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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5985 on: July 26, 2014, 03:01:16 PM »
Keep us posted.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5989 on: July 27, 2014, 02:07:02 PM »
Keep us posted.

Thanks.

I've been searching for more resources as well as doing follow-up with my elderly neighbor.  It is a REAL MESS with his brother ripping him off, not paying any bills, and God knows what else!

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« Reply #5990 on: July 27, 2014, 02:36:07 PM »
Had a really rough day yesterday ... first dealing with an emergency affecting my 81-year-old neighbor then, in the middle of that emergency, I get hit with an attack of spastic colitis/possible kidney stone that bent me double.  NOT fun!



I think I've stumbled across a case of Elder Abuse.  It is a BIG MESS!
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« Reply #5991 on: July 27, 2014, 02:52:36 PM »
Elder Abuse REALLY upsets me!  I think that's why my Spastic Colitis is going off!  Another neighbor and I went over to make sure our elderly neighbor had something to eat and the poor man started crying!  I almost lost it, too!
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« Reply #5992 on: July 27, 2014, 04:20:41 PM »
Oh ((((((Bones)))).
I'm so glad you have spotted a problem and are there for him.
Remember you need to be well in order to help...take care...

Makes my blood boil too.

I know you'll call in authorities who are in charge and the
poor man is so LUCKY that you are a person who cares.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5993 on: July 27, 2014, 04:42:12 PM »
Oh ((((((Bones)))).
I'm so glad you have spotted a problem and are there for him.
Remember you need to be well in order to help...take care...

Makes my blood boil too.

I know you'll call in authorities who are in charge and the
poor man is so LUCKY that you are a person who cares.

love
Hops

Thanks, Hops.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5994 on: July 27, 2014, 05:07:27 PM »
My blood boils over eldr abuse too Bones. It is very painful isn't it?

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« Reply #5995 on: July 27, 2014, 05:28:21 PM »
My blood boils over elder abuse too Bones. It is very painful isn't it?

Oh, YES, it IS!!!

I'm in the process of contacting local resources to see what can be done to address what has happened to him.

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« Reply #5996 on: July 27, 2014, 10:51:29 PM »
My blood boils over elder abuse too Bones. It is very painful isn't it?

Oh, YES, it IS!!!

I'm in the process of contacting local resources to see what can be done to address what has happened to him.



The local police are also getting involved as it appears that some serious embezzlement has been going on.  The victim is in tears again as it's his own brother who has ripped him off!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #5997 on: July 28, 2014, 10:20:16 AM »
How nasty is that.  I commend you for being there to lend a helping hand. What a difference you  are making.

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« Reply #5998 on: July 28, 2014, 10:26:01 AM »
How nasty is that.  I commend you for being there to lend a helping hand. What a difference you  are making.

I try my best.  The police have returned this morning to follow up.  I also just learned, through a reliable source, that the embezzler is flying in TODAY once he learned that "local resources" have been called in.  I think he knows what that means!  I hope the police NAIL his lead a$$!

To add to the aggravation, while I was waiting for the police to arrive so I can let him in the secure building, a neighbor kept getting up in my grill attempting to "pump" me for information.  She even stuck her nose into the conversation I was having with the police officer and I had to practice my assertiveness skills to make her BACK OFF!  I found myself speaking just like a police officer!  A cop's job is NOT easy!
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