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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4593 on: June 17, 2013, 03:48:49 PM »
I'm feeling very ticked off right now because I received an e-mail that contained an insensitive racial joke...which is one of my BIGGEST PET PEEVES!!!  Here is what I posted as a response:


In the Vision of the Great Bird of the Galaxy, Gene Roddenberry, racial jokes and racial discrimination were not as prominent as they
were in the 1960's. The issue of racial conflict was even addressed in episodes such as:  "Let This Be Your Last Battlefield" and in
"Day of the Dove". 

Now that we are in the 21st Century, and have the first African-American in the White House, I would think that we are still working toward Gene Roddenberry's vision of Star Trek's future.

It was bad enough, when a cousin sent me a quote "joke" unquote, using the "N-Word" as the punch line when he KNOWS I am multi-racial, including African-American blood and having a former slave as an ancestor. There is still the possibility of finding Native American ancestry as well given that several ancestors co-existed with those who were on this continent first.

Sending me a "joke" about "reservations" and Indians reminds me of the Trail of Tears when Native Americans were forced to leave their homes and force-marched to reservations. Some died along the way.

To me, such a joke is in poor taste. This would be akin to sending a joke about Japanese-Americans being interned, during World War Two, to George Takei. Not funny!

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4596 on: June 18, 2013, 08:23:39 AM »
I'm feeling very ticked off right now because I received an e-mail that contained an insensitive racial joke...which is one of my BIGGEST PET PEEVES!!!  Here is what I posted as a response:


In the Vision of the Great Bird of the Galaxy, Gene Roddenberry, racial jokes and racial discrimination were not as prominent as they
were in the 1960's. The issue of racial conflict was even addressed in episodes such as:  "Let This Be Your Last Battlefield" and in
"Day of the Dove". 

Now that we are in the 21st Century, and have the first African-American in the White House, I would think that we are still working toward Gene Roddenberry's vision of Star Trek's future.

It was bad enough, when a cousin sent me a quote "joke" unquote, using the "N-Word" as the punch line when he KNOWS I am multi-racial, including African-American blood and having a former slave as an ancestor. There is still the possibility of finding Native American ancestry as well given that several ancestors co-existed with those who were on this continent first.

Sending me a "joke" about "reservations" and Indians reminds me of the Trail of Tears when Native Americans were forced to leave their homes and force-marched to reservations. Some died along the way.

To me, such a joke is in poor taste. This would be akin to sending a joke about Japanese-Americans being interned, during World War Two, to George Takei. Not funny!

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I don't know which is worst, the general run-of-the-mill N or the Racist N!!!!!  Stupid MORON sends out an e-mail to the club, calling me "thin-skinned" because I don't like racist jokes.  This JACKA$$ KNOWS I am multi-racial, multi-ethnic and, in his little world, he's "only joking" and I'm "too sensitive".  TYPICAL NARCISSISTIC BS!!!  Below is my response to this twit:

"More racist jokes by referring to my multi-racial skin, [name of N-Idiot]?  Are you really THAT DENSE?!?!?  OR THAT SELF-ABSORBED that you don't want to see that people DON'T LIKE RACIST JOKES!?!"

Yeah, the gloves are OFF!!!!  F!@#$-ing TWIT!!!!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4600 on: June 19, 2013, 02:41:02 PM »
He's not worth your energy (or elevating your blood pressure), Bones.
I thought your first response to him was excellent.

When you take the high (and educated) road, you are going to impress
most of the readers with the fairness and accuracy of your opinion. (If you
let him push your buttons into anger or returned name-calling, not so much...)

Those who don't get it, unfortunately, often never will.
You might enjoy this -- and it shows there's hope with some ignorance:
http://www.upworthy.com/dude-passive-agressively-makes-fun-of-sikh-woman-on-the-internet-and-ends-up-eat

Luck!
Hops
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4601 on: June 19, 2013, 02:47:53 PM »
He's not worth your energy (or elevating your blood pressure), Bones.
I thought your first response to him was excellent.

When you take the high (and educated) road, you are going to impress
most of the readers with the fairness and accuracy of your opinion. (If you
let him push your buttons into anger or returned name-calling, not so much...)

Those who don't get it, unfortunately, often never will.
You might enjoy this -- and it shows there's hope with some ignorance:
http://www.upworthy.com/dude-passive-agressively-makes-fun-of-sikh-woman-on-the-internet-and-ends-up-eat

Luck!
Hops

Thanks, Hops!

A couple of other members in the club also took him to task for his insensitive racist "joke".  Believe it or not, he finally apologized for offending us!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4602 on: June 19, 2013, 09:44:43 PM »
That's great! I love it when people apologize.
Good for you, and for them, and for him.

Bravo!

Hope you watch that video, it's pretty amazing....

xo
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4603 on: June 19, 2013, 10:15:50 PM »
That's great! I love it when people apologize.
Good for you, and for them, and for him.

Bravo!

Hope you watch that video, it's pretty amazing....

xo
Hops

Thanks, Hops!

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