Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[Hopalong]

Oh Bones, I feel for you.
I had years and years of panic attacks.
Worst feeling ever.

I don't know if it would help you, but
I take a powdered magnesium citrate supplement
that seems to really help.

I haven't had a panic attack in years.
(I used to have near-agorophobic feelings too
a long time ago...not in decades now.)

love
Hops

[BonesMS]

Oh Bones, I feel for you.
I had years and years of panic attacks.
Worst feeling ever.

I don't know if it would help you, but
I take a powdered magnesium citrate supplement
that seems to really help.

I haven't had a panic attack in years.
(I used to have near-agorophobic feelings too
a long time ago...not in decades now.)

love
Hops

I know the source(s) ...  PTSD Trigger combined with Asperger's Sensory Overload.

[Twoapenny]

I hope everything calms down a bit for you soon, Bones, you have a lot on your plate at the minute

(((((((((((((((((((((((Bones)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

[BonesMS]

I hope everything calms down a bit for you soon, Bones, you have a lot on your plate at the minute

(((((((((((((((((((((((Bones)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Thanks, (((((((((((((((((((((Tupp)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

[Gaining Strength]

I know the source(s) ...  PTSD Trigger combined with Asperger's Sensory Overload.

That is an awful lot  to deal with Bones. I feel such compassion.

[BonesMS]

I know the source(s) ...  PTSD Trigger combined with Asperger's Sensory Overload.

That is an awful lot  to deal with Bones. I feel such compassion.

Yes ...  it is.

[Hopalong]

I wonder if some soothing meditation tapes every night for a while
might help?

Sending you calm and courage, ((((((Bones))))),

love,
Hops

[BonesMS]

I wonder if some soothing meditation tapes every night for a while
might help?

Sending you calm and courage, ((((((Bones))))),

love,
Hops

Not for PTSD plus Asperger's.  I need to figure out what works for  me.

[Hopalong]

Lots of encouragement to you, Bones.
I know you'll figure out what works for you.

love
Hops

[BonesMS]

Lots of encouragement to you, Bones.
I know you'll figure out what works for you.

love
Hops

Thanks.

[Gaining Strength]

I find that what works for me sounds like gobbledygook gook to others. But I am always finding something that spurs me on my way. Thinking of you Bones.

[BonesMS]

I find that what works for me sounds like gobbledygook gook to others. But I am always finding something that spurs me on my way. Thinking of you Bones.

Thanks, G.S.

[BonesMS]

As some of your may be aware, I've been learning how to admin a discussion group.  The other admin has gone on vacation for about a week.  Some of the behaviors I've been observing has me scratching my head in confusion.

For example, I receive a request from a newbie to join the discussion group.  The second I approve the request, I send a message to the newbie to please read the rules, pinned at the top of the page, before posting anything.  (I thought that request was crystal clear.)  The rules basically state the following:  No promoting stuff and No selling stuff.  It is clearly explained, from the outset, that the discussion group's purpose is to talk about the writing/creative process of science fiction and fantasy.

Keeping that in mind, one newbie violated all the rules WITH 30 MINUTES OF BEING ADDED!  I removed the violation and sent her a private message informing her that her posting had been removed, why it had been removed, and reminded her of the rules regarding NO PROMOTIONS and NO SELLING STUFF.  She attempted to argue that she has a right to sell things on the page.  I informed her, again, that the purpose of the discussion group is to talk about the writing/creative process ... NOT to sell/promote stuff!  That's when she replies back:  "If I can't do what I want, then take my name off!"  I happily obliged her and BANNED her!

What part of the word "NO" do people NOT understand?

Another thing that the violators need to learn .... Do NOT piss off the Admin!  When the Admin has already clearly explained the rules, that doesn't translate into giving permission for flipping off the Admin and posting the violation again. 

[BonesMS]

http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/just-the-facts-maam-judgmental-parents-dont-need-the-dating-deets.html

Many, many TRIGGERS!  Plus, once again, the advice columnists are CLUELESS!!!

[BonesMS]

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/2014/7/23/girl-and-cousin-both-need-counseling

More triggers!