Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[BonesMS]

http://www.uexpress.com/dearabby

[BonesMS]

 

[BonesMS]

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence.html

[Twoapenny]

https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4wd8vy/that_time_she_almost_killed_my_kid_with_peanuts/

They did WHAT?!?!?!?!?!   

Someone I know did this to their grandchild!  The mum and daughter (it's the daughter who told me this) were visiting the son and his wife, toddler and five year old.  Son's wife has a nut allergy and so does the toddler.  Granny thinks this is attention seeking nonsense and in order to prove it, gives toddler peanut butter on toast while son and wife are getting ready for work.  The little one starts to react and all Granny is saying to the daughter is "Don't tell them I gave him that, don't say anything" but of course daughter does.  Toddler was okay fortunately but how scary to all have to rush off to the hospital and of course they wouldn't leave the older child with Granny because she'd just shown there was no way she could be trusted with a child!  It's very frightening when someone's sense of 'being right' puts people in danger.

 

$H!T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  If I had been that child's mother, I would have punched that B*TCH in the throat for DELIBERATELY ENDANGERING MY CHILD!!!!!  I wouldn't blame the toddler's parents if they went NC!  Babysitting rights/visitation has been PERMANENTLY REVOKED!

I got into an argument with someone on Ravelry because she took the attitude that allergies don't exist and that it's only for getting attention.  (Translation:  If someone else is getting attention, then no one is worshipping HER!)  When several people started ripping her a new one because of her attitude, she left the forum.  What IS IT with these IDIOTS who don't hesitate to try to KILL someone because they think they are "large and in charge"?!?!?!?!?  DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know, it's bad, isn't it?  People often minimise health problems in others, I hadn't thought it might be because they attention isn't on them?  That would make a lot of sense.

In the case I mentioned both her grown up children live overseas and I don't think there's been contact between the son and his mum since that time, it's quite terrifying when people are willing to do that much damage just to try and score a point?!

[BonesMS]

https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4wd8vy/that_time_she_almost_killed_my_kid_with_peanuts/

They did WHAT?!?!?!?!?!   

Someone I know did this to their grandchild!  The mum and daughter (it's the daughter who told me this) were visiting the son and his wife, toddler and five year old.  Son's wife has a nut allergy and so does the toddler.  Granny thinks this is attention seeking nonsense and in order to prove it, gives toddler peanut butter on toast while son and wife are getting ready for work.  The little one starts to react and all Granny is saying to the daughter is "Don't tell them I gave him that, don't say anything" but of course daughter does.  Toddler was okay fortunately but how scary to all have to rush off to the hospital and of course they wouldn't leave the older child with Granny because she'd just shown there was no way she could be trusted with a child!  It's very frightening when someone's sense of 'being right' puts people in danger.

 

$H!T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  If I had been that child's mother, I would have punched that B*TCH in the throat for DELIBERATELY ENDANGERING MY CHILD!!!!!  I wouldn't blame the toddler's parents if they went NC!  Babysitting rights/visitation has been PERMANENTLY REVOKED!

I got into an argument with someone on Ravelry because she took the attitude that allergies don't exist and that it's only for getting attention.  (Translation:  If someone else is getting attention, then no one is worshipping HER!)  When several people started ripping her a new one because of her attitude, she left the forum.  What IS IT with these IDIOTS who don't hesitate to try to KILL someone because they think they are "large and in charge"?!?!?!?!?  DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know, it's bad, isn't it?  People often minimise health problems in others, I hadn't thought it might be because they attention isn't on them?  That would make a lot of sense.

In the case I mentioned both her grown up children live overseas and I don't think there's been contact between the son and his mum since that time, it's quite terrifying when people are willing to do that much damage just to try and score a point?!

I'm just having a hard time wrapping my brain around the fact that an adult would deliberately do this to a child!

[Twoapenny]

https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4wd8vy/that_time_she_almost_killed_my_kid_with_peanuts/

They did WHAT?!?!?!?!?!   

Someone I know did this to their grandchild!  The mum and daughter (it's the daughter who told me this) were visiting the son and his wife, toddler and five year old.  Son's wife has a nut allergy and so does the toddler.  Granny thinks this is attention seeking nonsense and in order to prove it, gives toddler peanut butter on toast while son and wife are getting ready for work.  The little one starts to react and all Granny is saying to the daughter is "Don't tell them I gave him that, don't say anything" but of course daughter does.  Toddler was okay fortunately but how scary to all have to rush off to the hospital and of course they wouldn't leave the older child with Granny because she'd just shown there was no way she could be trusted with a child!  It's very frightening when someone's sense of 'being right' puts people in danger.

 

$H!T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  If I had been that child's mother, I would have punched that B*TCH in the throat for DELIBERATELY ENDANGERING MY CHILD!!!!!  I wouldn't blame the toddler's parents if they went NC!  Babysitting rights/visitation has been PERMANENTLY REVOKED!

I got into an argument with someone on Ravelry because she took the attitude that allergies don't exist and that it's only for getting attention.  (Translation:  If someone else is getting attention, then no one is worshipping HER!)  When several people started ripping her a new one because of her attitude, she left the forum.  What IS IT with these IDIOTS who don't hesitate to try to KILL someone because they think they are "large and in charge"?!?!?!?!?  DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know, it's bad, isn't it?  People often minimise health problems in others, I hadn't thought it might be because they attention isn't on them?  That would make a lot of sense.

