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« Reply #8190 on: March 01, 2019, 03:59:38 AM »
I love going to castles, ruined or otherwise :)  There are lots of stone monuments across the country as well, pagan structures that have been there for thousands of years in some cases.  So many houses going to rack and ruin as well, which is scandalous when we have so many homeless people.  And such a shame, there would have been a time when a big fancy house would have had a family in it who would have loved it and looked after it.  It's sad to see things just no longer be :(

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« Reply #8191 on: March 01, 2019, 07:19:08 AM »
I love going to castles, ruined or otherwise :)  There are lots of stone monuments across the country as well, pagan structures that have been there for thousands of years in some cases.  So many houses going to rack and ruin as well, which is scandalous when we have so many homeless people.  And such a shame, there would have been a time when a big fancy house would have had a family in it who would have loved it and looked after it.  It's sad to see things just no longer be :(

I agree!!

It's such a shame.
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« Reply #8192 on: May 12, 2019, 09:08:43 AM »
How are things with you, Bonesie?  I seem to have become a surrogate mother for some of the cats in our area :)  There are three that visit most days now.  They go to the front door because they've learnt that if they go in the back garden our cat attacks them :)  So they sit out on the front step; sometimes they're there when I get home and other days they'll be outside first thing in the morning.  They're very cute and friendly; I don't think they all live in the same house (going by the info I've had from the neighbours) but they seem to have made a little gang and wander about together.  So cute.  I hope things are going okay with you xx

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« Reply #8193 on: May 12, 2019, 08:14:47 PM »
How are things with you, Bonesie?  I seem to have become a surrogate mother for some of the cats in our area :)  There are three that visit most days now.  They go to the front door because they've learnt that if they go in the back garden our cat attacks them :)  So they sit out on the front step; sometimes they're there when I get home and other days they'll be outside first thing in the morning.  They're very cute and friendly; I don't think they all live in the same house (going by the info I've had from the neighbours) but they seem to have made a little gang and wander about together.  So cute.  I hope things are going okay with you xx

I'm still taking things one day at a time.  I just got home from a two-day festival a little while ago and feeling a little tired.  I participated in three drum circles over the course of two days which was a lot of fun.

Those cats sound ADORABLE!
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« Reply #8194 on: May 13, 2019, 01:21:59 AM »
How are things with you, Bonesie?  I seem to have become a surrogate mother for some of the cats in our area :)  There are three that visit most days now.  They go to the front door because they've learnt that if they go in the back garden our cat attacks them :)  So they sit out on the front step; sometimes they're there when I get home and other days they'll be outside first thing in the morning.  They're very cute and friendly; I don't think they all live in the same house (going by the info I've had from the neighbours) but they seem to have made a little gang and wander about together.  So cute.  I hope things are going okay with you xx

I'm still taking things one day at a time.  I just got home from a two-day festival a little while ago and feeling a little tired.  I participated in three drum circles over the course of two days which was a lot of fun.

Those cats sound ADORABLE!

Oh Bones, the drum circles do sound like fun!  Is it a shamanic thing or more of a musical thing?  Son and I are going to a shamanic one in a few weeks' time.  Never been before, have spoken to the guy and he also works as a sound therapist so has worked with people with learning disabilities like my son's before.  I'm looking forward to it but also a bit nervous!  Great to hear you enjoyed it :)  The cats are so cute, they're like a little gang.  One poked her nose through the front door yesterday because I'd left it open to air the place while I cleaned and our cat boffed her on the nose - she's so grumpy! Lol x

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« Reply #8195 on: May 13, 2019, 08:42:40 AM »
How are things with you, Bonesie?  I seem to have become a surrogate mother for some of the cats in our area :)  There are three that visit most days now.  They go to the front door because they've learnt that if they go in the back garden our cat attacks them :)  So they sit out on the front step; sometimes they're there when I get home and other days they'll be outside first thing in the morning.  They're very cute and friendly; I don't think they all live in the same house (going by the info I've had from the neighbours) but they seem to have made a little gang and wander about together.  So cute.  I hope things are going okay with you xx

I'm still taking things one day at a time.  I just got home from a two-day festival a little while ago and feeling a little tired.  I participated in three drum circles over the course of two days which was a lot of fun.

Those cats sound ADORABLE!

Oh Bones, the drum circles do sound like fun!  Is it a shamanic thing or more of a musical thing?  Son and I are going to a shamanic one in a few weeks' time.  Never been before, have spoken to the guy and he also works as a sound therapist so has worked with people with learning disabilities like my son's before.  I'm looking forward to it but also a bit nervous!  Great to hear you enjoyed it :)  The cats are so cute, they're like a little gang.  One poked her nose through the front door yesterday because I'd left it open to air the place while I cleaned and our cat boffed her on the nose - she's so grumpy! Lol x

It's mostly a musical thing.  We've even had the opportunity to jam with other musicians, which is a lot of fun!

