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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4261 on: March 01, 2013, 09:58:44 PM »
Gettin' lonesome in here, Bones, isn't it?

Where'd everybody GO?

Hope you're sleeping better.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4262 on: March 02, 2013, 12:32:49 AM »
Gettin' lonesome in here, Bones, isn't it?

Where'd everybody GO?

Hope you're sleeping better.

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Hops

Thanks, Hops.

I don't know where everyone went.

Not sleeping well right now.  Having PTSD issues at the moment and got startled awake by my upstairs neighbor's plumbing.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4265 on: March 02, 2013, 06:47:47 AM »
Gettin' lonesome in here, Bones, isn't it?

Where'd everybody GO?

Hope you're sleeping better.

love,
Hops

Thanks, Hops.

I don't know where everyone went.

Not sleeping well right now.  Having PTSD issues at the moment and got startled awake by my upstairs neighbor's plumbing.



It is quiet at the mo, I'm kind of feeling all over the place at the mo so keeping to myself and getting things done.  Maybe there's certain times of year that people struggle more with?  I know for me Christmas and winter are tough, then come anniversaries of two people I loved who died, then celebrations of a friend's mum's 60th, a lovely time but makes me feel sad I don't have a mum to celebrate birthdays with and then my son's birthday comes which is also a great time but again triggers the whole not having family side of things.  So from December to April it's all a bit grim, maybe others are like that as well?  Anyway, Bonesie I hope you get some sleep soon and things start calming down for you and hi, Hops! xx

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4266 on: March 02, 2013, 07:11:37 AM »
Gettin' lonesome in here, Bones, isn't it?

Where'd everybody GO?

Hope you're sleeping better.

love,
Hops

Thanks, Hops.

I don't know where everyone went.

Not sleeping well right now.  Having PTSD issues at the moment and got startled awake by my upstairs neighbor's plumbing.



It is quiet at the mo, I'm kind of feeling all over the place at the mo so keeping to myself and getting things done.  Maybe there's certain times of year that people struggle more with?  I know for me Christmas and winter are tough, then come anniversaries of two people I loved who died, then celebrations of a friend's mum's 60th, a lovely time but makes me feel sad I don't have a mum to celebrate birthdays with and then my son's birthday comes which is also a great time but again triggers the whole not having family side of things.  So from December to April it's all a bit grim, maybe others are like that as well?  Anyway, Bonesie I hope you get some sleep soon and things start calming down for you and hi, Hops! xx

Thanks, Tupp.

That might be the reason I'm feeling so down.....knowing I have no family and recognizing that the 3-D people around me are only acquaintances, not friends.  Struggling with flood damage, trying to figure out how I'm going to pay the deductible, plus the medical stuff and finances.....alone.....is not a fun place to be.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4268 on: March 03, 2013, 04:39:43 AM »
In today's "Dear Abby":

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20130303

This M-I-L sounds like a Narcissist attempting to use her 50-year-old son as if he's her toy doll to dress as SHE demands!

BIZARRE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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« Reply #4269 on: March 03, 2013, 04:49:50 AM »
In today's "Annie's Mailbox":

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/grandmother-wants-more-time-with-grandkids.html

One of the "Below the Line" commentators brings up something that the advice columnists have TOTALLY ignored.....SHINGLES, which stems from the same virus that causes Chicken Pox!  The grandson is a NEWBORN who has NOT YET been VACCINATED!  The grandmother mentions suffering with outbreaks of shingles.  I wouldn't expose ANY newborn to THAT!  If the grandmother is still contagious she should know better than to expose a newborn to the chicken pox virus!

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« Reply #4270 on: March 03, 2013, 08:35:24 AM »
I don't know how many people watch Judge Judy on a regular basis.  One of the cases, from Friday evening, had me shaking my head.  The case involved a divorced couple, with two teenaged daughters....one about age 15, the other about a year or so younger.  The couple had been divorced since the two daughters were toddlers and the father had sole custody since the divorce.  The ex-wife is supposed to visit for an hour or so every other weekend.  The ex-wife had been court-ordered to pay only $25.00 per month, for both kids.  (That's right.....$12.50 per child, per month) but the ex-wife has NEVER paid it!  She doesn't have a driver's license so the state can't take that.  She doesn't have a car, so the state can't take that.  She has NOT filed taxes for God knows how long, which makes me wonder how long before the IRS goes after her.  She's been working off-and-on, for an uncle, who pays her "under the table" and "off the books".  (From where I sat, what she was doing appeared like a dodge to avoid EVER paying ANY child support!  Why the state hasn't thrown her lead a$$ in jail for not paying child support, I don't know! )  When Judge Judy demanded an explanation from her about why she has NEVER paid child support, the ex-wife tried to claim that SHE was the INNOCENT victim and that her ex-husband was SO EVIL!  That didn't fly with Judge Judy as she has NO tolerance for dead-beat parents!  The ex-husband won his judgement.  When the litigants were interviewed in the hallway after the case, the ex-wife, who had been the defendant, complained about Judge Judy not understanding her situation, etc., etc., etc., etc., etc.

I thought to myself:  "BITCH!  PLEASE!!!!!"   :P
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