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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2895 on: November 13, 2011, 05:58:57 AM »
Reading today's Dear Abby.....each of these letters are really something!

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20111113
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« Reply #2896 on: November 13, 2011, 06:23:57 AM »
Woke up from a WEIRD nightmare at 5:00 AM this morning and couldn't go back to sleep.

I dreamed that someone approached me about a niece that I had never met.  I commented, during this dream, that I do have a niece and a nephew who do NOT know anything about me because their father, my NGCB, disappeared and all contact was cut off.  I was told, "NO, you have ANOTHER sibling!"   :shock:  I'm arguing that I have been working on my family tree and ALL of my siblings, half-siblings, and legally adopted sibling are all accounted for.  Again, I'm told "NO, you have ANOTHER sibling!", then I woke up!

JUST.  PLAIN.  WEIRD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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« Reply #2897 on: November 13, 2011, 06:34:34 AM »
The first letter in this advice column sounds PAINFULLY FAMILIAR!!!!!!

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/unconditional-love-doesn-t-mean-anything-goes.html
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« Reply #2898 on: November 13, 2011, 11:29:16 AM »
Still scratching my head about Mr. Idiot NOT listening.

Recently, Voc. Rehab. was able to arrange to get me a refurbished laptop through a non-profit program.  (The only way to qualify is having a disability and needing a computer to meet your needs.)  I had explained this fact to Mr. Idiot SEVERAL times.  (BTW, he does NOT have a disability.)  When we got to the non-profit program to pick up the refurbished laptop, Mr. Idiot looks at the supervisor of the program and asks him:  "Can I have one too?"  UURRGGHH!!!!!  *Face-palm!*
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« Reply #2899 on: November 14, 2011, 07:28:56 AM »
Have a dentist appointment this morning.  I'm planning on having a L-O-N-G discussion with the dentist about how his front office staff has been screwing up appointments.  Not sure what the outcome will be.
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« Reply #2900 on: November 14, 2011, 03:21:35 PM »
Had another bone graft.  Back on the antibiotics and ibuprofen.  Surgical site hurts.  ICK!!!!!   :P
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2901 on: November 14, 2011, 08:17:03 PM »
Yowitch!

Glad it's behind you, Bones.

Hopes for fast healing...

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« Reply #2902 on: November 15, 2011, 06:35:11 AM »
Yowitch!

Glad it's behind you, Bones.

Hopes for fast healing...

Hops

Thanks, Hops.

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« Reply #2903 on: November 15, 2011, 11:23:40 AM »
Feels like one of the stitches is trying to work itself loose.   :P
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« Reply #2904 on: November 15, 2011, 02:52:23 PM »
This may be from being an Aspie, trying to figure out the nuances of what others say and possibly mean, which is often CONFUSING.......

I was at a meeting last week and, because the weather was a bit cool and damp, I had my winter jacket on over top of my fanny pack.  (It's warmer for me that way.)  One of the other people at the meeting asked me, in a round-about slangy way, if I was PREGNANT WITH A BUN IN THE OVEN!!!!!    :shock: :shock:

My immediate response was:  "I'M TOO OLD FOR THAT!!!!  I KNOW I'M OLD AND FAT BUT GEEZY PEEZY!!!!"  Left the other person speechless!!

I will NEVER be able to figure people out!!!!   :?

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« Reply #2905 on: November 16, 2011, 04:59:55 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2906 on: November 17, 2011, 07:48:52 AM »
Still dealing with stitches and trying to take extra precautions so that I don't accidentally rip them.....again.  Sticking to soft foods and liquids as long as I can stand it.
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« Reply #2907 on: November 18, 2011, 07:35:29 AM »
Feeling out of sorts this morning.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2908 on: November 18, 2011, 04:34:28 PM »
I think the reason I'm feeling out of sorts is because next week is Thanksgiving, then the start of the Christmas Crazies!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #2909 on: November 19, 2011, 09:15:25 AM »
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