Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[Ales2]

Good luck (((((Bones))))))

Wish we could be 3D.

[BonesMS]

Good luck (((((Bones))))))

Wish we could be 3D.

Thanks, ((((((((((((((((Ales2)))))))))))))))

In the meantime, looking at today's advice column in Dear Abby:

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20120315

I'm not sure if Dear Abby understands N's.

[BonesMS]

After reading the third letter in Annie's Mailbox from the retired state trooper:

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/till-death-do-we-chat.html

I agree with the police officer and I feel that the Annie's, along with the below-the-line commentators just don't get it!  I've lost count of how many times I've seen similar cases on Judge Judy where a teenager, (who recently got their driver's permit/license), were put in a position of trust such as house-sitting, pet-sitting, baby-sitting and they violated that trust by taking the plaintiff's car for a "joyride" without permission, caused damage, then attempted to walk away from the consequences and leave the plaintiff with all the bills!  And the dumb teenager's parent(s) stand there in court and act just as stupid!  (The nut doesn't fall far from the tree!)

It appears that neither the Annie's nor the BTL commentators HEARD what the police officer was telling them about how BAD the situation could get!  WHERE are their brains?!?!?

[sKePTiKal]

Bones -

Glad you're taking steps to figure out how to get your MRI. Could be this won't be just a one-time bit of info... it just might be the door that opens into what's available for you... to set up your Plan C - i.e., being able to have medical/transportation backup that reliable and dependable. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.

[BonesMS]

Bones -

Glad you're taking steps to figure out how to get your MRI. Could be this won't be just a one-time bit of info... it just might be the door that opens into what's available for you... to set up your Plan C - i.e., being able to have medical/transportation backup that reliable and dependable. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you.

Thanks, P.R.

[BonesMS]

When I spoke with the doctor, yesterday, regarding the MRI I was given the impression that it would be simply a matter of going in, getting the MRI done on my right kidney, and looking at the results.  Simple, right?  No-o-o-o-o-o-o-o!!  Not according to the people at the imaging place.  They are requiring a bunch of bloodwork done BEFORE they will schedule the MRI!

What makes this even more complicated is that my primary care physician has left the area, I'm trying to locate a new primary care physician closer to home that won't charge me an arm and a leg just to walk in the door, and I can't afford any more additional expenses!  This is on top of the discussion I had with the specialist, yesterday, about my phobia of needles.  (He NEVER mentioned that bloodwork was involved!)

And don't get me started about how bloodwork shouldn't be that big of a deal!  I've had enough of THAT over the years!!!!

I am VERY PISSED OFF!!!!  I don't like getting hit with nasty surprises!!!!!  The specialist should have told me this BEFORE I left his office!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[BonesMS]

Just thinking on a couple of things this morning.  First is today's Annie's Mailbox:

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/a-distant-fifth-wheel.html

I think BOTH the Annie's AND the BTL commentators are NOT getting what the first letter writer is saying.  I can identify with how s/he feels as I've had my "status" thrown in my face on more than one occasion, (e.g. "You have NOTHING to do and NOWHERE to go cuz you're NOT married and I OWN you!)  It doesn't matter whether s/he visits once a month or less frequently, THE ATTITUDE AND TREATMENT TOWARDS THE LETTER WRITER WOULD BE THE SAME!  Even when I cut back my visits to about once a year, if that frequent, I STILL had crap thrown in my face!  (Second class citizen anyone?)  So, yeah, I get it!

The other thing was a case on Judge Judy yesterday where a grandmother was forced to sue her own daughter in order to COMPEL her to take care of her own son's medical issues, the plaintiff's grandson!  The defendant got flippant with Judge Judy!  (BAD MOVE!)  Judge Judy had to tell this dumb b*tch more than once that since she NEVER terminated her parental rights SHE WAS STILL LEGALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR HER MINOR CHILD!  URGH!!!!   

That case reminded me of a similar situation where I had to deal with a STUPID father who attempted to refuse to do ANYTHING about his son's medical needs!  (This was when I was still working at a residential school for the Deaf.)  When I finally had no choice but to send Child Protective Services after him, that was when he FINALLY decided to communicate just to cuss me out for BOTHERING him!!!  He got read the same riot act that Judge Judy quoted yesterday!!!!  He had never gone to court to terminate his parental rights nor appoint a legal guardian, therefore HE WAS STILL RESPONSIBLE FOR HIS MINOR CHILD WHETHER OR NOT IT WAS CONVENIENT FOR THE FATHER!!!!    

Why are N's such a$$holes?!?!?!?!?

[BonesMS]

Finally got the MRI scheduled for Tuesday at 5:00 PM!  NO needle sticks!  Thank you!

[Ales2]

Read the post about the bragging husband. Sad, that Dear Abby is a trusted advisor to so many people and she might be missing his Nism.

Good luck with your MRI ((((((((Bones)))))))).

[BonesMS]

Read the post about the bragging husband. Sad, that Dear Abby is a trusted advisor to so many people and she might be missing his Nism.

Good luck with your MRI ((((((((Bones)))))))).

Thanks, (((((((((Ales2))))))))))))))))))))

[BonesMS]

Picked up my anniversary chip today and was thinking back on what I learned through the years..................

[BonesMS]

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[BonesMS]

I can empathize with the first letter writer:

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20120319

How many can remember bringing home a good report card from school only to be stomped on by the N?

[Ales2]

I wrote a script which I sent to my N mother. She read it and all she could say was there was a typo on page 111. When I asked if she liked it, her excuse for a non-response was that she did not know how to read a screenplay.   It did not win any contests, but received two honorable mentions. Its certainly readable if nothing else.