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VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
« on: October 22, 2007, 06:07:27 PM »
Hello My Wonderful Friends Who Stick With Me Through Thick and Thin!

We won , in fact it was a savage beating!!!!

I got to court before my lawyer. Bagworm was there with the fence jumper Moron, and they looked at me like cartoon wolves looking at a lamb, seeing the dotted lines drawn around the lamb chops, etc. in their minds and salivating. Then they resumed talking (I hid around a corner and listened) It made me sick to hear them discuss my surgeries and disabilities as something for them to get money on, destroy me with, and yet to put me down about. Bagworm  had looked at me like he did the day he brought the police over (the jackal).

My lawyer was late, in another court- I called and then spoke to the bailiff for him. There was a lady in court who was crying, so I gacve her a candy and a kKeenex and told her I was going to be next one crying. She laughed and I calmed her down. She won her case and kissed and hugged me afterward-Bagworm and Moron were puzzled.

Then they got a new look on their mugs- They began to read the papers we had filed(Why didn't they do that before!?!?). I heard Moron ask Worm about account numbers and such, and Worn answered, "Oh that's my Credit Union account (the one he drained!!!!) and then he asked him when I was accepted to law schoo;l. Then my lawyer came .

We were directed elsewhere- my lawyer said this had never happened before. The judge didn't want to hear the motion  and it was sent to a mediator which should be for custody only. They asked to speak to the lawyers only, and Moron got admonished that he should be ashamed to have wasted my time and the court's time setting the hearing up, when there is obviously no valid claim!!! (This is extremely unusual)

Bagworm had wanted $2,000 per month and other things!!! My lawyer threw the other guy a bone and they got $40 a month support , though my lawyer said that soon I will get that back and get a substantial support instituted for myself- he wanted to get things together and present a cogent argument all at one time, and not charge more hours for today.  Isn't that a hoot!!!

To save face the other lawyer then asked about arrearages- my lawyer asked me quite solemnly if I ciould pay $5 per month until I got the $20 back support paid. I said yes sir , if that is what you think... Moron said that he could not wait, he must have his client's back $20 by the 15th of November (Oh he fought for that)!!!!! My lawyer asked if I could pay the entire $20 by the 15th and I paused and said yes sir, I think so!!!Bagworm was almost crying by then- it was absolutely the funniest thing ever... He had on a very expensive outfit ( I had a plain suit and shoes) - it will take 10 years to pay for that outfit at the rate of $40 per month , and even longer to pay the lawyer fee!!!!!!! (But he won't be getting it anyway)

I also got the entire tax deduction on the house, etc, and get a tax deduction for the $40 a month in exchange for paying the support. Moron actually had to ask my lawyer how to fill things out, etc, and Bagworm was upset as this went on, closed his eyes, etc.!!!!!!!!!! I get to decide when Bagworm comes to pick uo his things, and I am to have protection there (my lawyer said the marshall!!!)- no surprise panty drawer inspection, he must list everything he wants first and I must agree!!!!

When Bagworm signed the stipulation, he was despondent and had a tragic smile on his repulsive face!!!! All that for $40 a month !!!!!!

Thank you so much for being there for me, propping me up, pushing and informing!! I couldn't wiat to come home and post!!!

This was just a little hearing, and the big stuff  (trial or negotiations) is ahead, but my lawyer said that we are going to demiolish them!!! And he said that here will be no more fence jumping or cops threatening to shoot me because of false claims made by Bagworm!!!!

We won, and it was fun, too!!! I missed class because the case was held over, but I will explain the circumstances.

Thank you for your invaluable help and support!!!! I am getting free from that NH Bagworm with your help!!!!

Love and Peace,

Changing

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Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
« Reply #1 on: October 22, 2007, 06:23:54 PM »
Changing,

I am so very, very happy for you!!!

You deserve everything to be sorted out in your favour now.

I hope Bagworm feels absolutely gutted tonight.

It's 11.20pm here, and I have been waiting up to find out how things have gone with you today.


Yeeahhh!!!



Janet

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Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
« Reply #2 on: October 22, 2007, 06:24:51 PM »
Congratulations, Changing!

Ya Ya Ya doing the happy dance!!  :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

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Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
« Reply #3 on: October 22, 2007, 06:25:52 PM »
WOW Changing,
  In my heart ,I knew that you would win BIG. You are so precious , Changing.
   I am so very, very happy for you. Sometimes  "right" wins over "might".Bagworm reaped what he sowed--huh?                        Much love to you ,          Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
« Reply #4 on: October 22, 2007, 06:38:54 PM »
Well that was immensly satisfying to read, lol.  

