Dear Lupita,
I was thinking about this thread since last night.
I think that a person can get "whole"(even if they had a bad FOO) with a spiritual connection. I think that a person can get so connected to God that God can wipe away the pain and fear.
God can send human beings to us who have a "mission" to help us ,also.(I think that Observer was sent to you)
Look at NDE's . People radically change after these(often).
I don't think that God would allow us to be sentenced to a "prison" of bondage just b/c we had a bad parent.
There is an experience called the "Baptism of Love". Several people have had it. Andrew Wommack, Lief Hetland and Jack Frost are some. They experienced God's love so deeply that they had a major "shift". Andrew could not talk in front of people. Now, he speaks at huge conferences (5000 people). He is on radio and TV and he doesn't even get nervous. He was in Vietnam. He thought that he was going to die and he was "joyous" b/c he was going to finally see God.He was so 'in love' with God .
Leif Hetland was very "ego" driven. He was the president of a big ministry. His worth was in this.When He received Gods love,he became like a little child--loving and open. Jack Frost felt very rejected by his father. After this experience,he felt loved and whole.
I believe that God can restore us to wholeness. He will use other people,also. Love Ami .
That's how I got to 'be'
Got to be where I am now.
Because, way back then, I really had no-one at all, no-one knew about Nism and co, so they kept their distance, because they did not know 'what to say'. Understandable, I did not know either.
Received a beautiful e-mail yesterday, from a once dear friend, who sent her apologies, for not being there for me. Truly, wonderful surprise.
Sought God's face, did not lean on my own understanding, but trusted in Him, as He guided me, along the way. Believe that is how I came acroos this board, in addition to other resource sites. We are so blessed to have the Internet with it's liberating resources.
Love to you, ((( Ami ))) and ((( Lupita ))) too.
Wishing you peace, hope, love and joy, today, and always.
Leah