Kimberli's story

[Hopalong]

Welcome, Kimberli:

Just wanted to say how astute this sounds to me:

I did all the feeling for my mother and this depleted me psychologically

With that capacity for insight, there's no way you won't heal and grow whole and happy if you keep at it!

Don't be discouraged. I married two Ns and had multiple MORE Nbfs before I put it all together. There is no scorecard that CEMENTS anything. You ain't cement. You're a person with just as much inborn capacity for learning and healing and happiness as anyone else.

Thank you for sharing your story.

This is one of the wisest most exciting and most comforting spaces in my life; I hope you'll find it that way too.

Hopalong

[Ami]

I am glad  that there is no "scorecard" Wheh-                 Lol                    Ami

[sea storm]

Thanks for sharing your story Hops.  I think that if Ns can snow someone like you, then they can tar
get and wreck havoc in anyone's life.  I remember taking great comfort when you said that a few months ago. There was so much shame for me in being taken financially and emotionally.

I agree that this is a good place.  For all the craziness on the Internet, this is a calm and reverent place of solice.  And it keeps being like that.  isn't that lovely.

Sea storm