Author Topic: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?  (Read 1305277 times)

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5115 on: November 06, 2013, 09:29:08 PM »
Wow.
Just, wow.
That mother had zero sense of being one of many, in community.

Little kid with leukemia and "not my problem"? Yikes.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5116 on: November 07, 2013, 05:53:44 AM »
Wow.
Just, wow.
That mother had zero sense of being one of many, in community.

Little kid with leukemia and "not my problem"? Yikes.

Thanks, Hops.

I didn't realize it then, but I realize now.....that dingbat was an N.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5117 on: November 07, 2013, 06:28:42 AM »
http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/a-mother-s-concern-feels-like-control.html

Shaking my head......

The first letter......the mother needs to understand that her son is GROWN and has his OWN WIFE AND KIDS to look after instead of reporting to "mommy".  I'm sure he's told her that on more than one occasion and she simply REFUSES to hear it!  No wonder he's ticked off at her.  (I've known 3-D situations where this has happened so I don't blame the son at all!)

The second letter regarding the Emergency Room.....it is called an EMERGENCY Room at the HOSPITAL for a REASON!  People are brought in by ambulance, FREQUENTLY, as a result of car accidents, heart attacks, strokes, asthma attacks, criminal attacks, and other potentially life threatening conditions.  I've been referred to the ER, by a doctor, on more than one occasion when I was having a combination of asthma and bronchitis.  For people to phone the ER employees and DEMAND TO KNOW how long THEY must WAIT...... :roll:, then cuss out the employees because THEY did NOT get the answer THEY DEMANDED.......GEEZ!!!!!!  I can understand if they don't have health insurance yet.  That is about to change.  In the meantime, expect to wait in line.  At the same time, if they're calling about a sprained ankle and the ER staff are in the middle of dealing with a sick infant who is at death's door....I have a message for that caller....you have NO right to get huffy because they are paying more attention to the sick baby than little old Y-O-U!  If I were the ER employee, I would ask the caller if they have health insurance.  If the answer is, "Yes", refer them to the insurance's toll-free number as that is what the toll-free number is for.  I have mine posted on my refrigerator for just that purpose.  If the caller states that their health insurance provider told them to go to the Emergency Room....well, guess what?  Get in line as life threatening emergencies have a higher priority! 

I think I'll get off my soap box now.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5118 on: November 07, 2013, 06:36:51 AM »
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20131107

Need to think about these before saying anything.  

Edit in:  Regarding the female veteran, I wonder if she IS wearing indications of being in the military and is being ignored anyway?  Look at how voiceless some women are being forced to be until someone starts taking a stand.
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« Reply #5120 on: November 08, 2013, 04:46:10 AM »
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20131108

What is WRONG with people who simply WILL NOT accept the fact that some people DO HAVE LIFE-THREATENING ALLERGIES?!?!?!

I just don't get it!!!!!
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« Reply #5121 on: November 08, 2013, 05:29:05 AM »
http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/a-thick-skin-will-cure-what-ails-her.html

As usual, the advice columnists have their heads stuck deep up their own A$$E$!!!!!  GEEZ!!!!   :roll:

The sibling she writes about has a HISTORY OF PHYSICAL VIOLENCE and their advice is:  "Get a thicker skin"?  WTF?!?!?!?


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« Reply #5125 on: November 09, 2013, 05:02:02 PM »
Just got home from a basic search and rescue training class a little while ago.

During the class, I came to learn that a certain individual, who had been causing headaches in other organizations, managed to give this instructor a BIG headache and screwed with a police investigation on top of it all!!!!  And for what?  Just to get everyone to focus their attention on the IDIOT!!!!  This same idiot pulled a stupid stunt back in June that could have caused all of us to get thrown out of our training.  The MORON deserves to get BITCH-SLAPPED!!!  Fortunately, the idiot has been banned from participating with us from now on.
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« Reply #5128 on: November 10, 2013, 06:21:55 PM »
Had the opportunity to go to a park today as part of my ongoing training.  While there, I saw both a doe and a buck.  Usually, deer run away at the sight of any humans.  This buck stood there and stared back at us with ATTITUDE!!!!!  He was STILL GORGEOUS!!!!!
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