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If you have moved out and your wife and child remain in the home, there are often certain guidelines set up by the court, especially for the good of the minor child. If there has been physical violence there are also often more strictures on your activities in relation to visiting the premises, etc. You can often get information about your respective legal requirements from the local court as well as your attorney, on such topics as Domestic Violence Orders, Temporary Support Hearings, and property division rules. The more that you understand, the better it may be. It is imporatant that you get your legal advice from legitimate sources.
Here we can give you support and offer our own experience , but things vary so widely regionally and as to the specific facts as well. Hope you are taking care of yourself and that things are settled with a minimum of strife, for your sake.
Best Wishes,
Changing