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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6166 on: September 10, 2014, 02:44:51 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6168 on: September 11, 2014, 05:13:49 AM »
http://www.creators.com/advice/at-work-lindsey-novak/boss-yells-at-employee-in-front-of-others.html

I had a boss like this, once, who LOVED to publicly bully employees at every opportunity.  When I brought my letter to him that was about being required to report for jury duty, he opened his office window so that other employees would hear him and proceeded to scream at me that if I reported for jury duty, he would FIRE me!  Up until that moment, I had been intimidated but when he threatened me like that, I got angry.  I told him, point blank, that I was NOT going to go to jail for him because he wasn't worth it!  The entire office heard that too.  I reported for jury duty AND kept my job.  (When I went to the courthouse, I told the authorities about the boss' threat so that might have been a factor in my boss backing down.)  Bottom line, bosses who behave this way are JERKS! 
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6170 on: September 11, 2014, 01:38:24 PM »
Jerk boss
and
brave (((((((((Bones)))))))))

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6171 on: September 11, 2014, 01:47:45 PM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6172 on: September 12, 2014, 05:13:22 AM »
For some strange reason, I can't find the "Dear Abby" column this morning.  Looks like the server is down.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6175 on: September 14, 2014, 05:22:34 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6177 on: September 15, 2014, 02:06:21 PM »
Sleeping any better, Bones?
I hope so.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6178 on: September 15, 2014, 02:13:26 PM »
Sleeping any better, Bones?
I hope so.

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