Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[BonesMS]

As far as I can see, this N-Mother is setting up her SEVEN-YEAR-OLD daughter for eating disorders!

http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/cutline/vogue-article-mom-7-old-daughter-weight-sparks-175546979.html

[BonesMS]

 

[sKePTiKal]

Hey kiddo - how're ya doin?

Did you get your MRI done yet? I've got a "big step" coming up tomorrow... something I'm doing for myself. More on that in my Twiggy thread.
Been quiet here, huh?

[BonesMS]

Hey kiddo - how're ya doin?

Did you get your MRI done yet? I've got a "big step" coming up tomorrow... something I'm doing for myself. More on that in my Twiggy thread.
Been quiet here, huh?

Hi, P.R.

I had the MRI done last week and I'm waiting to hear back from the doctor.  If he decides he wants to do a needle aspiration on my kidney, I've already told him that he's going to HAVE to do it under general anesthesia as local and twilight sedation do NOT work anymore!

I'll look for your Twiggy thread to read more.

Yes, it has been quiet here.

[BonesMS]

here.....................

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checking in.............................

[BonesMS]

Feeling a bit of mischief at the moment.   

Someone, who I suspect is an N, had a posting show up on my FB newsfeed about the best feminine attribute to have and wanted to know the opinion of others.  I couldn't resist responding with:  "What about the wrinkles and gray hair that we've EARNED?"  No response.  Oh well..........

[BonesMS]

having trouble sleeping this time of night................

[BonesMS]

I don't think this advice columnist gets it:

http://www.creators.com/advice/at-work-lindsey-novak/change-focus-of-employee-who-thrives-on-gossip.html

[BonesMS]

still having insomnia issues...............

[sKePTiKal]

Have you tried chamomile tea at night, Bones? Celestial Seasoning "Sleepytime" isn't bad, either. Has anything changed in your environment or routine at night that might be keeping you up? Are you getting enough exercise during the day from normal activity?

[BonesMS]

Have you tried chamomile tea at night, Bones? Celestial Seasoning "Sleepytime" isn't bad, either. Has anything changed in your environment or routine at night that might be keeping you up? Are you getting enough exercise during the day from normal activity?

Thanks, P.R.

I think between the time change and dealing with the urologist is affecting my ability to sleep through the night.

[BonesMS]

Regarding the first letter, I don't think Dear Abby gets it:

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/

[Redhead Erin]

It was a practical answer--Stick it out until you can legally leave. There is a lot more going on psychologically, for sure, but in the practical sense, what else can an over-controlled, un-employed, non-driving teen age girl do? Even if she calls the authorities and reports to Child Protective Services RIGHT NOW it will still be months before anything happens--if it does.  The mother is a bitch, but apparently she is employed and the kids are fed and clothed, so what could be done? 

[BonesMS]

It was a practical answer--Stick it out until you can legally leave. There is a lot more going on psychologically, for sure, but in the practical sense, what else can an over-controlled, un-employed, non-driving teen age girl do? Even if she calls the authorities and reports to Child Protective Services RIGHT NOW it will still be months before anything happens--if it does.  The mother is a bitch, but apparently she is employed and the kids are fed and clothed, so what could be done? 

It made me think of what the NQueen-Bitch did to my NGCB the day he announced he was leaving home.  She went ballistic and beat the crap out of him because he DARED to want to leave HER!