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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3766 on: September 09, 2012, 05:38:00 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3768 on: September 09, 2012, 10:08:36 AM »
I'm having difficulty understanding how some people think........

Since the moment I opened my eyes yesterday, before dawn, I was on the go....helping to set up the community yard sale, coordinating logistics, cleaning up and locking up afterwards, dealing with an emergency when an alarm went off, plus the aftermath of a storm that involved a tornado warning....so by the time I got back home I was EXHAUSTED!!!!! 

I'm in bed, between 9:30 to 10:00 PM, trying to get comfortable as I'm feeling muscles I forgot I had, finally start to drift off to sleep when my cell-phone rang.  Immediately, I'm thinking that CERT is being deployed in response to the storm damage earlier in the day.  I get out of bed, pick up my cell-phone, only to discover it is a new-found cousin calling from New York.   :?

His first words to me are:  "Where are you going?"

My response:  "I WAS going to SLEEP!"

His reaction:  "But it's NOT 10:00 yet!  Why are going to bed SO EARLY?!!?"

My comment:  "I AM EXHAUSTED AND I HAVE A RIGHT TO GET SOME SLEEP!!!  I've been going non-stop since BEFORE DAWN!  I WANT TO GO BACK TO BED AND GET THE REST I NEED!"

Sometimes I just have to be BLUNT!   :P

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3769 on: September 10, 2012, 06:00:03 AM »
For some reason, "Dear Abby" is not yet available this morning.  Maybe they are having technical difficulties.

I'm going to see if any of the other advice columns are up and running yet.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3770 on: September 10, 2012, 06:04:55 AM »
The second letter in "Annie's Mailbox" describes an ODD situation:

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/world-suicide-prevention-day.html

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3771 on: September 10, 2012, 06:41:43 PM »
I will NEVER understand the mind-set of people who want to play political games!

I'm being pressured to change my vote, without any logical explanation.  The other person's intention is to mess with the heads of others while playing this STUPID "game" that makes NO sense!  And he's pissed off because I kept demanding a logical explanation for his demand!  If you can't tell me WHY, then don't demand that I flip over my vote!  I need a better explanation other than messing with the minds of other people.

Sheesh!!!!   :P
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3772 on: September 11, 2012, 04:51:23 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3773 on: September 11, 2012, 06:26:05 AM »
I will NEVER understand the mind-set of people who want to play political games!

I'm being pressured to change my vote, without any logical explanation.  The other person's intention is to mess with the heads of others while playing this STUPID "game" that makes NO sense!  And he's pissed off because I kept demanding a logical explanation for his demand!  If you can't tell me WHY, then don't demand that I flip over my vote!  I need a better explanation other than messing with the minds of other people.

Sheesh!!!!   :P

I'm still getting pressure to change my vote to be the same as someone else's.  When I ask for facts, data, and logical reasons to base this change on, I'm accused of being "stubborn" because I won't blindly obey orders!

WTF?!?!?!?!?

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3774 on: September 11, 2012, 08:04:02 AM »
I will NEVER understand the mind-set of people who want to play political games!

I'm being pressured to change my vote, without any logical explanation.  The other person's intention is to mess with the heads of others while playing this STUPID "game" that makes NO sense!  And he's pissed off because I kept demanding a logical explanation for his demand!  If you can't tell me WHY, then don't demand that I flip over my vote!  I need a better explanation other than messing with the minds of other people.

Sheesh!!!!   :P

I'm still getting pressure to change my vote to be the same as someone else's.  When I ask for facts, data, and logical reasons to base this change on, I'm accused of being "stubborn" because I won't blindly obey orders!

WTF?!?!?!?!?



It seems no one wants to do critical thinking anymore.  All they want is knee-jerk, political game-playing that wastes everyone's time and energy.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3776 on: September 12, 2012, 04:44:02 PM »
Feeling frustrated and don't know where to channel it!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3777 on: September 12, 2012, 06:41:08 PM »
Isolated.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3778 on: September 13, 2012, 12:26:38 AM »



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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #3779 on: September 13, 2012, 06:13:07 AM »



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Thanks, (((((((((((((((((((TT)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

BTW, here is today's "Dear Abby":

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20120913

The letter writer sounds as if she woke up and realized that her father is an N.
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