going to miss her terribly!   

Bones

[sKePTiKal]

Awww... I'm sorry Bones. I'm having a kinda tough morning, too. Gonna be extra nice to myself today - you too?

[BonesMS]

Awww... I'm sorry Bones. I'm having a kinda tough morning, too. Gonna be extra nice to myself today - you too?

Thanks, P.R.

I'm trying to comfort myself with all the funny memories I have of this very funny bird!

Bones

[BonesMS]

My home feels so empty without that funny bird's personality around.  I miss her playfulness.   

Bones

[Hopalong]

Chirrrrpp!

Trrriiiiiiilllll!

Squawwwk!
and

Thanks, Mom! I got new wings...I'm flyin'! And no cage....
Don't be sad, I'll be flying by to keep an eye on you.
(I think there's a friend of mine who needs a place to stay...)

xxoo
Bird

[BonesMS]

Chirrrrpp!

Trrriiiiiiilllll!

Squawwwk!
and

Thanks, Mom! I got new wings...I'm flyin'! And no cage....
Don't be sad, I'll be flying by to keep an eye on you.
(I think there's a friend of mine who needs a place to stay...)

xxoo
Bird

((((((((((((((((((Bird))))))))))))))))))

There's a place in my heart, where you will always stay,
And my memories, where you will always play,
You're now free as a bird should be,
And your spirit will always be with me.

Bones

[BonesMS]

 

[Hopalong]

Your poem brought tears to my eyes, Bones...

I am sorry you lost your sweet friend.

And though it's early to say, I do hope you will find another.

Perhaps some organization (or a vet) might know of a little pet bird
who's lost its owner.

xxoo
Hops

[BonesMS]

Your poem brought tears to my eyes, Bones...

I am sorry you lost your sweet friend.

And though it's early to say, I do hope you will find another.

Perhaps some organization (or a vet) might know of a little pet bird
who's lost its owner.

xxoo
Hops

Thanks, Hops.  It's something to consider when I feel ready.

Bones

[Baddaughter]

I'm behind this week, bones, I'm so sorry about your pet -- I'm glad I didn't die young, but reaching maturity insures so much sadness because you have to outlive so much that is dear to you.  I know you will hang in there -- just like you always do! 
Love, Biddy

[BonesMS]

I'm behind this week, bones, I'm so sorry about your pet -- I'm glad I didn't die young, but reaching maturity insures so much sadness because you have to outlive so much that is dear to you.  I know you will hang in there -- just like you always do! 
Love, Biddy

Thanks, Biddy.

Bones

[KatG]

Sorry for your loss Bones.
What a lucky bird to have had you caring for her.