Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[BonesMS]

Three years ago, a young person I knew since before she was born was brutally murdered by her then-boyfriend.  I was hoping that he got convicted and sent to prison so I did a Google search to put that question to rest.  Yes, he's been sentenced to life in prison and won't be eligible for parole until 2052!  I was expecting to see an artist's rendition of the trial as I've often seen in the past.  I wasn't prepared to see an actual video of the trial itself as the local TV station broadcasted it.  What made it worse was that the TV station also broadcast some of the photos from the autopsy!!!!  That was a kick in the stomach!!!!  EW!!!!

[BonesMS]

https://www.creators.com/features/annies-mailbox

[BonesMS]

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby

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http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/2016/5/21/0/moms-vacation-plans-cause-headache-for#disqus-comments

This womb-donor sounds like a FLAMING N and "Dear Abby" just does NOT get it!!!!

[BonesMS]

I felt up to doing some housecleaning on Facebook given the current political climate.  While going through my Friend list, I discovered that even though Cousin Jacka$$ had unfriended me, his profile was still there under the classification of "cousin".  The more I thought about it, the more I realized that he has NO business contacting me anymore for ANY reason!  I BLOCKED him!

[Twoapenny]

Haven't been able to get online for a while, Bones, I've missed you!  Have got a lot of reading to catch up on here, hope you are doing okay xx

Thanks, Tupp.  xx

I've been taking stuff one day at a time.

How are you doing?

I am a bit up and down at the minute, Bonesie, but getting there - like you, I take one day at a time.  I have become obsessed with Hawaii 5 0 and keep dreaming about living on those beautiful beaches and spending my days making jewellery out of shells or something xx

I hear ya, ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Tupp)))))))))))))))!!!!!

We can open a shop, Bonesi, selling surf boards and jewellery and get bit parts in Hawaii 5 0, ha ha, wouldn't that be a very nice life to live?!

[Twoapenny]

I felt up to doing some housecleaning on Facebook given the current political climate.  While going through my Friend list, I discovered that even though Cousin Jacka$$ had unfriended me, his profile was still there under the classification of "cousin".  The more I thought about it, the more I realized that he has NO business contacting me anymore for ANY reason!  I BLOCKED him!

If only there were a real life blocking option, it would make so many situations so much easier!  Well done on the housekeeping, Bonesie, we all need a spring clean from time to time xx

[BonesMS]

Haven't been able to get online for a while, Bones, I've missed you!  Have got a lot of reading to catch up on here, hope you are doing okay xx

Thanks, Tupp.  xx

I've been taking stuff one day at a time.

How are you doing?

I am a bit up and down at the minute, Bonesie, but getting there - like you, I take one day at a time.  I have become obsessed with Hawaii 5 0 and keep dreaming about living on those beautiful beaches and spending my days making jewellery out of shells or something xx

I hear ya, ((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Tupp)))))))))))))))!!!!!

We can open a shop, Bonesi, selling surf boards and jewellery and get bit parts in Hawaii 5 0, ha ha, wouldn't that be a very nice life to live?!

I love that idea!!  LOL!!!

[BonesMS]

I felt up to doing some housecleaning on Facebook given the current political climate.  While going through my Friend list, I discovered that even though Cousin Jacka$$ had unfriended me, his profile was still there under the classification of "cousin".  The more I thought about it, the more I realized that he has NO business contacting me anymore for ANY reason!  I BLOCKED him!

If only there were a real life blocking option, it would make so many situations so much easier!  Well done on the housekeeping, Bonesie, we all need a spring clean from time to time xx

Thanks!  Where I live, we do have the option of calling the police on trespassers.  The last time I had any contact with Cousin JackA$$, I ripped him a new one when he tried to use my brother's death as an excuse to go off on a racist rant, making nasty comments about my Dad and the President.  Oh HELL TO THE NO!!!!!

[BonesMS]

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/2016/5/22/0/housemate-draws-the-line-at-sharing#disqus-comments

This sounds familiar!!!!   

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http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby/2016/5/24/1/bride-resists-extending-wedding-invitations-to#disqus-comments

"Dear Abby" just does NOT get it!!!!

WHY should the bride be forced to invite the NEW IN-LAWS of her DIVORCED father simply because they are the parents of the NEW STEPMOTHER?!?!?  They are OBNOXIOUS DRUNKS who cause disruption and chaos everywhere they go!!!!!  The LW insists that her daughter MUST invite them in order to "keep the peace"?!?!!?   WTF?!?!?!?  WHY should the bride be FORCED to have her wedding day F**KED UP BY DRUNKS?!?!?!?  "Because their faaaaamily"?!?!?!?  OH HELL TO THE NO!!!!!!  Bad behavior in public has consequences!!!  If one behaves badly in public, then they don't get invited!  Sheesh!!!!!!

[BonesMS]

Experiencing tears of joy this morning for the Deaf Community!!!!  Nyle DiMarco WON!!!!!!  YAY!!!!!!

[Twoapenny]

Experiencing tears of joy this morning for the Deaf Community!!!!  Nyle DiMarco WON!!!!!!  YAY!!!!!!

Ah Bones that is lovely news, looked him up as I don't watch telly so I miss out on loads of people and oh my word, what a handsome chap, and, it seems, a very good dancer?!  I understand he's an advocate/activist for the Deaf Community as well, what a brilliant opportunity to raise awareness and make people a little more knowledgeable.  Yay, what nice news to wake up to xx

[BonesMS]

Yeah!  And to think it all started by a serendipitous accident!

He had newly graduated from Gallaudet University, was planning on being a math teacher at a Deaf school so that Deaf kids would have more exposure to Deaf educators and had an account on Instagram.  Some people from the show, "America's Next Top Model", happened to find his Instagram account and invited him to compete.  The folks at "America's Next Top Model" did NOT know he's Deaf!  He accepted their invitation, competed in "America's Next Top Model" and WON!!!!  When he received the invitation to compete on "Dancing With The Stars", at first he was going to turn it down because he had NEVER danced before!  I think, after discussing it with his family and friends, he decided to go for it!  WOW!!!!!