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alone48

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There is a God
« on: October 18, 2007, 10:06:55 PM »
Not that I ever doubted it, but this week there was proof.

I'm trying hard not to get too excited because that is when N strikes, it's almost like he can smell it. I have been out of work since July and was just offered a new job starting next week. It's a little less $$ than my previous, but alot less stress. They called to verify my references the day before N called my ex boss. If I can just lay under the radar for awhile, maybe I have a chance of getting through this.

Thanks again for listening and all the support.

Ami

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Re: There is a God
« Reply #1 on: October 18, 2007, 10:12:21 PM »
I am so happy for you,Alone. Very,very well done, my friend.             Love   Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
   Carl Jung

Iphi

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Re: There is a God
« Reply #2 on: October 18, 2007, 10:40:36 PM »
I very much hope it all comes together for you!
Character, which has nothing to do with intellect or skill, can evolve only by increasing our capacity to love, and to become lovable. - Joan Grant

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Re: There is a God
« Reply #3 on: October 19, 2007, 12:01:54 AM »
This is wonderful A48!

So happy for you!

Care to share a little about the job??

happily,
Hops
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alone48

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Re: There is a God
« Reply #4 on: October 19, 2007, 12:52:32 AM »
I had gone a month with no contact and then he called wanting to know if I was alright. I emailed him back and said I was fine but didn't feel that I could talk with him at this time. He became enraged and contacted my ex boss with all kinds of lies and basically shredded my character. He didn't know that I don't work there anymore. I won't to deal with this, but am more afraid of him than anger at this point. It seems like no matter what I do it makes him angry. I know he hates women, but I seem to be the target for all of it. Advice?

This was from my previous post. He had thought my ex boss was a friend since they golfed together several times. He is very charming and had tried to convince my boss that I had done some things that weren't in the best interest of my department. I knew it was coming to that and therefore I left before he discredited me. There is alot more to it, but ultimately I knew he was very charming and convincing. I went back to my previous job of over 18 years ago. I had really liked it, but left when I had my son due to the distance. No longer a problem and N doesn't know where I am at the moment......! He is out to destroy me and therefore I'm leary about telling too much at the moment.....a lot of paranoia.

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Re: There is a God
« Reply #5 on: October 19, 2007, 01:11:12 AM »
Lol. I thought you were going to show me pictures!

(sorry)

Congratulations on finding a new job. I know how much that means, and I am glad to know you will have this opportunity to start afresh! I am not a `believer', but I can remember so many uncanny and wonderful things happening to me when i ws trying to rebuild my life, just when I needed them to happen.

X Bella
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lighter

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Re: There is a God
« Reply #6 on: October 19, 2007, 06:17:11 AM »
Hey... you aren't paranoid when someone's out to get you, lol!

You're just being mindful ::nod::

Continue to be mindful, take care and try not to be found by N.

I sure hope you get that job: )

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Re: There is a God
« Reply #7 on: October 19, 2007, 10:44:34 AM »
So happy for you!


Love,
poppy