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Ami

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Lollie's Story
« on: December 19, 2007, 07:59:59 AM »
Dear Lollie,
  You have such a "sweet" voice. I can picture you as soft and gentle. It seems that you have had  great courage to move forward,instead of giving up(which is often the "easier" option).
  I can relate to much of your story.I clung to my F( the good parent).
  I knew that my M was off. I tried to make up for it by looking "good".* I* had to have a good image so she would look good..
 I have tried to please therapists(many times) and lost what *I* needed ,in the therapy.
  The board ,for me, provided the most healing. As I face the truth,I heal. My journey is simply to face what IS and to separate the lies from the truth. the truth is that we ARE worth s/thing. That basic truth will take us a long way to health(IMO)
 I am so glad that you are here and working on issues, which is the reason for the board's existence.
                                     Love    Ami

((((((((((Lollie)))))))))))))))
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lighter

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Re: Lollie's Story
« Reply #1 on: December 20, 2007, 04:32:50 AM »
Quote from: lollie on December 19, 2007, 04:23:54 PM
Actually, your mom sounds like she does have BPD issues. Have you ever read the book, "Understanding the Borderline Mother" by Christine Lawson? I haven't yet (somehow I can't get past the title b/c I want to understand bordeline fathers..my bad), but from what I hear, it's very, very good.


::Putting book on list of books to buy::

Thanks Lollie. 
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