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debkor

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Re: Attitude: do you have a choice ?
« Reply #15 on: April 22, 2008, 12:05:47 AM »
Hey Iz,

What ever happened to the guy driving the car?  How did he respond to what he did to you?  Just wondering you don't have to answer.


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Deb

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Re: Attitude: do you have a choice ?
« Reply #16 on: April 22, 2008, 12:06:09 AM »
Izz, you did NOT:

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Came home after a year of abandoning my 5 yr. old daughter

AND SHE KNOWS THAT NOW.

You were trapped for months in a Stryker frame and in lengthy rehab, and you were abandoned.

And you have finally cried.

You and your daughter are both whole human beings.

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Re: Attitude: do you have a choice ?
« Reply #17 on: April 22, 2008, 01:18:59 AM »
Hello Hops

Thank you for posting the truth,

I posted what I did, for impact, as gjazz thinks I just had a broken leg. Not her fault; she and I have not really met....just beginning.

Some thoughts are there, then disappear? but linger in one's memory for a while.....that's me.

Appreciated as you know

Love Izzy

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Re: Attitude: do you have a choice ?
« Reply #18 on: April 22, 2008, 01:36:53 AM »
Hey Iz,

What ever happened to the guy driving the car?
  How did he respond to what he did to you?  Just wondering you don't have to answer.
Love
Deb

He was charged with Dangerous and Reckless driving and lost his license--- big deal, but I sued him and won!---this was 1969.

At the hospital that night he stepped into the ambulance that was taking me from one hospital (intial treatment and x-rays) to another with a neurosurgeon and orthopedic surgeon, and he said, "I am sorry, Izzy. I will telephone the sitter and let her know". That was 4:30 a.m. and after that he went out to hire a lawyer. What he said to me was 'admission of guilt'. His lawyer, according to mine would have told him to say nothing to me. Too late. I was conscious from beginning to that and knew everytrhing, then I was given a shot for the next ambulance trip.

I was so conscious of things that I told my father that the sitter had not been paid for that evening then staying all night. He went to her and she wouldn't take more than $2.00.
Then when a pastor sneaked in, I asked her if she would telephone my mother and have the newspaper stopped. That made her cry, because I had worse things to worry about than the newspaper. I have to laugh, sometimes, in retrospect at how practical I am/was

Then he was tranferred to Germany and had to make trips back for the provincial court charge, then the examinations for discovery re the civil suit. We would be in the same waiting room with me in a wheelchair, in a frilly blouse and a jumper, with the cather bag strapped to my thigh, and we said not one word to one another.

I could write a book, eh?

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Izzy
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Re: Attitude: do you have a choice ?
« Reply #19 on: April 22, 2008, 01:23:52 PM »
Iz,

Yeah you could write a book and then a mini series.  I really, am amazed at you.  I don't think that you are a person that I will ever forget Iz. I have learned many things from you and I hope to keep them with me forever.

I loved that movie Fried Green Tomato's and when I think of you I think of the strong character (Twandaaaaaaaaaa) in the movie.
That's the type of person you remind me of.  Lot of heart,deals with problems and strong, strong, strong and just does what has to be done, yet, a teacher and may not even know it.

When I feel scared and weak I will think (IZZZZZZZZYWANDAAAAAAAAAAA) and know I can do it cause you did.

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Deb

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Re: Attitude: do you have a choice ?
« Reply #20 on: April 22, 2008, 04:24:27 PM »
Heh heh heh Deb,

You are so funny and sweet. I loved that movie too. It showed the dysfunction in another generation, but the BBQ was a little queasy making.

I had a book in mind, but when resentment and anger left, the book began to fade away.

I expect I might have been thinking, a book, with no happy ending would bring forth answers, but I was given my answers first.

I don't see myself as anyone special, but as someone who just kept on trekking to find an 'end' of the road!

Love
Izzy
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