Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[BonesMS]

Hi ((((Bones))) --
Thought you might appreciate this tribute:
http://www.cnn.com/2013/01/17/showbiz/dear-abby-pauline-phillips-obit/index.html?hpt=hp_t1

The commenters are really touching, and make me appreciate YOU.

love to you,
Hops

Thanks, ((((((((((((((((((((((((Hops))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

[BonesMS]

I just finished watching an episode of Judge Judy where a plaintiff was suing to have her parrot returned.  The more the plaintiff ran her mouth, the more she sounded like an N!  Totally BAT-SHIT CRAZY!!!!

Edit in:  BTW, the parrot involved is the type of breed that REQUIRES A LOT of attention and mental stimulation.  Otherwise, they get bored and develop behavioral issues.  Can you imagine an N owning such a pet? 

[BonesMS]

Today's "Annie's Mailbox":

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/negative-nancy.html

Painfully familiar.............................

[BonesMS]

Today's "Dear Margo":

http://www.creators.com/advice/dear-margo/whose-life-is-it-anyway.html

[BonesMS]

Today's tribute from Jeanne Phillips to her mother, the late Pauline Phillips also known as "Dear Abby":

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20130118

[BonesMS]

Today's "Dear Margo":

http://www.creators.com/advice/dear-margo/when-not-to-sleuth-around.html

[BonesMS]

Today's "Dear Abby":

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20130119

[BonesMS]

Today's "Dear Abby":

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20130120

[BonesMS]

Today's "Annie's Mailbox":

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/this-reconnection-will-require-an-acknowledgment.html

[BonesMS]

Today's "Dear Abby":

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20130121

[BonesMS]

Today's "Annie's Mailbox":

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/good-old-fashioned-hostile-hospitality.html

[BonesMS]

Today's "Dear Prudence":

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2013/01/dear_prudence_is_my_engagement_ring_diamond_too_small.html

When I read about the child who became ill when he ate pasta, the first thought that hit my brain was either food allergy or some sort of intolerance of an ingredient that is normally in pasta......gluten maybe?  Nowhere was there a mention of this child being tested for food intolerance or other potential digestive issues.  The only thing mentioned was migraines.  Some people have lactose intolerance, others react badly to certain ingredients that is a part of a food.  Knowing what I know of different pasta dishes.....it's possible it's not just the pasta but whatever else was mixed with it that he could have had a reaction to......cheese, tomatoes, spices, meat, etc. 

Instead of labeling the child as an "embarrassment to the family", suggesting cognitive behavioral therapy, etc., WHEN will this 10-year-old child be medically tested for potential digestive problems?!?!?!?!?  GEEZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[BonesMS]

Today's "Annie's Mailbox":

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/dreading-the-shock-of-home.html

*Shaking head*

[BonesMS]

Needing to practice setting some boundaries today.

I posted a photo on my FB page with a comment that it is TIME to STEP UP, SPEAK UP, and STOP THE VIOLENCE....ESPECIALLY when it involves CHILDREN as tools!  I've received demands, from one individual, ordering me to remove it from MY page because HE does NOT approve of my opinions!  I told him to change his own Newsfeed.  No one has the right to dictate what I SHOULD THINK.  NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO DICTATE that I should remain SILENT in the face of violence!  NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO ATTEMPT TO TAKE MY VOICE AWAY FROM ME because they DO NOT APPROVE!

If certain individuals don't approve of my protesting against violence, I will borrow the words from David Gerrold and tell them:  "GET OFF MY LAWN!"

[BonesMS]

Needing to practice setting some boundaries today.

I posted a photo on my FB page with a comment that it is TIME to STEP UP, SPEAK UP, and STOP THE VIOLENCE....ESPECIALLY when it involves CHILDREN as tools!  I've received demands, from one individual, ordering me to remove it from MY page because HE does NOT approve of my opinions!  I told him to change his own Newsfeed.  No one has the right to dictate what I SHOULD THINK.  NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO DICTATE that I should remain SILENT in the face of violence!  NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO ATTEMPT TO TAKE MY VOICE AWAY FROM ME because they DO NOT APPROVE!

If certain individuals don't approve of my protesting against violence, I will borrow the words from David Gerrold and tell them:  "GET OFF MY LAWN!"

Just got a PM from the one individual ordering me to remove the photo from MY page, repeating his DEMAND that I remove the picture from MY PERSONAL PAGE......his reasoning......he prefers to live in a Star Wars Role-playing FANTASY WORLD where THIS kind of stuff NEVER exists!     WTF?!?!?!?!?!?!?  He actually believes the ENTIRE UNIVERSE REVOLVES AROUND WHAT HE LIKES AND WANTS and that ANYTHING UNPLEASANT MAGICALLY VANISHES WHEN IGNORED.....just like a computer game?!?!?!?


Excu-u-u-u-u-use me, sir, but WHAT PLANET ARE YOU LIVING ON?!?!?!?!?!?