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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5763 on: May 19, 2014, 12:01:02 PM »
I'm sorry you're feeling invisible, Bones.

I'm waving, hopping up and down, holding a big gorgeous iris for you...
got a jelly jar to put it in?

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5764 on: May 19, 2014, 12:30:24 PM »
I'm sorry you're feeling invisible, Bones.

I'm waving, hopping up and down, holding a big gorgeous iris for you...
got a jelly jar to put it in?

love,
Hops

Thanks, Hops.

In 3-D situations, I feel invisible.  This past weekend, I was working in the community garden and I was given the task to cut some bamboo into specific lengths.  As I'm sawing away, people kept stepping into the path of the saw as if I wasn't even there!  I couldn't figure out what in the hell was going on!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5768 on: May 20, 2014, 06:58:08 AM »
Some people are such beautiful parts of nature
that they just seem to be there the way a beautiful
tree or shrub is--and other people are just often
kind of clumsy and unseeing.

Nature has so many variations, and so much
diversity and contrast and surprises...and then
human culture is all about McDonaldsizing everyone
until we all look like styrofoam.

You, Bones, ain't no styrofoam.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5770 on: May 20, 2014, 07:09:40 AM »
Some people are such beautiful parts of nature
that they just seem to be there the way a beautiful
tree or shrub is--and other people are just often
kind of clumsy and unseeing.

Nature has so many variations, and so much
diversity and contrast and surprises...and then
human culture is all about McDonaldsizing everyone
until we all look like styrofoam.

You, Bones, ain't no styrofoam.

love to you,
Hops

Thanks, Hops.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5771 on: May 20, 2014, 08:11:57 AM »
I thought I was the only one terrified of going near 3-D people for any kind of relationships.  I guess I'm not alone in that department.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5772 on: May 21, 2014, 08:39:31 AM »
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