Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[BonesMS]

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The second letter, from "Evil Stepmother", tells me that she and her husband want to dictate and control but they are NOT getting THEIR way.  So now they want to threaten that if the grown daughter doesn't do what THEY want, they will pick up their marbles and go home!  Yeah....right!  Real mature!  The GROWN DAUGHTER is getting married WHERE THE GROWN DAUGHTER LIVES!  Sounds right to me! 

The more I think about the second letter, the more it reminds me of a case I once saw on Judge Judy where a father attempted to sue his grown daughter for EVERY PENNY HE PAID IN CHILD SUPPORT because now HE wanted the money back!  Judge Judy TORE HIM UP!!!! 

[BonesMS]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vCQ6XfUmBk0

I wish I could get people at Voc. Rehab. to understand.  Unfortunately, they just do NOT get it!

[Hopalong]

Happy Spring to you, Bones...hope you're getting out to see the forsythia.

xxoo
Hops

[BonesMS]

Happy Spring to you, Bones...hope you're getting out to see the forsythia.

xxoo
Hops

Thanks, Hops.

I managed to get outside to walk around before it got too cold again.

[BonesMS]

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I have some thoughts and will post them later.

[BonesMS]

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[BonesMS]

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[BonesMS]

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2014/04/dear_prudence_my_mother_in_law_found_out_my_baby_s_sex_against_my_wishes.html

This MIL sounds like an N and a b*tch from HELL!!!!  I don't blame the letter writer for being angry and feeling violated!

I wouldn't permit that b*tch ANYWHERE NEAR FOR YEARS!!!!!!

[BonesMS]

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[BonesMS]

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[BonesMS]

Yesterday would have been the 82nd birthday of my Japanese friend.  She died the same day as the three Apollo astronauts, January 1967.  I really miss her.  So many memories such as her letting me wear her kimono when I was a little kid.  When we first met, one of the most popular songs playing on the radio was a Japanese song by Kyu Sakamoto.

Today, as I was walking through a local festival, what do I hear playing on someone's boombox?  That same song by the same singer, Kyu Sakamoto!!!!  It felt like my Japanese friend was saying Hello" from heaven!  I almost lost it!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0U2nBre-JEU

[BonesMS]

Having nightmares.

[Hopalong]

I loved the graceful odd moment about your Japanese friend...
maybe you were getting some love in some way from her, Bones.

And I hope the bad dreams pass through and are GONE soon.
(Just the subconscious doing its release-valve thing. But so
disturbing when it happens...)

Peaceful sleep to you tonight.

xo
Hops

[BonesMS]

I loved the graceful odd moment about your Japanese friend...
maybe you were getting some love in some way from her, Bones.

And I hope the bad dreams pass through and are GONE soon.
(Just the subconscious doing its release-valve thing. But so
disturbing when it happens...)

Peaceful sleep to you tonight.

xo
Hops

Thanks, Hops.

I'd like to think that, in some way, my Japanese friend was sending me love.  She was the mother I wish I had.

I think it's going to take awhile before the bad dreams clear out. 

[BonesMS]

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