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Re: Setting the record straight about Ami
« Reply #180 on: December 12, 2007, 03:24:43 PM »
Gabben/Lise,

I thought I said, earlier today, to keep God out of it?

It's unhelpful, and sidetracks the issues.


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Re: Setting the record straight about Ami
« Reply #181 on: December 12, 2007, 03:28:38 PM »
Leah,

Please know that you have my support and validation also.  I think it is very obvious that you are being baited.  Take a deep breath, Leah.  Your new shoes fit you very well.  It's time to leave them to themselves.  

This is what abuse does, this is what it feels like.  I'm exhausted from it too. 

On Edit: You are being consistently falsely accused by another poster because you are speaking the truth. 

« Last Edit: December 12, 2007, 03:31:16 PM by paps »

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Re: Setting the record straight about Ami
« Reply #182 on: December 12, 2007, 03:29:39 PM »
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I thought I said, earlier today, to keep God out of it?

Yes, please, keep God out of things. 
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Re: Setting the record straight about Ami
« Reply #183 on: December 12, 2007, 03:30:58 PM »


for the benefit of herself, and for the benefit of her friend Ami, who have formed an unhealthy, enabling pact.

Of whom, it is clearly evidently to all those who can * see * that they are unhealthily enmeshed.




People can see that you are just jealous of the type of love and support that I give Ami..perhaps our support for one another. That is why you have smear it.  If you ever expressed your real emotions, Leah, I would reach out to you with compassion and friendship, AND SUPPORT.

I think you hurt because no one ever rescued you when you were an innocent little victim?


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Re: Setting the record straight about Ami
« Reply #184 on: December 12, 2007, 03:32:51 PM »
You can't rescue another Lise.  It doesn't work.  Google it and learn.

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Re: Setting the record straight about Ami
« Reply #185 on: December 12, 2007, 03:33:18 PM »

Leah,

Please know that you have my support and validation also.  I think it is very obvious that you are being baited.  Take a deep breath, Leah.  Your new shoes fit you very well.  It's time to leave them to themselves.  

This is what abuse does, this is what it feels like.  I'm exhausted from it too.


On Edit: You are being consistently falsely accused by another poster because you are speaking the truth. 




Thank you, Paps

You have my utmost respect and I gladly receive your wise counsel.

Gratefully thankfull that you acknowledge and validate my 'new shoes'

Love, Leah

« Last Edit: December 12, 2007, 03:39:19 PM by LeahsRainbow »
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Re: Setting the record straight about Ami
« Reply #186 on: December 12, 2007, 03:33:55 PM »
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I thought I said, earlier today, to keep God out of it?

Yes, please, keep God out of things. 


Ask God himself to stay out ---- LOL

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Re: Setting the record straight about Ami
« Reply #187 on: December 12, 2007, 03:39:27 PM »
Do you find that funny Lise? Because I don't.

I'm not Christian, and I dislike when people use God to defend their positions, whether their positions are wrong or right. 

My sperm donor once told me, right after he'd walked out on me while I was pregnant with his child, that God would forgive him.  The funny thing about it is, that he can't forgive himself.

So, please, leave God out of it.  Leave religious beliefs out of these discussions, and if someone wants to look at things from a Bibilical perspective, start a new thread.
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Re: Setting the record straight about Ami
« Reply #188 on: December 12, 2007, 03:42:30 PM »
Do you find that funny Lise? Because I don't.

I'm not Christian, and I dislike when people use God to defend their positions, whether their positions are wrong or right. 

My sperm donor once told me, right after he'd walked out on me while I was pregnant with his child, that God would forgive him.  The funny thing about it is, that he can't forgive himself.

So, please, leave God out of it.  Leave religious beliefs out of these discussions, and if someone wants to look at things from a Bibilical perspective, start a new thread.


Tayana - I would rather be wrung here public shame than leave God out of anything. 

I stand up for what I believe at the risk of....

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Re: Setting the record straight about Ami
« Reply #189 on: December 12, 2007, 03:44:11 PM »

The Jezebel spirit is in contrast to the will of God. Her will has become god. Her will must be accomplished, regardless of the consequences. Not only did Jezebel steal authority, she manipulated those in leadership. She used lies and distortions. God waits for someone to stand up to her - to confront her.

Many succumb to the Ahab spirit and simply turn their heads from her tactics. They reason that, after all, she is religious and works hard in the Church. The greatest weakness among leaders is the fear of confrontation. They want peace without paying the price of confronting the manipulation and controlling tactics of the Jezebel spirit.


Lise..... you keep making spot on posts..... but you're describing Ami.... not Leah.

I wish you and Leah would give your personal conflict, created by Ami's drama, a rest.

::Singsong voice::   Ami's doesn't appreciate sharing the limelight, lol.

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Re: Setting the record straight about Ami
« Reply #190 on: December 12, 2007, 03:44:52 PM »
Dear Leah,

You are one of the most caring and gentle souls it has been my pleasure to know.

Much love,
Peace
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Re: Setting the record straight about Ami
« Reply #191 on: December 12, 2007, 03:46:23 PM »
hmmm "Leave GOD out of it"...shown by the actions of the shooter at Columbine.  I'm GLAD that girl DIDN'T leave Him out, even when it cost her her life!

It would behoove many to get to know Him and be set free from all borderline and Narcissist issues once and for all.

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Re: Setting the record straight about Ami
« Reply #192 on: December 12, 2007, 03:52:49 PM »
three more hours, three more, hours, three more hours.......


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Re: Setting the record straight about Ami
« Reply #193 on: December 12, 2007, 03:54:10 PM »
Dear Lise,

Again, with respect and peaceful intent.  I just saw your post that you believe that Leah wants to appear like a * saint *  Is it possible you are being triggered by her – triggered because she reminds you of your advisor?  Just a thought.

I also wanted to ask you if you think it would be a good idea to step back for now and not post to or about Leah, especially here now?  Just a peaceful suggestion. 

The following is to both you and Ami:

I believe that this could be a huge life-altering moment for Ami (and please believe me when I say I have only good intentions to her).  She has posted so many uplifting things to people, including me. 

She seems to me to be in an emotional vortex, one that I believe was created by her mother, and that has continued throughout her life to today.  I know this vortex it is an awful place to be stuck.  I hope and pray that she will be able to see this vortex for what it is - and finally be able to break through it.  There is a lot of love and peace waiting on the other side. 

Much love,
Peace 
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Re: Setting the record straight about Ami
« Reply #194 on: December 12, 2007, 03:59:49 PM »
Gosh
  I cannot explain this ONE fact enough. Janet told me NOT to PM her and I stopped.That is what happened. I don't get the two week business.
 I think that every person simply has their own personal dog(issues) in this fight. It is an angry lynch mob of woman(OUCH)     Ami
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Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
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