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Re: Mother was a Narcissistic Rageaholic
« on: February 20, 2008, 12:48:20 PM »
Bones,

I am so sorry!  This is the saddest story I have ever read on any forum.  I do believe that your mother was MORE than a narcissist.  Where is she buried, I'd like to spit on her grave, and I am not vindictive. 

Where was your sister in all of this?  Where the heck was your father?   What the "bleep" was wrong with that therapist giving you money for a bus ride home?  She should have been on the phone turning your mother in to every mental health agency and the police.

How are you doing today?  How does one overcome all of that?  Please tell me that you don't blaime yourself and that you do have a therapist.  My heart goes out to you. 

Mac

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Re: Mother was a Narcissistic Rageaholic
« Reply #1 on: February 20, 2008, 05:41:13 PM »
Bumping this up so Bones doesn't miss it on pg. 2 when she checks in...


Hi, Mac... welcome!

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Re: Mother was a Narcissistic Rageaholic
« Reply #2 on: February 20, 2008, 08:36:22 PM »
Mac,

What a loving post.

And, hello!

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Re: Mother was a Narcissistic Rageaholic
« Reply #3 on: February 22, 2008, 07:53:10 AM »
Bones,

I am so sorry!  This is the saddest story I have ever read on any forum.  I do believe that your mother was MORE than a narcissist.  Where is she buried, I'd like to spit on her grave, and I am not vindictive. 

Where was your sister in all of this?  Where the heck was your father?   What the "bleep" was wrong with that therapist giving you money for a bus ride home?  She should have been on the phone turning your mother in to every mental health agency and the police.

How are you doing today?  How does one overcome all of that?  Please tell me that you don't blaime yourself and that you do have a therapist.  My heart goes out to you. 

Mac

Thanks, Mac.

My Dad had died several years before.  Back then, the therapists were not as "enlightened" then as they are now.  I still feel rage and hate toward her for what she did to both me AND my brother!  She was one sick and twisted monster!

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Re: Mother was a Narcissistic Rageaholic
« Reply #4 on: February 22, 2008, 07:55:32 AM »
((((((((((((((((((((BonesMS))))))))))))))))  YOU  have overcome SO much, Bones!                             Love   Ami
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Re: Mother was a Narcissistic Rageaholic
« Reply #5 on: February 22, 2008, 08:00:48 AM »
((((((((((((((((((((BonesMS))))))))))))))))  YOU  have overcome SO much, Bones!                             Love   Ami

Thanks, Ami!

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Re: Mother was a Narcissistic Rageaholic
« Reply #6 on: February 25, 2008, 07:44:33 PM »
(((((((((((Bones))))))))))  I just read your latest note on the story board. That woman was so horribly warped, dear Bones... and it's nothing to do with you. None of the garbage she said or did had anything to do with you.

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Re: Mother was a Narcissistic Rageaholic
« Reply #7 on: February 25, 2008, 07:48:50 PM »

Dear ((((((((( Bones ))))))))))))

Sincerely, my heart reaches out in light of all you have endured.

Hope your day goes well -- or has gone well  [I am hopeless with the time zone factor] 

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