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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5255 on: December 20, 2013, 12:21:51 AM »
You ever write into one of these Dear Prudence or Dear Abby?

If I wrote in I don't think they would respond to me and I think all they would say is  "go see a shrink or take meds".



She shouldn't tell the wife because she needs to keep her job and in my really miserable mind all relationships are "open" and people cheat on each other it's like a known unstated fact about the reality of romance.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5256 on: December 20, 2013, 05:56:13 AM »
You ever write into one of these Dear Prudence or Dear Abby?

If I wrote in I don't think they would respond to me and I think all they would say is  "go see a shrink or take meds".



She shouldn't tell the wife because she needs to keep her job and in my really miserable mind all relationships are "open" and people cheat on each other it's like a known unstated fact about the reality of romance.



Once, a long, long time ago, I wrote to Dear Abby regarding dealing with being a caretaker of an aging parent and she responded because it wasn't long after her mother had been diagnosed with Alzheimer's.  Her response wasn't bad at all.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5258 on: December 20, 2013, 06:11:23 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5263 on: December 21, 2013, 10:55:21 AM »
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She shouldn't tell the wife because she needs to keep her job and in my really miserable mind all relationships are "open" and people cheat on each other it's like a known unstated fact about the reality of romance.

I won't comment on the wisdom or morality of helping a boss cheat on his wife, regardless of how much we may think she may need her job. If I did comment on it I might suggest she needs a little self respect too, perhaps even more than she needs the job. I also might suggest Prudence go take a walk til her hat floats.

I will say the second half of your comment, GB, is incorrect and doesn't recognize the many men and woman who would quite literally die before they betrayed their spouses. Your mind isn't miserable; I'm guessing rather that you have been betrayed by one or more of those who have no trouble betraying people they supposedly love.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5264 on: December 21, 2013, 11:16:22 AM »
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She shouldn't tell the wife because she needs to keep her job and in my really miserable mind all relationships are "open" and people cheat on each other it's like a known unstated fact about the reality of romance.

I won't comment on the wisdom or morality of helping a boss cheat on his wife, regardless of how much we may think she may need her job. If I did comment on it I might suggest she needs a little self respect too, perhaps even more than she needs the job. I also might suggest Prudence go take a walk til her hat floats.

I will say the second half of your comment, GB, is incorrect and doesn't recognize the many men and woman who would quite literally die before they betrayed their spouses. Your mind isn't miserable; I'm guessing rather that you have been betrayed by one or more of those who have no trouble betraying people they supposedly love.

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I was just trying to post something related to Bones posts is all.

Don't be an asshole about it.  I DON'T NEED FOR YOU TO EVALUATE IF MY OPINION IS VALID OR NOT.

I prefer if you don't "respond" to my posts at all mud I find your comments to sound like you are trying to instigate conflict. Bleh

 



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