Author Topic: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?  (Read 1304105 times)

BonesMS

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6450 on: January 13, 2015, 06:23:44 PM »
My brother's death certificate arrived in the mail today.  I braced myself for what I thought I was going to see when I opened the envelope.  Then I discovered that death certificates, from another country, don't provide what I expected to see.  The paper I got more or less said:  "He's dead."  Nothing else.  I wanted to tell the bureaucrat, "Duh!  Yeah!  Why else would I request a death certificate?"  *Shaking my head.*
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6451 on: January 14, 2015, 01:10:34 AM »
Turns out that in order to obtain what is known as a "death registration" from another country, I have to supply THEM with a copy of my birth certificate!!!  GEEZ!!!!!

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« Reply #6452 on: January 14, 2015, 11:46:25 PM »
Good for you for persisting, Bones.
You'll get the records you need.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6453 on: January 15, 2015, 02:15:24 AM »
Good for you for persisting, Bones.
You'll get the records you need.

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At the expense of getting and sending my birth certificate?  I think NOT! 

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6455 on: January 15, 2015, 06:21:40 AM »
Good for you for persisting, Bones.
You'll get the records you need.

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At the expense of getting and sending my birth certificate?  I think NOT! 



I just want my voice HEARD! 
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6457 on: January 15, 2015, 09:13:13 AM »
My niece just told me some information that has me FLOORED!!!!

My late brother remarried a THIRD time and my niece did NOT know she had a step-mother until a few days before my brother died!  This is a SOAP OPERA!!!!!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6458 on: January 16, 2015, 05:58:27 AM »
My niece just told me some information that has me FLOORED!!!!

My late brother remarried a THIRD time and my niece did NOT know she had a step-mother until a few days before my brother died!  This is a SOAP OPERA!!!!!

The more I've been learning about this third "wife", the worse it gets!  GEEZ!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6459 on: January 19, 2015, 04:27:18 AM »
For some strange reason, I've been getting "Server Not Found" messages lately.
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6461 on: January 19, 2015, 07:16:17 AM »
Recently, someone did a "data dump" into my online Family Tree WITHOUT my permission!  I contacted the Techies to see if I could find out how this was possible since I have NOT granted anyone that kind of access!  I didn't name any names but I had a STRONG suspicion who it was as their Tree is the ONLY tree that contains the identical data.

The Techies asked me a gazillion questions to see if I had clicked on certain links in their website only to determine that since I am NOT a paid subscriber, I don't have access to those particular links.  To add to this mystery, this "data dump" occurred AFTER I set my Tree to "PRIVATE".  I went ahead and changed my password so that whoever did this could NOT do it again!

About 48 hours after I reported this unauthorized hacking and "data dump", I discover that the Prime Suspects had their profile DEACTIVATED!  Their Username is still there but everything else is BLANK!  Now I'm wondering, due to the timing, if the Techies continued to investigate the unauthorized hacking, "data dump", and CAUGHT the Prime Suspects with forensic evidence.  If that is the case, then the Prime Suspects deserved the consequences of violating the rules!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6462 on: January 19, 2015, 08:30:09 AM »
You go, Detective Bones!

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6463 on: January 19, 2015, 08:42:11 AM »
You go, Detective Bones!

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