Back in January I posted about my difficulties with my former roommates of my 4 bedroom city flat.
One of my roommates is a sweet heart, clean respectful quiet and nontoxic in that she is able to communicate her feelings in a honest way without stepping on others toes.
My other two roommates were hostile. One was a bully the other suffered from paranoia.
What amazes me is that I put up with the negative energy and hostile silent daggers for so long, over a year.
As soon as I wokeup to the reality that I unconsciously attract and can even unconsciously provoke hostility, as well as I made a conscious choice to no longer feed off of it. Such as, the moment the air gets hostile I turn a way and seek a peaceful place such as church, or warm kind people, was the moment that the dynamics of the roommates shifted.
When there is hostile energy here on the board, I am selective of what I read and how much time I spend here.
Anyway, the point is is that as soon as my internal boundaries became stronger as I made the conscious choice to not accept hostility or meanness, both of my roommates moved out -- No discussion, no drama -- just 30 days and they are gone! It was as if they both got on some level that I could not be messed with anymore.
Also, I am attracting non-hostile people.
Now, I have new roommates and they are wonderful, nondemanding, self reliant, gregarious, real, honest, engaging, warm.
The energy in the house feels soooooooo good. Before, with Jess(bully) and Becky, suffering from paranoia (I feel for her), the house energy was tense and I used to walk in with my shoulders up and wanting to run to my room to avoid to much interaction with either because it always caused a sick feeling in my gut.
Progress! It paid off to work hard and meet many people, all along trusting that God would put the right people in my life!
