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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6947 on: September 27, 2015, 03:08:11 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6948 on: September 27, 2015, 05:53:48 AM »
When one is hit with a serious illness, suddenly you find out who your friends are NOT!!!!!

Aw Bones I feel for you, I've found over the years that I've got some little diamond friends but the majority just vanished - so upsetting and hurtful, particularly when you're in a difficult place yourself.  People have said to me many times that it's better to know and it leaves space for new friends, which is true, but it still hurts an awful lot.  I just saw your other post about needing another procedure now, takes so long to sort health problems out sometimes.  Do you know when the next thing will happen yet or are you still waiting for a date?  Lots of love xx

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Thanks, ((((((((((((((((((((Tupp))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

The doctor's office won't even schedule anything until I'm able to find a reliable friend to accompany me.  They just can't imagine someone without any family. 

I hope someone turns up, Bones, most people assume that there's family, people always find it odd when I say there isn't anyone (although I must say some people I know have family who are a nightmare and do more harm than good!).  I had a similar situation with my son a while back, no-one to sit with him while I had something done, funnily enough someone I hardly knew offered to do it and we've become good friends since.  I hope someone similar pops up for you xx

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6949 on: September 27, 2015, 07:43:38 AM »
When one is hit with a serious illness, suddenly you find out who your friends are NOT!!!!!

Aw Bones I feel for you, I've found over the years that I've got some little diamond friends but the majority just vanished - so upsetting and hurtful, particularly when you're in a difficult place yourself.  People have said to me many times that it's better to know and it leaves space for new friends, which is true, but it still hurts an awful lot.  I just saw your other post about needing another procedure now, takes so long to sort health problems out sometimes.  Do you know when the next thing will happen yet or are you still waiting for a date?  Lots of love xx

((((((((((((((((Bones))))))))))))))))))))))

Thanks, ((((((((((((((((((((Tupp))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

The doctor's office won't even schedule anything until I'm able to find a reliable friend to accompany me.  They just can't imagine someone without any family. 

I hope someone turns up, Bones, most people assume that there's family, people always find it odd when I say there isn't anyone (although I must say some people I know have family who are a nightmare and do more harm than good!).  I had a similar situation with my son a while back, no-one to sit with him while I had something done, funnily enough someone I hardly knew offered to do it and we've become good friends since.  I hope someone similar pops up for you xx

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6950 on: September 27, 2015, 08:13:09 AM »
"The doctor's office won't even schedule anything until I'm able to find a reliable friend to accompany me.  They just can't imagine someone without any family."

Hi Bones,

If I were there, I would take you--as I'm sure others would on this Board.  I am so sorry you are going through this...

Richard

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6951 on: September 27, 2015, 08:14:54 AM »
"The doctor's office won't even schedule anything until I'm able to find a reliable friend to accompany me.  They just can't imagine someone without any family."

Hi Bones,

If I were there, I would take you--as I'm sure others would on this Board.  I am so sorry you are going through this...

Richard

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6952 on: September 28, 2015, 02:08:09 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6953 on: September 29, 2015, 04:09:01 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6954 on: September 30, 2015, 05:41:55 AM »
http://www.creators.com/advice/annies-mailbox/religious-differences-dividing-family.html

The comments below the line sound more intelligent than the "Annie's".

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6957 on: October 02, 2015, 02:59:09 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6958 on: October 02, 2015, 11:17:22 PM »
:)  Hi Bones. How are you doing?

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #6959 on: October 03, 2015, 01:50:50 AM »
:)  Hi Bones. How are you doing?

Still trying to hang in there.
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