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Thanks To My Friends- Some Blissful News I Have To Share!!!
« on: October 12, 2007, 11:03:22 PM »
Hello All-

Tonight was the final time for filing my response to NH Bagworm's attempt to take my little disability check. It made me sick to see the lies about me, and the Bagworm's blatant attempt to steal out there in print. I saw that the first lawyer was not going to be able to defend me- the items were wrong on the documents, and the lawyer said unkind things about clients whose cases (and children) were lost in court etc- I was unnerved and frantic. I made many calls and had to deal with law school , problems with taxes because of the Bagworm, and many other stupid difficulties that kept me up day and night.

Then I got a call from a man with a dulcet voice and intelligent, polite manner. He is a senior in a major firm and well-connected, etc, seemingly way out of my league for counsel as money is tight and the Bagworm took our savings, etc, leaving me a less-than-wealthy, ridiculous, cane using law student (not a major client) in a cleared-out house. Still he wanted to meet with me despite the pressing filing date.

I met with him after school. He has major degrees and gives seminars to the judges on the issues that are in my case. I had tried to be as Izzyfied as possible, and had gathered enormous amounts of evidence (easy with the myriad wrongdoings of an N), and the lawyer said that he was impressed (little did he know that it was Izzy that he was impressed with.) He took my case, and I continued faxing evidence, etc.

I wrote my Declaration and he fashioned it into the most beautiful thing I have ever seen. I have no TV or stereo etc here among the boxes, but I am mesmerized by the filing document, refuting every lie and documented to the hilt, and am happy just readimg and rereading it! It is such a wonderful thing- he has told me to relax, Bagworm's rent-a -lawyer will no longer be able to harass me, and to concentrate on school again. He also said that my writing was good, coherent and logical, etc , which made me happy.

When I said goodbye after the initial consult, I asked him not to think that I am a crazy, but that I wanted him to know that he was an answer to prayer- he said, "I understand- I have a doctorate in divinity!!!"

Somehow, all of the evidence starting flowing in- Bagworm's liquidation of shared assets, his fraudulent assertions to the court, etc. I feel vindicated and happy and feel no tension- AHHH!

Thank you Faithful Ami- you are always right about divine providence. Lighter thank you dear feisty one- your martial skill and talent have saved me more than once- Izzy you perfect, adorable and wonderful person, if only I could emulate you 24/7, I would rule the planet!!!Hoppy My Dear Wise Woman-Iphi the all-encompassing Legal Mind-Mountainspring the sweet inspiration for living with love kindness and uprightness-Hope the gentle Grounding Force- Kind Witty Gratitude-Bright Lupita-generous Dr. Grossman-Devilish artist Janet and her owls-Brave and gutsy Bonesy-Loyal strong MudmuppyAnd my Beautiful Friends Finding Peace, Poppyseed ,Really Me , Gaining Strength , Tayana ,Teartracks, Overcomer ,Beanie, CB123 -thank you for your incomparable help and support. you have transformed my life and helped me when I was isolated and troubled.

I know that I may lose in court, but it would not be because I didn't have the best friends supporters and advisors. My heartfelt thanks.

Many Hugs and Great Love to All,

Changing

P.S. Hooray!!!

C.
« Last Edit: October 14, 2007, 01:08:42 AM by changing »

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« Reply #1 on: October 12, 2007, 11:18:24 PM »
Dear Changing,

What wondeful news!!!!.........................And bless Mr. Dulcet.

.......I can just see you reading the Document over and over and over (I would do that).

Thank you for giving me credit, for whatever you take from my posts.

Still wishing yoiu all the best for the outcome in your favour!!!

Love
Izzy




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« Reply #2 on: October 12, 2007, 11:25:05 PM »
Hello All-

Tonight was the final time for filing my response to NH Bagworm's attempt to take my little disability check. It made me sick to see the lies  about me, and the Bagworm's blatant attempt to steal out there in print. I saw that the first lawyer was not going to be able to defend me- the items were wrong on the documents, and the lawyer said unkind things about clients whose cases (and children) were lost in court etc- I was unnerved and frantic. I made many calls and had to deal with law school , problems with taxes because of the Bagworm, and many other stupid difficulties that kept me up day and night.
Then I got a call from a man with a dulcet voice and intelligent, polite manner. He is a senior in a major firm and well-connected, etc, seemingly way out of my league  for counsel as money is tight and the Bagworm took our savings, etc, leaving me a less-than-wealthy, ridiculous, cane using law student (not a major client) in a cleared-out house. Still he wanted to meet with me despite the pressing filing date.