(((CHANGING)))

::jumping up and down with joy::

And the very very very best part...... is that Bagworm is going to go to bed mumbling to himself tonight!

No more happy unrealistic fantasies about taking all your money and making you support him!

Oh woes he!  

Poor poor Bagworm and his rediculouse moron attorney.

I loved the part where you listened to their conversation around the corner...... I know that intrigue.

Amazing that they seemed puzzled by your joy, shared by the distreauht wonman you comforted.  They didn't recognize compassion or truth prevailing..... they think it's all a game.  

Whoever lies the best is the winner...... but not so.... uh ho!

Congrats, changing, my friend!

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Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
« Reply #5 on: October 22, 2007, 06:39:30 PM »
Janet, Izzy, Ami, Lighter-

Thank you for keeping watch for me- I am crying with joy and gratitude, I feel so proud to have such friends. This is how people should be treated in life,  accepting one another when they are up or down and watching each other's backs- and I love it!!! It really makes the bitter less so and the sweet sweeter !!!Thank You and Bless You !!! I only hope that I can be there for you as well , amongst life's vagaries.

Love ,

Changing

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Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
« Reply #6 on: October 22, 2007, 06:40:01 PM »
                                                                                             CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


                                                                                                                 

Wonderful, wonderful news! 

Changing - I am so happy for you!


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« Reply #7 on: October 22, 2007, 06:52:13 PM »
I am throwing confetti and jumping with joy for you!!

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Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
« Reply #8 on: October 22, 2007, 06:56:12 PM »
This thread title could be a country song, lol.

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Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
« Reply #9 on: October 22, 2007, 07:00:01 PM »
Finding Peace and Poppyseed-

You have both held my arm as I walked shakily down my hellish dark hall and into the light of freedom from abuse and misery. It makes me so happy to share good news as well with you. Thank you so much for your posts.

Love and Hugs,

Changing

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Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
« Reply #10 on: October 22, 2007, 07:29:08 PM »
The only way this night could get better.... is if Lupita comes on and had a great day too!


No more bagworm in  your dresser drawers.  His stuff has been on the lawn for a while and he's such a piggy liar when he said you were denying him his things..... no more manipulating the cops by God I wish I could buy that fine attorney of yours a drink!

::singing:: Ding Dong the Bagworms.... ummmm.....

PEGGED!  the bagworm's pegged, the Bagworm's PEGGED!

Ding Dong the bagworm has been pegggggged.

Ha!

Craggy old german witch voice.... singing....

"Who's da leetle mouuuusy munching on my houuusy?"  I just love that one.... threw it in there for Halloween cheer!

I'm absolutely ecstatic!  ::going to watch Courage the cowardly dog before bed::

Nite all.... sleep tight, ((changing))  You've changed into a confident butterly, haven't you, lol?

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Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
« Reply #11 on: October 22, 2007, 10:27:02 PM »
Really great news!  I'm very very happy for you changing.

Wonder if the bagworm is planning to stiff his attorney now....  yes most likely.  :D
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Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
« Reply #12 on: October 22, 2007, 10:30:06 PM »
Oh my lord, Changing, this is SWEET to read!

I am just drooling with glee, must admit.

Right does sometimes prevail, and I'm so glad it's happening to you!!

I can't imagine what a fantastic lawyer YOU are going to be.
You will always have this experience in your quiver to remember
when you face clients who are dueling with Bagworms...

Good for you. Absurd that you're paying Bagworm even a nickel,
much less $40/month...that part I don't understand...but if
you are happy with it, so'm I!!  :) :D :D :D

love
Hops
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« Reply #13 on: October 22, 2007, 10:34:59 PM »
This is such wonderful new Changing; thankyou so much for sharing such an uplifting story!

PS. I thought it was so cute the way you comforted the crying lady and gave her candy:) You are such a  honey!

X Bella


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Re: VICTORY IS SO SWEET (WHEN YOU FIGHT A LYING N)
« Reply #14 on: October 23, 2007, 09:33:04 AM »
Oh, dear Changing  :D  :D  :D    I do soooo love to hear of N falling into the very pit he dug for his prey! Big hugs to you and prayers that the rest of this process breezes by just like a bit of fluff in the wind. I know how small a consolation is the settling, considering the bushels of havoc that NPD wreaks in the liives of those of us who try to relate to them as though that were possible... and yet it's cause for rejoicing to see some small measure of justice enforced, finally. Many blessings to you of peace and joy and fulfillment... every bit of the abundant life which is your inheritance!

With love,
Carolyn