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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4609 on: June 21, 2013, 02:09:01 AM »
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I'd get a restraining order against this womb-donor!  The monster was NEVER a mother!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4610 on: June 21, 2013, 02:17:36 PM »
Re the post above and the mother who abandoned the daughter.

I have to say that my personal opinion is that the young woman needs to vent to her mother, possibly with the help of the therapist. Keeping it bottled up, and not acknowledging it is bad. It has to be done carefully, and right time, right place, but I think the daughter needs to say WHY she wants her peace and privacy. There are so many parents hear who dont listen, even after years of arguing and we suffer in silence. Its possible this mother will hear the words, but not comprehend them, but the release is for the daughter, not the mothers benefit.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4611 on: June 21, 2013, 02:24:26 PM »
Re the post above and the mother who abandoned the daughter.

I have to say that my personal opinion is that the young woman needs to vent to her mother, possibly with the help of the therapist. Keeping it bottled up, and not acknowledging it is bad. It has to be done carefully, and right time, right place, but I think the daughter needs to say WHY she wants her peace and privacy. There are so many parents hear who dont listen, even after years of arguing and we suffer in silence. Its possible this mother will hear the words, but not comprehend them, but the release is for the daughter, not the mothers benefit.

Who knows what the womb-donor would be willing to do.  She does not deserve to be given the title of "mother".

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #4612 on: June 21, 2013, 03:00:20 PM »
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