I met with him after school. He has major degrees and gives seminars to the judges on the issues that are in my case. I had tried to be as Izzyfied as possible, and had gathered enormous amounts of evidence (easy with the myriad wrongdoings of an N), and the lawyer said that he was impressed (little did he know that it was Izzy that he was impressed with.) He took my case, and I continued faxing evidence, etc.

I wrote my Declaration and he fashioned it into the most beautiful thing I have ever seen. I have no TV or stereo etc here among the boxes, but I am mesmerized by the filing document, refuting every lie and documented to the hilt, and am happy just readimg and rereading it! It is such a wonderful thing- he has told me to relax, Bagworm's rent-a -lawyer will no longer be able to harrass me, and to concentrate on school again. He also said that my writing was good, conherent and logical, etc , which made me happy.

When I said goodbye after the initial consult, I asked him not to think that I am a crazy, but that I wanted him to know that he was an answer to prayer- he said, "I understand- I have a doctorate in divinity!!!"

Somehow, all of the evidence starting flowing in- Bagworm's liquidation of shared assets, his fraudulent assertions to the court, etc. I feel vindicated and happy and feel no tension- AHHH!

Thank you Faithful Ami- you are always right about divine providence. Lighter thank you dear feisty one- your martial skill and talent have saved me more than once- Izzy you perfect, adorable  and wonderful person, if only I could emulate you 24/7, I would rule the planet!!!Hoppy My Dear Wise Woman-Iphi the all-encompassing Legal Mind-Mountainspring the sweet inspiration for living with love kindness and uprightness-Hope the gentle Grounding Force- Kind Witty Gratitude-Bright Lupita-generous Dr. Grossman-Devilish artist Janet and her owls-Brave and gutsy Bonesy-And my beautiful Friends ( Please forgive me , I am running out of batteries so I will have to continue the roll call after I recharge and log back on) thank you for your incomparable help and support. you have transformed my life and helped me when I was isolated and troubled.

I know that I may lose in court, but it would not be because I didn't have the best friends supporters and advisors. My heartfelt thanks.

Many Hugs and Great Love to All,

Changing

P.S. Hooray!!!

C.


Congratulations, Changing!!!!  (And I would LOVE to put foot up bagworm's you-know-where the sun never shines but his head is already stuck up there!)

Bones
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« Reply #3 on: October 13, 2007, 06:59:53 AM »
Oh Changing.
That is a delicious scene.
You amid the boxes. Validated. Smiling.

I have a friend in a major lawsuit. I have lived and breathed her case with her.
She sends me declarations and other documents and I eat them up.

I am sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
happy to hear about this. And it wasn't providence, imo, it was your
courage and determination.

BRAVO!

love
Hops
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« Reply #4 on: October 13, 2007, 07:24:02 AM »
Dear Changing,
  That Doctor in Divinity---- WHAT a touch, Changing. Your situation is such an example of Divine Providence, You did the steps on the physical earth and God took care of the things that were beyond your control.
  I really knew in my heart that things would come through for you b/c you have to have a special place in God's heart(IMO).
  You are a little feisty thing who has always had every reason to give up. You are like a "cartoon character" who has all the things fall on him,hit him, roll over him, but he gets up and keeps running.  I know that your way of approaching life has to be the plan for all of us.
   I will print out your post and take it with me.
  It is a sign that we need to do all we can on the earth and then just give it up to the Father who loves us.
 Changing, you are a hero. (don't say" no". I can see you there shaking your head).  We all can inspire  others if we chose to go the route of courage like you have.
 I really am in "awe" of how God worked it out BUT I knew all the time that He would.
           Much Love to a person who exemplifies "winner" .   Ami                                             
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

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« Reply #5 on: October 13, 2007, 07:30:04 AM »
Vindication helps heal the N wound.  In fact I think it is the only thing that takes away the sting!  Good for you!  Now in exhale!
Kelly

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« Reply #6 on: October 13, 2007, 07:38:38 AM »
Changing..... he did come your way like an answer to a prayer.

And he was the one seeking out your case.

Hmmmm.... why.... do you think that is?

You got his name or he called out of the blue?

This is such an enchanting story...... I would be reading those legal docs again and again too, lol!

Someone talked to him or your words caught this man's interest and as soon as I have coffee..... I'm doing the happy dance!

