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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4231 on: February 19, 2013, 01:16:54 PM »
What happened, I posted Happy Birthday Bonesie but it's gone!  Happy, happy birthday :)  I hope you had a lovely day :) xx

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« Reply #4232 on: February 19, 2013, 04:55:42 PM »
What happened, I posted Happy Birthday Bonesie but it's gone!  Happy, happy birthday :)  I hope you had a lovely day :) xx

I don't know what happened as I didn't get a chance to see it.

Thanks for the birthday wishes.

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« Reply #4233 on: February 20, 2013, 05:19:25 AM »
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« Reply #4234 on: February 20, 2013, 05:21:46 AM »
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« Reply #4235 on: February 20, 2013, 08:09:17 AM »
Has anyone noticed that when OTHERS need something, they don't hesitate to call on you?  BUT, the moment it's YOUR turn, then suddenly YOU'RE TOO NEEDY and they CAN'T BE BOTHERED?   :?

Yes, yes, yes, yes and yes!  My worm is turning though, Bonesie, I'm weeding them out and  trying to focus on those that are around whatever the situation is!

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Had an incident last night that brought this back up.

Around 6:45 PM, my phone rang.  I saw on the Caller ID that it was someone who RARELY speaks to me, if at all.  She wanted me to give her a ride to a meeting that was scheduled to begin in 45 minutes!  She lives across town and the meeting was in a different city.  I had previously told her that I no longer give rides to anyone because I have chronic health issues now and I can no longer risk the liability should something happen.  I've also stopped driving at night for the same reason.  Clearly, she had listened to NONE of it and expected me to drop what I was doing and give her a ride at the LAST minute!

Once again, I reminded her that I have chronic health issues and that I am NO LONGER DRIVING at night and I am NO LONGER able to transport anyone else anywhere!  She couldn't get off the phone fast enough!    BITCH!!!!   :P
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« Reply #4238 on: February 22, 2013, 05:32:14 AM »
Today's "Annie's Mailbox" has me shaking my head:

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/long-estranged-mother-wants-her-daughter-back.html

The title should read "Estranged FATHER"!
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« Reply #4239 on: February 22, 2013, 05:39:19 AM »
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« Reply #4240 on: February 22, 2013, 05:41:26 AM »
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« Reply #4243 on: February 23, 2013, 02:44:48 AM »
In today's "Annie's Mailbox":

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/jealous-mom-blind-to-her-many-blessings.html

The advice columnists are CLUELESS as usual!

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