To answer your question about the girl, child services did a thorough investigation while she REMAINED IN MY CARE, and they found no substantial evidence that would validate Laura's claims of abuse.
my claims of abuse? hmmm. I seem to recall several conversations of you crying out to me of how your sister was throwing your neice to the ground, locking her in her room, degrading her verbally. My claims were your admission from the start. Please keep that in mind. I didn't come up with information of what was going on in that home on my own, when I live miles from you.
. Do to RMs (Lauras) accusations to authorities, it has completely destroyed our family
Granted, this "family" was the only one you have ever known...cruel, narcissistic (by your admission) "mother" and "sister"...and my accusations were based on what you told me. As far as "destroying our family" there was no healthy family to begin with in the first place. If it was, this would not be able to destroy it.
What I did, was expose the situation so that the people who needed to be, would be found out and dealt with. Your mother and sister were not engaging in a healthy relationship with you to begin with...putting you down, turning your children against you...even stealing custody of one of them...lovely family, Robin...come ON! Your mother and sister both were extremely cruel and intimidating and, yes, I will say it, MENTALLY ILL. Maybe now that they are not talking to you, you are finding some peace about who you are. i pray so. I've been with you through all those times too.
because of my ties to RM, (which they knew prior that we were friends) all my family was torn apart and I am no longer accepted as a daughter, nor will my own Sister acknowledge that I even exist or "break bread with ever again!" rendered Voiceless maybe?? I'd have to say YES!
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As for you not being accepted as a daughter? That's nothing new, Robin. Your mother disowned you for years, any time you dared to confront her about how she talked to you. Let's call a spade a spade here, since you want to share about how your association with someone who LOVED you enough to take action, has so destroyed your family. Your sister treated you worse than dirt for years as well, playing her own chlidren against you, lying about you, accusing you. I am not the enemy here, Robin.
Sorry, but it's time to really be objective and honest about things. I realize that now that you have cut me out of your life, you might need to find a good "reason" to justify it, other than "I had this friend that reported my sister for abusing my neice when I couldn't do it." I did what YOU would have done if you knew someone in my family was abusing someone...or maybe you wouldn't?
I pray for all the people online that ever speak of abuse to RM cause I was not the first that RM decided to report to CPS over the years I have known her online. So many broken people, court cases and damaged families. Very sad indeed.
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really? broken people? court cases? where? whom? damaged families? hmmm wow is all I have to say...just totally unreal, Robin. Maybe you were never a real friend to me after all, since the abusers in your life are now more desirable to be there, than the very one who tried to help restore it and who stood by you for years through a lot of VERY difficult things. Why would you even WANT to protect the very people who abused and allowed others to abuse you?
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