((((Changing))) ) 

Do as he says...... concentrate on school.  You've done the work for him.  Time to take care of school.... time to reap the benefits of all this hard work: )

I'm interested in hearing what he said about keeping bagworm's attorney off your property.

I have tons of questions... come back and post an update when you can ::clapping happily::

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« Reply #7 on: October 13, 2007, 09:18:23 AM »
Woohoo! Very exciting!  Like Lighter I want to hear all the details! 
Character, which has nothing to do with intellect or skill, can evolve only by increasing our capacity to love, and to become lovable. - Joan Grant

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« Reply #8 on: October 13, 2007, 11:31:30 AM »
Changing,

That sounds so encouraging! I'm so pleased for you. You've done so much of the work already, but I know it helps to have someone to take what you've already found out and use it to get an outcome that's what you need right now.

I'd love to hear more details, too, when you've got time.

Janet

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« Reply #9 on: October 13, 2007, 08:27:46 PM »
(((((((Changing)))))))) times they are a'changin... for sure!

Beholding the glory over here  :)

Love to you and prayers,

Carolyn

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« Reply #10 on: October 14, 2007, 01:41:10 AM »
Thank You For Your Posts-


It is so wonderful to have the incredible friends I have here to share my news with and to have them rooting for me as well!!!

In desperation, I called many lawyers and law firms. It seemed quite inpossible, with the filing date so close. This lawyer had my number on his Blackberry, I suppose from my calling his firm. He is extremely conscientious, and called until we spoke. The firm is in a ritzy area pretty far away, and I thought that it would not work out, but it did, and I am so happy and thrilled with the work product and the courtesy that I have been shown.

My lawyer is making it clear that I am not to be trifled with any longer. Even the documents so far have flourishes of this, requiring Bagworm and Moron (his name for NH Bagworm's rent-a-lawyer !) to jump through many hoops (instead of over my fence!), and stay away unless they have an appointment set by the court, specify every little item,etc. He also expressed outrage and scorn in the docs in a skilful, non-histrionic, and powerful way, and his elegant scholarly style reeks of major consequences to anyone stupid enough to ignore its hidden threat of legal retribution. He has humiiated them and their cheap and nasty quasi-legal or even patently illegal antics with a high-class on the level example of real honest work by an attorney!

Bagworm may now have to give me 100% of our money because the law requires this in instances of fraud, as an incentive for honesty in divorce property settlements. Frankly, I wasn't even trying to get half, I just was so happy and content to be free of NH Bagworm and his abusive tactics. The fraudulent filings by Bagworm are now amply contested  in great detail with excellent documentation, just as I dreamed they would be. Now, even if there is some funny business at the District level, I have things spelled out for the appeal, showing that the District should have reasonably seen the fraud, etc.

I am so happy!!!

Thank you so much for everything My Dears-
Love,

Changing

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« Reply #11 on: October 14, 2007, 08:17:45 AM »
Dear Changing,
  There is a proverb which says that if a thief  steals from you, you will get back 7 times what he stole(loose paraphrase).
 I BET( see if I am right) that you will get back so much more than you ever imagined.I am really excited to see how it is going to transpire.
  No one should mess with you(God's child)  b/c they have to answer to your Father who loves you very much.
  It sounds strange,but we really are protected.I have seen it with Maria(in her life) and I have seen it in my life.When  person has been abandoned by their family, God 'takes" them up in a special way.
  This is going to be exciting to see how you get back many times more than what Bagworm stole from you.                                 Love    Ami
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« Reply #12 on: October 14, 2007, 03:41:27 PM »
Oh My changing,

I didn't know until now that you had another post full of goodies, and WOW!!! Did you ever find the right person to look at the situation and tell it like it is! He's my hero for you. i'll bet you could 'love him to death'!!

This sounds so positive, I could jump up and down

Love Izzy

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« Reply #13 on: October 14, 2007, 04:44:42 PM »
Ami and Izzy-

Thank you for your wonderful support- it certainly makes the rough times smoother and the happy times even happier!!! Izzy, your bug is very funny- it looks like the old Cootie game! I am so grateful for my classy yet kind lawyer, and I feel now that whatever happens, at least I did my best (by being Izzyfied) and presented the truth and alll the documentation (yes Ami I may get more than what was stolen...I wasn't seeking it, but it certainly is the law!!!)

Thank you again you wonderful things,

Changing

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« Reply #14 on: October 14, 2007, 05:42:20 PM »


((( Changing )))

Such uplifting and encouraging news!

You mention that you have presented the truth.

Praying for you that this truth will set you free!  Indeed!

Love

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