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Overcomer

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Re: Enmeshment
« Reply #15 on: January 15, 2008, 10:21:14 PM »
It sounds like me and my mom.  For many years I could not make a decision without her approval.  I realized that it was pretty convenient for me because if it die not work out I could blame her.  I could never do anything without per approval.  Even now I do not do anything when she is around.  She takes the motivation out of me.
Kelly

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Ami

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Re: Enmeshment
« Reply #16 on: January 15, 2008, 10:23:19 PM »
The N M is very hard to overcome, Kelly. It just is. I "hope' it is NOT impossible(lol) !         `     Ami
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.        Eleanor Roosevelt

Most of our problems come from losing contact with our instincts,with the age old wisdom stored within us.
   Carl Jung