Lea, sometimes I get confused. Because I agree with your post but still I am confused.
For example, the Maslow piramid says thet you first satisfy you physiological needs. For example if you need to go to the bathroom and you cannot you will not be able to enjoy the most beautiful concert. Then your other needs, food, roof, etc. Then your socual needs and on the top is the validation thing, I called it the thing.
That means that we are not hungry, we are not cold, we have computers, we do not have war, we have a job, we have a car, we have legs, eyes, taste, ears, hear music, we can talk, write to each other, but that is not enough. Oh no, we need the stupid validation.
Who said that we need validation?
We did.
Well, we dont.
WEll, I dont know.
In the cave age, they were happy if they got a mamuth to eat. A cave to live and they held their wives by the hair. Did they have depression?
IN countries where they are hungry they have less depression because they have to survive and cant think in validation "thing".
The thing. THE THING

I dont know what I want to say. IN my country I never had AC. Now after ten years in USA I would dye with out AC.
I dont know what I want to say. If you can translate it for me, it is OK.