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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5370 on: January 17, 2014, 09:34:28 AM »
Really sorry to hear about your friend, Bones.

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Thanks, Hops.

The fire is still being investigated and no one will know what actually happened until the report is released.  My BIGGEST question is what happened to ALL the smoke detectors that were supposed to be in her house?  At least one of them should have been sounding off to wake her up.  But she slept through everything until her heart and breathing stopped. 
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5371 on: January 18, 2014, 04:33:44 AM »
http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/an-estranged-father-passes.html

The advice columnists and the letter writer don't really know what led to the estrangement in the first place.  The LW's brother could have been a toxic controlling N and his children finally had enough.

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« Reply #5373 on: January 19, 2014, 06:02:12 AM »
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20140119

It sounds like the letter writer is an Aspie and no one else gets it.  The issue with the eye contact is a HUGE clue that she might be on the Spectrum!

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« Reply #5374 on: January 19, 2014, 06:23:36 AM »
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« Reply #5375 on: January 20, 2014, 03:19:43 AM »
I'm in a state of shock right now.  One of my friends, from a club that I'm in, has been declared brain-dead after being in a house fire this morning.  She had been battling cancer for quite a while and then had a stroke on top of that.  I had prepared myself for the eventuality of her dying either from the cancer and/or the stroke but THIS?!?!?!?

I'm so sorry to hear about your friend, Bones, what an awful thing to have happen.  ((((((((((((((((((((Bones))))))))))))))))))))))))))

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5376 on: January 20, 2014, 06:55:30 AM »
I'm in a state of shock right now.  One of my friends, from a club that I'm in, has been declared brain-dead after being in a house fire this morning.  She had been battling cancer for quite a while and then had a stroke on top of that.  I had prepared myself for the eventuality of her dying either from the cancer and/or the stroke but THIS?!?!?!?

I'm so sorry to hear about your friend, Bones, what an awful thing to have happen.  ((((((((((((((((((((Bones))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Thanks, (((((((Tupp))))))))).  All the members of the club are in a state of shock right now.  One of our members, who was her emergency contact, is experiencing a form of PTSD because he went to the scene after the police called him and then went to the hospital to say his final goodbyes to her before the plug was pulled.  Then, last night, as he and his wife were watching a program that had previously been DVR'd, there was a scene that was eerily identical to what happened to our late friend and that was more than he and his wife could handle!  The rest of the club has been alerted so we can avoid watching that particular show for now.  We don't need reminders of what has happened in real life.
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« Reply #5378 on: January 20, 2014, 07:15:54 AM »
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/?uc_full_date=20140120

If this passenger, who is getting a free ride, wants to cop an attitude then she needs to find other transportation.  No driver should be subjected to THAT!   :P
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« Reply #5380 on: January 21, 2014, 08:56:22 AM »
http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/a-truly-loveless-marriage.html

Regarding the letter from "Rolled Up the Welcome Mat", s/he could have also included:  "Do you CONSTANTLY interfere in the marriages/relationships of your adult children DEMANDING that they produce MORE grandchildren for YOU because you THINK you're ENTITLED?!?!?"  (I've known a nutjob who behaved just like that and attempted to force me to side with her when her adult daughter and son-in-law told her off.)

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« Reply #5381 on: January 21, 2014, 04:07:16 PM »
Hi Bones ... I am so pooped ...that is another story ..just wanted to say Hello ...
love and light always
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5382 on: January 21, 2014, 04:09:40 PM »
Hi Bones ... I am so pooped ...that is another story ..just wanted to say Hello ...
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moonlight

Hi, Moonlight.

Have we met before?

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« Reply #5383 on: January 21, 2014, 04:16:01 PM »
Hi Bones ....Yes a very long time ago ....I am moon ....it has been a long time since I was on the board...But yes...
It is like meeting for the first time....
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5384 on: January 21, 2014, 04:19:11 PM »
Hi Bones ....Yes a very long time ago ....I am moon ....it has been a long time since I was on the board...But yes...
It is like meeting for the first time....
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moon

Thanks, Moon.  It must have been 2007.
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