Is It Always N Behavior to Violate Others' Boundaries?

[Twoapenny]

Bonesie I wish for elves, too!  Even if they didn't help it would be nice to have them around

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Bones))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) xx

[BonesMS]

Bonesie I wish for elves, too!  Even if they didn't help it would be nice to have them around

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((Bones))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) xx

 

Thanks, (((((((((((((((((((((Tupp)))))))))))))))))))))))))

[Twoapenny]

Just checking in on you, Bonesie, how are you doing? xxx

[BonesMS]

Just checking in on you, Bonesie, how are you doing? xxx

Hi, Tupp.

I'm trying to take things one day at a time.

[Twoapenny]

Just checking in on you, Bonesie, how are you doing? xxx

Hi, Tupp.

I'm trying to take things one day at a time.

I'm sorry things are still tough, Bonesie.  I'm thinking of you.  Lots of love xxx

[BonesMS]

Just checking in on you, Bonesie, how are you doing? xxx

Hi, Tupp.

I'm trying to take things one day at a time.

I'm sorry things are still tough, Bonesie.  I'm thinking of you.  Lots of love xxx

Thanks, (((((((((((((((Tupp)))))))))))))))

[BonesMS]

Found this article through Reddit:

http://www.goyourownway.org/GOYOUROWNWAY/DOCUMENTS/EMOTIONAL%20WELLBEING/EMOTIONAL%20BLACKMAIL.pdf

[Twoapenny]

Found this article through Reddit:

http://www.goyourownway.org/GOYOUROWNWAY/DOCUMENTS/EMOTIONAL%20WELLBEING/EMOTIONAL%20BLACKMAIL.pdf

It's nice to see you posting, Bones   I hope things are starting to pick up a little.  I'll have a read through that article later, it looks interesting xx

[BonesMS]

Found this article through Reddit:

http://www.goyourownway.org/GOYOUROWNWAY/DOCUMENTS/EMOTIONAL%20WELLBEING/EMOTIONAL%20BLACKMAIL.pdf

It's nice to see you posting, Bones   I hope things are starting to pick up a little.  I'll have a read through that article later, it looks interesting xx

Thanks, Tupp.

I'm still trying to work through stuff.  I had to arrange to get rid of my car for good as I'm no longer in any position to be able to maintain it.

[Twoapenny]

Found this article through Reddit:

http://www.goyourownway.org/GOYOUROWNWAY/DOCUMENTS/EMOTIONAL%20WELLBEING/EMOTIONAL%20BLACKMAIL.pdf

It's nice to see you posting, Bones   I hope things are starting to pick up a little.  I'll have a read through that article later, it looks interesting xx

Thanks, Tupp.

I'm still trying to work through stuff.  I had to arrange to get rid of my car for good as I'm no longer in any position to be able to maintain it.

Cars are such a blessing and a curse, aren't they, so necessary and give you so much independence but also costly to run and difficult to repair yourself if you don't have the skills/tools/time etc.  We've had lengthy periods over the years when we didn't have a vehicle and it is something I really miss if/when the time comes.  But sometimes it does just get too much to keep one on the road.  I'm sorry to hear it has to go (((((((((Bonesie))))))))))) xx

[BonesMS]

Found this article through Reddit:

http://www.goyourownway.org/GOYOUROWNWAY/DOCUMENTS/EMOTIONAL%20WELLBEING/EMOTIONAL%20BLACKMAIL.pdf

It's nice to see you posting, Bones   I hope things are starting to pick up a little.  I'll have a read through that article later, it looks interesting xx

Thanks, Tupp.

I'm still trying to work through stuff.  I had to arrange to get rid of my car for good as I'm no longer in any position to be able to maintain it.

Cars are such a blessing and a curse, aren't they, so necessary and give you so much independence but also costly to run and difficult to repair yourself if you don't have the skills/tools/time etc.  We've had lengthy periods over the years when we didn't have a vehicle and it is something I really miss if/when the time comes.  But sometimes it does just get too much to keep one on the road.  I'm sorry to hear it has to go (((((((((Bonesie))))))))))) xx

Thanks, (((((((((((Tupp)))))))))))

Between my medical bills, my vision changes that impact my ability to see well enough in traffic, and everything else, I had to yield to the logic of the situation.

[Twoapenny]

Found this article through Reddit:

http://www.goyourownway.org/GOYOUROWNWAY/DOCUMENTS/EMOTIONAL%20WELLBEING/EMOTIONAL%20BLACKMAIL.pdf

It's nice to see you posting, Bones   I hope things are starting to pick up a little.  I'll have a read through that article later, it looks interesting xx

Thanks, Tupp.

I'm still trying to work through stuff.  I had to arrange to get rid of my car for good as I'm no longer in any position to be able to maintain it.

Cars are such a blessing and a curse, aren't they, so necessary and give you so much independence but also costly to run and difficult to repair yourself if you don't have the skills/tools/time etc.  We've had lengthy periods over the years when we didn't have a vehicle and it is something I really miss if/when the time comes.  But sometimes it does just get too much to keep one on the road.  I'm sorry to hear it has to go (((((((((Bonesie))))))))))) xx

Thanks, (((((((((((Tupp)))))))))))

Between my medical bills, my vision changes that impact my ability to see well enough in traffic, and everything else, I had to yield to the logic of the situation.