Your grumpy cat sounds FUNNY!!  Lol!
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« Reply #8196 on: May 13, 2019, 12:25:21 PM »
She is funny, Bones, but so moody, but that's what I like about cats!  They just do what they like and they don't care what anyone thinks!  Some mornings she sits on the window ledge and watches me make a fuss of the other cats and when I go back in the house she swipes at me as I walk past because she's annoyed that I talked to the others!  Lol xx

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« Reply #8197 on: May 13, 2019, 01:18:26 PM »
She is funny, Bones, but so moody, but that's what I like about cats!  They just do what they like and they don't care what anyone thinks!  Some mornings she sits on the window ledge and watches me make a fuss of the other cats and when I go back in the house she swipes at me as I walk past because she's annoyed that I talked to the others!  Lol xx

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« Reply #8198 on: August 19, 2019, 05:22:04 AM »
How are you doing, Bonesie?  I always think of you when (a) I see a cute cat and (b) when I hear someone say something sassy :)  Lol, hope you're doing okay xx xx

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« Reply #8199 on: August 19, 2019, 07:11:44 AM »
How are you doing, Bonesie?  I always think of you when (a) I see a cute cat and (b) when I hear someone say something sassy :)  Lol, hope you're doing okay xx xx

Thanks, Tupp.

I've been dealing with Round Two of Shingles.  I finally found a place that will give me my Shingles shot but I have to wait until this Round is no longer active before I can get my vaccination.

Otherwise, I'm taking things one day at a time.

I've been having fun watching cute cat videos on Facebook.  Some of my former classmates also love cats and what they've been sharing on Facebook is ADORABLE!!!
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« Reply #8200 on: August 21, 2019, 12:44:27 PM »
How are you doing, Bonesie?  I always think of you when (a) I see a cute cat and (b) when I hear someone say something sassy :)  Lol, hope you're doing okay xx xx

Thanks, Tupp.

I've been dealing with Round Two of Shingles.  I finally found a place that will give me my Shingles shot but I have to wait until this Round is no longer active before I can get my vaccination.

Otherwise, I'm taking things one day at a time.

I've been having fun watching cute cat videos on Facebook.  Some of my former classmates also love cats and what they've been sharing on Facebook is ADORABLE!!!

Oh no, Bones, shingles must be awful and to have it twice as well?!  You poor thing.  I didn't know they could do a vaccination for it so I'm glad you've found that's possible.  Do you have any idea how long it will be before you'll be able to get it done?  It sounds like rotten luck to get it twice!

I love cute cat videos!  They do such daft things sometimes as well, it's lucky they have nine lives with all the falling off things and so on that they do.  There was a show on last night that had some cute cat videos and in one of them the cat was trying to reverse himself through a small gap in a window the same way you'd reverse a car, it was hilarious :)

I hope you start to feel a bit better soon xx xx

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« Reply #8201 on: August 21, 2019, 12:51:42 PM »
How are you doing, Bonesie?  I always think of you when (a) I see a cute cat and (b) when I hear someone say something sassy :)  Lol, hope you're doing okay xx xx

Thanks, Tupp.

I've been dealing with Round Two of Shingles.  I finally found a place that will give me my Shingles shot but I have to wait until this Round is no longer active before I can get my vaccination.

Otherwise, I'm taking things one day at a time.

I've been having fun watching cute cat videos on Facebook.  Some of my former classmates also love cats and what they've been sharing on Facebook is ADORABLE!!!

Oh no, Bones, shingles must be awful and to have it twice as well?!  You poor thing.  I didn't know they could do a vaccination for it so I'm glad you've found that's possible.  Do you have any idea how long it will be before you'll be able to get it done?  It sounds like rotten luck to get it twice!

I love cute cat videos!  They do such daft things sometimes as well, it's lucky they have nine lives with all the falling off things and so on that they do.  There was a show on last night that had some cute cat videos and in one of them the cat was trying to reverse himself through a small gap in a window the same way you'd reverse a car, it was hilarious :)

I hope you start to feel a bit better soon xx xx

Thanks, Tupp.

The vaccination becomes available for folks around the age of 60 and my local grocery store can give it to me the next time I go shopping.  I hate needles but I hate Shingles even more so I'm going to grab the opportunity and get it done.

One of the videos I saw in my Facebook group shows a cat giving itself a facial with one of those electric massagers!  It's hilarious!!!!    I couldn't stop laughing!
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« Reply #8202 on: August 21, 2019, 02:29:29 PM »
Hey Bones, you've been away from the board a little while I think. Shingles sounds like a biotch.

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« Reply #8203 on: August 21, 2019, 03:16:20 PM »
Hey Bones, you've been away from the board a little while I think. Shingles sounds like a biotch.

It is!!!!  Shingles is NASTY!!!!!  Anyone who has had Chicken Pox is at risk of getting it.
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« Reply #8204 on: August 21, 2019, 03:33:50 PM »
Hope it clears up soon for you and in the mean time you find something to sooth the symptoms.