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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5928 on: July 15, 2014, 06:54:56 AM »
Just checking in.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5929 on: July 15, 2014, 07:34:14 AM »
My declaration:


When I've made a decision about something, and I've decided that my answer is: "No" ... that is NOT an invitation to start badgering me in a vain attempt to force me to change my "No" into a "Yes" because YOU demand it! The only thing you're going to succeed in doing is getting KICKED to the curb with my foot up your A$$! I've already analyzed the situation, thoroughly, from all angles before I've decided "No". If you don't like my decision, TOUGH $HIT! Either RESPECT my boundaries or get lost!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5930 on: July 15, 2014, 10:18:11 AM »
As some of your may be aware, I've been learning how to admin a discussion group.  The other admin has gone on vacation for about a week.  Some of the behaviors I've been observing has me scratching my head in confusion.

For example, I receive a request from a newbie to join the discussion group.  The second I approve the request, I send a message to the newbie to please read the rules, pinned at the top of the page, before posting anything.  (I thought that request was crystal clear.)  The rules basically state the following:  No promoting stuff and No selling stuff.  It is clearly explained, from the outset, that the discussion group's purpose is to talk about the writing/creative process of science fiction and fantasy.

Keeping that in mind, one newbie violated all the rules WITH 30 MINUTES OF BEING ADDED!  I removed the violation and sent her a private message informing her that her posting had been removed, why it had been removed, and reminded her of the rules regarding NO PROMOTIONS and NO SELLING STUFF.  She attempted to argue that she has a right to sell things on the page.  I informed her, again, that the purpose of the discussion group is to talk about the writing/creative process ... NOT to sell/promote stuff!  That's when she replies back:  "If I can't do what I want, then take my name off!"  I happily obliged her and BANNED her!

What part of the word "NO" do people NOT understand?
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5931 on: July 16, 2014, 07:09:14 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5932 on: July 16, 2014, 11:24:14 AM »
Hearing you on the "No." Point Bones. Very important for those of us who have felt voiceless.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5933 on: July 16, 2014, 11:37:13 AM »
Hearing you on the "No." Point Bones. Very important for those of us who have felt voiceless.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5934 on: July 16, 2014, 09:11:41 PM »
I think some folks are taught an alphabet that goes straight from M to P.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5935 on: July 16, 2014, 09:19:08 PM »
I think some folks are taught an alphabet that goes straight from M to P.

xo
Hops

Hops,

I'm not in the mood for obtuse humor!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5936 on: July 17, 2014, 02:16:31 AM »
Having trouble sleeping...........
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5937 on: July 18, 2014, 02:37:08 AM »
Looks like it's going to be one of those weeks.
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