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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6420 on: December 30, 2014, 07:14:43 PM »
Oh (((((((((((((Bones))))))))))))))).

Relies. Ugh.

Friends. (((((((((Whew)))))))))

VESMB. Hallelujah.

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Hops

Thanks, Hops.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6421 on: December 31, 2014, 02:19:36 AM »
Well. at least I can say that my detective skills paid off again.  I was able to locate my nephew, my brother's long-lost son, and notify him that his father has passed away.  The last time I saw this nephew was back in 1979, when he was still an infant.  As a result, he has no memories of me.  He was surprised, to say the least, and very appreciative that I was able to let him know.
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« Reply #6424 on: December 31, 2014, 07:17:16 PM »
Well. at least I can say that my detective skills paid off again.  I was able to locate my nephew, my brother's long-lost son, and notify him that his father has passed away.  The last time I saw this nephew was back in 1979, when he was still an infant.  As a result, he has no memories of me.  He was surprised, to say the least, and very appreciative that I was able to let him know.

I also just found my long-lost niece!  She's asking me a LOT of questions about genealogy!!!!!!   :D
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« Reply #6425 on: January 01, 2015, 06:00:05 AM »
What a week it has been...lost a brother and found a nephew then a niece.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6428 on: January 02, 2015, 06:31:37 AM »
I wish I had pleasant memories of my brother but, unfortunately, I don't thanks to the NWomb-Donor who insisted on destroying everything that didn't revolve around HER!

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« Reply #6429 on: January 02, 2015, 11:20:26 PM »
I'm really happy about your niece, Bones.
Your Nmother didn't destroy this!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6430 on: January 03, 2015, 04:47:28 AM »
I'm really happy about your niece, Bones.
Your Nmother didn't destroy this!

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Thank God that my niece never knew NWomb-Donor!  The NMonster died when my niece was still an infant.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6431 on: January 03, 2015, 05:31:44 AM »
http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/2015/1/2/1/handicapped-patrons-go-to-the-front#disqus_thread

I have a few thoughts about this.

In re-reading the letter, I noted that the mother with the small children was DIRECTLY BEHIND the letter writer.  The person in the wheelchair was further back in line and was NOT seen.  The mother, who needed the changing table, should have gone first as she was ahead of the one in the wheelchair.  If the one in the wheelchair urgently needed to go, then she should have used her words as soon as she got in line and not throw a fit tantrum because a mother with a baby needed the changing table.  Suppose, instead of the mother with children, it was someone with a disability, hidden by clothing, who needed the accessible stall?  I don't look disabled but I've discovered, the hard way, that I can't use the regular stalls anymore because my legs don't work as well anymore.  I need to hold onto something to help myself to my feet or otherwise I can't stand back up from the low toilets.  Those railings, inside the accessible stall, are what I need now.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6433 on: January 05, 2015, 03:13:27 AM »
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