Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[BonesMS]

Regarding the first letter, I don't think Dear Abby gets it:

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/

One of my concerns is that even when she is old enough to legally leave, where can she afford to go if the NBitch refuses to give her Social Security card to her or anything else that legally belongs to her?  She hasn't been allowed to apply for jobs or anything else that would give her the opportunity to escape the NBitch's clutches.  She's being enslaved.

[Redhead Erin]

I wondered about that, too.  But birth certificates are public record.  When she turns 18, she should be able to get hold of her school records, which will include her proper birth date.  Then she can go after the birth certif. According to the Social Security web site, her school transcripts can be used for identity to get her social security number. And she will likely have to go to a shelter, or stay with an understanding friend.

She does not have to tell anyone where she is going, either.  Hopefully, the day she turns 18, she will walk out the door with a duffel bag full of clothes, and not look back. 

[BonesMS]

I wondered about that, too.  But birth certificates are public record.  When she turns 18, she should be able to get hold of her school records, which will include her proper birth date.  Then she can go after the birth certif. According to the Social Security web site, her school transcripts can be used for identity to get her social security number. And she will likely have to go to a shelter, or stay with an understanding friend.

She does not have to tell anyone where she is going, either.  Hopefully, the day she turns 18, she will walk out the door with a duffel bag full of clothes, and not look back. 

Hopefully, unless the NQueenbitch attempts a beat-down like I had witnessed.

[BonesMS]

This is NOT an April Fool's joke as I am in NO mood for April Fool crap today!  People can be so STUPID!!!!!!!!

The fire alarm in both my building and the building next door sounded off this morning and I could not convince most of my neighbors to evacuate until the fire department arrived.  One neighbor actually WASTED time by climbing on a chair to dismantle his smoke detectors instead of getting himself and his pets to safety!  It took him several minutes before he realized it was the BUILDING'S ALARM SYSTEM sounding!

What is WRONG with these people or do they have a Death Wish?!?!?!?   

[BonesMS]

And this has been the SECOND time I had to deal with this form of suicidal stupidity from my neighbors in less than three months!   EEERRRGGGGGG!!!!

[Redhead Erin]

Nominate them for the Darwin award and be done with it.

[BonesMS]

Nominate them for the Darwin award and be done with it.

I'm at that stage now! 

[BonesMS]

I still believe that the Annie's of Annie's Mailbox are ignorant!

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/mil-borrows-to-bond.html

[BonesMS]

I just received a notice yesterday from my health insurance.. Even though they paid for a good portion of the bill, I still have to come up with about $400.00 out of pocket to pay for that stupid MRI!  I'm trying to figure out how I'm going to be able to afford THAT on a FIXED income!   

[BonesMS]

Are Bride-zillas N's?

http://www.creators.com/advice/advice-goddess-amy-alkon/manure-and-wife.html

[Baddaughter]

Hey Bones -- just stopped in to say hey -- glad you are still here!    And I definitely don't think Abby got it either.  Oh -- saw something about an MRI -- make payment arrangements  -- I just got saddled with a 1200 bill for co pays and deductibles on 2 cataract surgeries -- they split it all up between hosp, doc and anesth., so there is a lot of bills but they don't get much if they have to turn you over to collection and even if they balk at first, they can't get blood out of a turnip.  To save me from being turned over to collection and when it was apparent that there wasn't anymore money, they've agreed to very small payments that will take about two years -- it is a nuisance to write and send checks -- sigh --  but don't want to start dreading the phone and mail -- as long as they have received Something from you in the 30 days prior, it is not really smart for them to refer for collections.  All that snake oil sure is expensive, isn't it?

[BonesMS]

Hey Bones -- just stopped in to say hey -- glad you are still here!    And I definitely don't think Abby got it either.  Oh -- saw something about an MRI -- make payment arrangements  -- I just got saddled with a 1200 bill for co pays and deductibles on 2 cataract surgeries -- they split it all up between hosp, doc and anesth., so there is a lot of bills but they don't get much if they have to turn you over to collection and even if they balk at first, they can't get blood out of a turnip.  To save me from being turned over to collection and when it was apparent that there wasn't anymore money, they've agreed to very small payments that will take about two years -- it is a nuisance to write and send checks -- sigh --  but don't want to start dreading the phone and mail -- as long as they have received Something from you in the 30 days prior, it is not really smart for them to refer for collections.  All that snake oil sure is expensive, isn't it?

Thanks!

It's all just so aggravating!

[BonesMS]

I'm watching one of the court shows this afternoon and one of the defendants REALLY took the cake!  Turns out that she had been sending her daughter to dance lessons for eight years, STOPPED paying and was sneaking her daughter in the back door to avoid being caught and avoid paying.  The owner of the dance studio sent her a registered letter with a cease and desist order, the defendant signed for, and the defendant attempted to deny she ever got such a letter.  (I could tell that the judge was really getting annoyed with this defendant and her excuses.  Bottom line...this defendant was committing theft of services, plain and simple.)  What had my jaw hit the floor was that part of the defendant's defense was that she felt she was ENTITLED to be given a scholarship since she "helped build the plaintiff's business"!!!!     WTF?!?!?  (Sorry, Charlie!  In my book, you don't earn an entitlement to any scholarship, or anything else for that matter, by stealing services!)  WHAT PLANET IS SHE LIVING ON?!?!?!?   

[Baddaughter]

sooner or later the daughter will be here for de-programming -- how humiliating for the kid

[BonesMS]

sooner or later the daughter will be here for de-programming -- how humiliating for the kid

I agree!  I feel sorry for the kid being stuck with a mother like that!