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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7111 on: December 30, 2015, 06:53:59 AM »
http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2015/12/dear_prudence_my_family_has_become_manipulative_after_they_helped_me_leave.3.html

Aw that's horrible when you get out of one bad situation only to find yourself in another.  So hard to deal with and so tiring to keep dealing with people who just behave so oddly.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7112 on: December 31, 2015, 05:08:40 AM »
http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2015/12/dear_prudence_my_family_has_become_manipulative_after_they_helped_me_leave.3.html

Aw that's horrible when you get out of one bad situation only to find yourself in another.  So hard to deal with and so tiring to keep dealing with people who just behave so oddly.

I agree!!!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7116 on: January 01, 2016, 05:07:02 AM »
I'm thinking in terms of that old comedy sketch about "One Might Be a Redneck"....

One might be a Narcissist when they insist on shutting down everyone's voices while decreeing that their word is LAW.  I'm dealing with that situation in a club where the N likes to drone all night and others are speaking up about it.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7117 on: January 01, 2016, 11:21:14 AM »
http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2015/12/dear_prudence_how_do_i_get_my_brother_in_law_to_stop_peeing_on_my_bathroom.html

Wow what is wrong with some people?!  How can you not notice you've weed on someone's floor?  He sounds like a dog marking out territory.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7118 on: January 02, 2016, 02:40:13 AM »
http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2015/12/dear_prudence_how_do_i_get_my_brother_in_law_to_stop_peeing_on_my_bathroom.html

Wow what is wrong with some people?!  How can you not notice you've weed on someone's floor?  He sounds like a dog marking out territory.

Thanks, Tupp!!!  That sounds like an accurate description!!!!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7119 on: January 02, 2016, 05:59:08 AM »
http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2015/12/dear_prudence_how_do_i_get_my_brother_in_law_to_stop_peeing_on_my_bathroom.html

Wow what is wrong with some people?!  How can you not notice you've weed on someone's floor?  He sounds like a dog marking out territory.

Thanks, Tupp!!!  That sounds like an accurate description!!!!


It baffles me, Bonesie!  I'm not a particularly house proud person and I'm terribly untidy but I'm careful in other people's homes, even if theirs aren't terribly tidy either!  It's just polite, surely?  I've had someone leave a terrible mess in my bathroom before now; it happens but you tidy up after yourself!  Not to mention people walking mud all the way through, spilling things and not clearing them up, someone broke my kitchen table once jumping on it when they were drunk and then denied doing it!  We all do things sometimes but cleaning up and/or apologising is just basic manners, I can't get my head around it at all  :shock:

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7120 on: January 03, 2016, 02:29:30 AM »
http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2015/12/dear_prudence_how_do_i_get_my_brother_in_law_to_stop_peeing_on_my_bathroom.html

Wow what is wrong with some people?!  How can you not notice you've weed on someone's floor?  He sounds like a dog marking out territory.

Thanks, Tupp!!!  That sounds like an accurate description!!!!


It baffles me, Bonesie!  I'm not a particularly house proud person and I'm terribly untidy but I'm careful in other people's homes, even if theirs aren't terribly tidy either!  It's just polite, surely?  I've had someone leave a terrible mess in my bathroom before now; it happens but you tidy up after yourself!  Not to mention people walking mud all the way through, spilling things and not clearing them up, someone broke my kitchen table once jumping on it when they were drunk and then denied doing it!  We all do things sometimes but cleaning up and/or apologising is just basic manners, I can't get my head around it at all  :shock:

I know what you mean!  I can't understand why some people prefer to behave like animals!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7121 on: January 04, 2016, 01:58:42 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7122 on: January 05, 2016, 01:25:17 AM »
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