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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7575 on: July 10, 2016, 06:26:37 PM »
People are funny!!!  I find a pretty frog outside and pick it up to carry it to a safer place so the cats don't get it and my neighbor, who's a guy, is afraid to touch it!!!!  LOL!!!!  I remember when I was a kid, I would find frogs, toads, worms, snakes, white mice, and bring them inside to show NWomb-Donor and she would FREAK.EVERY.SINGLE.TIME!  I kept being told that girls are NOT supposed to like those kinds of critters and I would always ask why.  My Dad taught me well!
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7579 on: July 11, 2016, 08:54:09 AM »
https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4s78g2/mil_in_the_wild_going_away_party/

NOOOO!!!!  Just NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When my sister mentioned that she and her partner were thinking of moving 200 miles to be nearer to his family (who are happy to help out with the kids and are normal and don't drive everyone mad!) my mum approached my sister's ex husband and offered to pay his legal expenses so that he could go for custody of the kids and keep them living nearby; she also offered to stand up in court and tell a judge my sister is an unfit mother (which she isn't).  She did this in front of the two older children (who were old enough to understand what was going on and who both wanted to move away) and also worked on them, telling them that it would be awful, they wouldn't have any friends, their mum wouldn't bother with them because of the new baby.  It didn't work because he didn't want custody of the kids and it suits him to just see them every other weekend so she called social services and told them that my sister was always drunk and neglected the kids (I think projection is what psychologists call that!).  Some of the things you hear about are funny in a mad and crazy way but others are really scary.

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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7580 on: July 11, 2016, 09:09:54 AM »
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NOOOO!!!!  Just NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When my sister mentioned that she and her partner were thinking of moving 200 miles to be nearer to his family (who are happy to help out with the kids and are normal and don't drive everyone mad!) my mum approached my sister's ex husband and offered to pay his legal expenses so that he could go for custody of the kids and keep them living nearby; she also offered to stand up in court and tell a judge my sister is an unfit mother (which she isn't).  She did this in front of the two older children (who were old enough to understand what was going on and who both wanted to move away) and also worked on them, telling them that it would be awful, they wouldn't have any friends, their mum wouldn't bother with them because of the new baby.  It didn't work because he didn't want custody of the kids and it suits him to just see them every other weekend so she called social services and told them that my sister was always drunk and neglected the kids (I think projection is what psychologists call that!).  Some of the things you hear about are funny in a mad and crazy way but others are really scary.

AAARRRGGGHHHH!!!!  I have a few choice curse words for that !@#$% to attempt to pull that kind of !@#$%!!!!!!!!!

 
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7581 on: July 12, 2016, 01:52:58 AM »
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« Reply #7583 on: July 13, 2016, 10:43:50 AM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7585 on: July 14, 2016, 06:20:15 AM »
http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2016/07/dear_prudence_my_son_eloped_and_i_m_stuck_planning_his_wedding.html

That first letter sounds like a "Mother-in-law In The Wild"!!!  If she is THAT CONTROLLING, then it's no wonder her son eloped!!!  God only knows how much she kept trying to RAM HER CONTROL DOWN THEIR THROATS until the couple finally said:  "ENOUGH!!!!!!"

Looks like I was not the only one who thought this:

https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4stifz/i_love_a_charadedear_prudence_shuts_down_a_jnm_in/


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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7587 on: July 14, 2016, 01:07:04 PM »
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Re: Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?
« Reply #7588 on: July 14, 2016, 01:28:22 PM »
https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4s78g2/mil_in_the_wild_going_away_party/

NOOOO!!!!  Just NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When my sister mentioned that she and her partner were thinking of moving 200 miles to be nearer to his family (who are happy to help out with the kids and are normal and don't drive everyone mad!) my mum approached my sister's ex husband and offered to pay his legal expenses so that he could go for custody of the kids and keep them living nearby; she also offered to stand up in court and tell a judge my sister is an unfit mother (which she isn't).  She did this in front of the two older children (who were old enough to understand what was going on and who both wanted to move away) and also worked on them, telling them that it would be awful, they wouldn't have any friends, their mum wouldn't bother with them because of the new baby.  It didn't work because he didn't want custody of the kids and it suits him to just see them every other weekend so she called social services and told them that my sister was always drunk and neglected the kids (I think projection is what psychologists call that!).  Some of the things you hear about are funny in a mad and crazy way but others are really scary.

AAARRRGGGHHHH!!!!  I have a few choice curse words for that !@#$% to attempt to pull that kind of !@#$%!!!!!!!!!


Lol, you have the best curse words, Bonesie ;) xx

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« Reply #7589 on: July 14, 2016, 01:56:30 PM »
https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4s78g2/mil_in_the_wild_going_away_party/

NOOOO!!!!  Just NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

When my sister mentioned that she and her partner were thinking of moving 200 miles to be nearer to his family (who are happy to help out with the kids and are normal and don't drive everyone mad!) my mum approached my sister's ex husband and offered to pay his legal expenses so that he could go for custody of the kids and keep them living nearby; she also offered to stand up in court and tell a judge my sister is an unfit mother (which she isn't).  She did this in front of the two older children (who were old enough to understand what was going on and who both wanted to move away) and also worked on them, telling them that it would be awful, they wouldn't have any friends, their mum wouldn't bother with them because of the new baby.  It didn't work because he didn't want custody of the kids and it suits him to just see them every other weekend so she called social services and told them that my sister was always drunk and neglected the kids (I think projection is what psychologists call that!).  Some of the things you hear about are funny in a mad and crazy way but others are really scary.

AAARRRGGGHHHH!!!!  I have a few choice curse words for that !@#$% to attempt to pull that kind of !@#$%!!!!!!!!!


Lol, you have the best curse words, Bonesie ;) xx

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