In the case I mentioned both her grown up children live overseas and I don't think there's been contact between the son and his mum since that time, it's quite terrifying when people are willing to do that much damage just to try and score a point?!

I'm just having a hard time wrapping my brain around the fact that an adult would deliberately do this to a child!

I think maybe in some people the need to be 'right' supersedes anything else (like someone else's right to be healthy!).  It's not quite in the same vein, but when my son was little I tried him on a gluten and dairy free diet, as some children with autism respond well to this.  It's quite hard work and tends to cost more; I tried it for six months and it didn't seem to have made any difference so I abandoned it.  He was very young and my mum was looking after him for me three days a week at this point.  When I told her I'd stopped the diet because I didn't think it had helped she said she knew it wouldn't so she'd carried on giving him Weetabix and milk when he was at her house anyway 
   As it's turned out over the years he's not allergic to gluten or dairy so it wouldn't have made any difference but it's just the principle of someone else making decisions about your child on your behalf and not thinking there's anything wrong with that!

Anyway, how are things with you, Bonesie? x

[BonesMS]

https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4wd8vy/that_time_she_almost_killed_my_kid_with_peanuts/

They did WHAT?!?!?!?!?!   

Someone I know did this to their grandchild!  The mum and daughter (it's the daughter who told me this) were visiting the son and his wife, toddler and five year old.  Son's wife has a nut allergy and so does the toddler.  Granny thinks this is attention seeking nonsense and in order to prove it, gives toddler peanut butter on toast while son and wife are getting ready for work.  The little one starts to react and all Granny is saying to the daughter is "Don't tell them I gave him that, don't say anything" but of course daughter does.  Toddler was okay fortunately but how scary to all have to rush off to the hospital and of course they wouldn't leave the older child with Granny because she'd just shown there was no way she could be trusted with a child!  It's very frightening when someone's sense of 'being right' puts people in danger.

 

$H!T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  If I had been that child's mother, I would have punched that B*TCH in the throat for DELIBERATELY ENDANGERING MY CHILD!!!!!  I wouldn't blame the toddler's parents if they went NC!  Babysitting rights/visitation has been PERMANENTLY REVOKED!

I got into an argument with someone on Ravelry because she took the attitude that allergies don't exist and that it's only for getting attention.  (Translation:  If someone else is getting attention, then no one is worshipping HER!)  When several people started ripping her a new one because of her attitude, she left the forum.  What IS IT with these IDIOTS who don't hesitate to try to KILL someone because they think they are "large and in charge"?!?!?!?!?  DAMN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know, it's bad, isn't it?  People often minimise health problems in others, I hadn't thought it might be because they attention isn't on them?  That would make a lot of sense.

In the case I mentioned both her grown up children live overseas and I don't think there's been contact between the son and his mum since that time, it's quite terrifying when people are willing to do that much damage just to try and score a point?!

I'm just having a hard time wrapping my brain around the fact that an adult would deliberately do this to a child!

I think maybe in some people the need to be 'right' supersedes anything else (like someone else's right to be healthy!).  It's not quite in the same vein, but when my son was little I tried him on a gluten and dairy free diet, as some children with autism respond well to this.  It's quite hard work and tends to cost more; I tried it for six months and it didn't seem to have made any difference so I abandoned it.  He was very young and my mum was looking after him for me three days a week at this point.  When I told her I'd stopped the diet because I didn't think it had helped she said she knew it wouldn't so she'd carried on giving him Weetabix and milk when he was at her house anyway 
   As it's turned out over the years he's not allergic to gluten or dairy so it wouldn't have made any difference but it's just the principle of someone else making decisions about your child on your behalf and not thinking there's anything wrong with that!

Anyway, how are things with you, Bonesie? x

I'm glad you're NC with her.  She is a real piece of work.

As for me, I picked up a virus from somewhere....it feels like the Flu even though it's summer.  Not fun.

[BonesMS]

https://www.creators.com/read/at-work-lindsey-novak

[Twoapenny]

Ah, no, those summer bugs can really knock you for six, it's no fun being poorly in the heat, either!  Hope you start to feel better soon xx

[BonesMS]

Ah, no, those summer bugs can really knock you for six, it's no fun being poorly in the heat, either!  Hope you start to feel better soon xx

Thanks.

[BonesMS]

https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4xad10/mil_brought_sick_nephew_over_to_see_newborn/

WTF?!?!?!?!?   

[BonesMS]

https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4xbehn/famine_ronnie_demands_to_replace_so_and_nearly/

LOVE the KARMA!!!   

[BonesMS]

https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4xctrg/another_relationships_mil_and_ear_peircing_wtf/

I hope the parents of this infant go BALLISTIC on both the NMIL and the place that did the piercing WITHOUT PARENTAL PERMISSION!!!!   

I vaguely recall there was a case on Judge Judy, (I think as my memory is a bit fuzzy after several years), where a dumbass relative took an underage CHILD, (about 12 or 13?), to get a tattoo WITHOUT PARENTAL PERMISSION and the parents were LIVID!!!!!  If my memory is correct, the parent sued both this dumbass relative and the tattoo parlor owner AND WON!!!!  Plus, Judge Judy wiped the floor with the defendants!!! 

[BonesMS]

https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4xglpz/the_time_when_famine_ronnie_tried_to_undermine_me/

That MONSTER is lucky she was allowed to leave the ER in one piece!!!!! 

[BonesMS]

https://www.reddit.com/r/JUSTNOMIL/comments/4xip28/baal_dining_out/

BWAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!  I LOVE that Server!!!!  She EARNED her tip!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!