Yes, I get that, I find driving in the dark difficult these days and can see a time when it really won't be an option anymore.  From there, I'm guessing not driving at all is the next step.  It's hard giving up the independence but as you say, people need to be sensible, bills need to be paid and none of us wants to cause an accident with our doddery driving!  Hugs, Bonesie xx

[BonesMS]

Found this article through Reddit:

http://www.goyourownway.org/GOYOUROWNWAY/DOCUMENTS/EMOTIONAL%20WELLBEING/EMOTIONAL%20BLACKMAIL.pdf

It's nice to see you posting, Bones   I hope things are starting to pick up a little.  I'll have a read through that article later, it looks interesting xx

Thanks, Tupp.

I'm still trying to work through stuff.  I had to arrange to get rid of my car for good as I'm no longer in any position to be able to maintain it.

Cars are such a blessing and a curse, aren't they, so necessary and give you so much independence but also costly to run and difficult to repair yourself if you don't have the skills/tools/time etc.  We've had lengthy periods over the years when we didn't have a vehicle and it is something I really miss if/when the time comes.  But sometimes it does just get too much to keep one on the road.  I'm sorry to hear it has to go (((((((((Bonesie))))))))))) xx

Thanks, (((((((((((Tupp)))))))))))

Between my medical bills, my vision changes that impact my ability to see well enough in traffic, and everything else, I had to yield to the logic of the situation.

Yes, I get that, I find driving in the dark difficult these days and can see a time when it really won't be an option anymore.  From there, I'm guessing not driving at all is the next step.  It's hard giving up the independence but as you say, people need to be sensible, bills need to be paid and none of us wants to cause an accident with our doddery driving!  Hugs, Bonesie xx

Thanks, Tupp.

I've even told my insurance agent that I don't want to be one of those crazy old farts proclaiming:  "I'll stop driving when they pry the car keys from my cold, dead hands."  I've encountered one such idiot TWICE when I was still able to drive!  That idiot had NO business driving at all!!!!

[BonesMS]

I've been doing some research to refresh my memory now that the DSM-5 is out.  A recent incident, in my condo meeting, prompted me to search and find this:

https://www.mentalhelp.net/articles/dsm-5-the-ten-personality-disorders-cluster-b/

I won't go into any details yet as the situation is still ongoing with a FULL-BLOWN N!

[Twoapenny]

Found this article through Reddit:

http://www.goyourownway.org/GOYOUROWNWAY/DOCUMENTS/EMOTIONAL%20WELLBEING/EMOTIONAL%20BLACKMAIL.pdf

It's nice to see you posting, Bones   I hope things are starting to pick up a little.  I'll have a read through that article later, it looks interesting xx

Thanks, Tupp.

I'm still trying to work through stuff.  I had to arrange to get rid of my car for good as I'm no longer in any position to be able to maintain it.

Cars are such a blessing and a curse, aren't they, so necessary and give you so much independence but also costly to run and difficult to repair yourself if you don't have the skills/tools/time etc.  We've had lengthy periods over the years when we didn't have a vehicle and it is something I really miss if/when the time comes.  But sometimes it does just get too much to keep one on the road.  I'm sorry to hear it has to go (((((((((Bonesie))))))))))) xx

Thanks, (((((((((((Tupp)))))))))))

Between my medical bills, my vision changes that impact my ability to see well enough in traffic, and everything else, I had to yield to the logic of the situation.

Yes, I get that, I find driving in the dark difficult these days and can see a time when it really won't be an option anymore.  From there, I'm guessing not driving at all is the next step.  It's hard giving up the independence but as you say, people need to be sensible, bills need to be paid and none of us wants to cause an accident with our doddery driving!  Hugs, Bonesie xx

Thanks, Tupp.

I've even told my insurance agent that I don't want to be one of those crazy old farts proclaiming:  "I'll stop driving when they pry the car keys from my cold, dead hands."  I've encountered one such idiot TWICE when I was still able to drive!  That idiot had NO business driving at all!!!!

Ah, Bonesie, I know what you mean, it would be funny if it weren't so dangerous!  I love the independence of driving and I know when the time comes to stop I'll feel sad but I'd feel much worse if I killed someone!  A friend of mine is going through exactly this with her mum at the moment - she ran someone over and it then turned out she had cataracts and could barely see.  They've been operated on so now she wants her licence back.  Her eyesight's still not great and she's just getting pretty doddery so it really seems more sensible to use the bus.  She lives in a rural area and won't move, so if she can't drive she'll become increasingly housebound.  We all hope we'll stay healthy and fully functioning until we just pass quietly in bed but life just isn't like that.  I think it's so important to accept our limitations - particularly when they may affect someone else.  And sometimes you meet nice people on the bus! Lol.  I hope you are doing okay.  Lots of love xx